Zingaphi kaninzi uvakalelwa kubafazi: "Ndiyayithiya indoda yam"! Kwaye le binzana inokufihla ininzi - kunye ne drama, kunye nomdlalo, nothando, nobutsha, nesono, nokuhlengwa.
Ukukhuselwa - ngendlela efanelekileyo
Iingcebiso ezingenangqiqo malunga nento omele uyenze xa uthe wenyanya umyeni wakho, ngokucacileyo akunjalo. Izizathu zenzondo ziba nemikhwa emininzi, inkohlakalo, ukungabikho komsebenzi, ukungabikho komsebenzi wangaphandle, izenzo. Kanye kunye nobudlelwane ngokwabo, imiba yezinto eziphathekayo kwaye, ngokwenene, izalamane. Okokuqala, phendula umbuzo: "Kutheni ndiyayithiya indoda yam?" Kuba mna. Kwaye-ke-uhlale uzolile, nangona kunzima, kwaye usebenze, kodwa ngokukhalipha kunye nokulumkisa. Kubalulekile ukulinganisela zonke iimeko ukuze unqume indlela yokuqhubeka.
Umyeni ngumntwana omkhulu
Ngokona nxalenye, amadoda afana neentana ezinkulu. Xa, ukuzonda umyeni wakho, ucinga malunga noko ukwenzayo, khumbula ukuba ubuhlobo obunzima bunjani kubantwana abaneminyaka emi-5-7 ubudala. Apha kweli nqanaba amadoda axelela bonke ubomi bawo. Bambalwa banda ukuya kwi-14-15 kwimpumelelo yayo. Kwaye abafazi banokukhula bonke ubomi babo. Kwaye, ngokuzalwa komntwana, bakhula ngokukhawuleza - bajonga nje yonke into ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ngenxa yoko, awuzange utyumke ngokuphendula kwakho - ungamthiyile umyeni wakho ngenxa yoko, kuba umntu omdala uhlala edla. Xa usabela kwisimo sakho sengqondo, othembekileyo uphakamisela isandla sakhe - khumbula ukuba abantwana banelungelo lokukhwabanisa kunabantu abadala.
Inzondo ikufanele isebenzele
Qinisekisa ukuba kukho impendulo yakhe kwiimvakalelo zakho. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukuqala ukuzonda umyeni wakho, awuyi kumdabukisa, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo, yenze iimeko, "i-springboards" ukuba ikhululeke into ethile. Ngexesha elifanayo, ukuzonda umyeni wakho, awufumani nto ngaphandle kokuzilimaza. Ngaphezu koko, indoda ingenza inzondo ngakuwe - ngoku kudala izimo ezilungele ngakumbi kuye. Umgaqo oyintloko: ukuba ngenxa yokuba uyayithiya indoda yakho, iyanceda-ngoko kufuneka uzikhusele ngokupheleleyo ngokungabikho kwemvakalelo emibi kunye nemizwa yakho. Uphi umonde? Kwaye akudingeki ukuba uthathe kuyo nayiphi na indawo - vula ingqalelo yakho kwenye imisebenzi - vumela le nxalenye yengingqi yakho ingabonakali lonke ihlabathi elivela kuwe.
Xa kuthengiswa
Ukuba imeko yakho yenzondo ibangelwa ukutshatyalaliswa kwendoda yakho - oku kuwonakalisa kakhulu iimvakalelo. Ukungahambelani kwesi simo kukuba, ukuzonda umyeni wakho ngenxa yokunyaniseka, ukwandisa ukuzithemba kwakhe, okucacileyo kungekho kwiminqweno yakho. Ukunyamekela ukukhohliswa, ulinganisa konke okubalulekileyo kwesi siganeko, kubandakanywa nendoda. Kwaye umntu oyingqondi, ubuthandi aluzuzi. Ingaba uqhawula okanye ucinga ukuyeka ukuzonda umyeni wakho, isimo sengqondo sokuzola kunye nesimo esifanelekileyo kwimeko ethile, kuya kuba luncedo kuwe.
Ukulwa kwamandla
Ngamanye amaxesha inzondo ibangelwa ngumnqweno wokulawula intsapho. Kuthekani ukuba uyamthiya umyeni wakho ngenxa yokuthatha indawo oyithandayo kwikhompyutheni ngokulula, uhlamba iiyure ezimbini, okanye ungamnquli, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uzibhikisha? Into eyona nto kukuba uqaphele ukuziva inzondo kunye nesizathu esabangela ukuba. Ngoku uxhobile ngolwazi-ezi ziganeko zifanele zinyanzeliswe, zitshintshwe zivela kwenye indawo, zifumane indawo yazo.
Xa uqhawule umtshato
Akukho mfihlo yokuba nangemva kokuqhawula umtshato, abaninzi abantu bayayithiya indoda yabo yangaphambili. Isizathu esinokuthi kukuba iimvakalelo zakho azizange zikhuphe okwamanje. Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukuba senze, kwaye akukho mzekelo ukuxhomekeka kukuphelelwa yithemba, ukuphelelwa lithemba, ukungafungi nokuba ungakhathazeki. Ukhululekile - le nto yintloko. Ngoku uhlambe kuyo yonke into enonokukufumana ngayo - i-sanatoria, iiklabhu zempilo, amagumbi omntu, iilayibrari, iimyuziyam, iifrithi, iincwadi zakho ezizithandayo, iintyatyambo okanye izandla zobugcisa (okanye mhlawumbi ukuhamba?) - yonke into ikubiza, ilinde ingqwalasela yakho,
Uthando lusaphila
Xa umfazi uthi uyamthanda kwaye uyamzonda umyeni wakhe, oku kubonisa ukuba ubudlelwane babhekana neengxaki zesikhashana. Emva koko, uthando luyakwenza nantoni na. Ngendlela, kubonakaliswa ukuba uthando luyimveliso ecocekileyo, isethi yokuziphendulela kwamakhemikhali. Kwaye i-chemistry, oko kukuthi, into, inokutshintshwa kakhulu nje - isethi yemveliso echithwe. Qinisa ukutya kwakho kunye namavithamini, ingakumbi iqela B, udle iiprotheyini ezingaphezulu, ushukela ongaphantsi, kodwa uvule ubusi, ushokoledi, ungaphazanyiswa nekhofi - iyancipha. Zizikhuphe ngaphandle kokudandatheka, ukuba unyuke kuyo, wandise ukuzithemba kwakho-kwaye yonke into ekugqibeleni iya kuphucula. Inhlanhla!