Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu basebenzisa oko kuthiwa "amancinci", nangona bengayazi noko bathethayo, oku kusebenza nakumaqabane. Amadoda amaninzi abiza abantu abafazi "abangenalo" ngabafazi, nangona eli gama lilungelekanga apha.
Ngoobani abafazi?
Ukuvula i-Wikipedia nokufunda inkcazelo yeli gama, yonke into iyawa kwindawo. Ngokucacileyo kwaye ngokucacileyo ithi abafazi basetyhini abalwela amalungelo alinganayo namadoda. Isiqubulo - "indoda enesondo esomeleleyo", sele iyingxaki. Lo usekuhlaleni lokuqala, amadoda ayenamkeli, kunye nabasetyhini beyakha indlu yentsapho, namhlanje yonke into iyahluke. Abasetyhini basebenze kwimigodi, baneenkampani eziyinkimbinkimbi kumafektri, ukuqhuba ibhasi kunye nokulahla iilori, ngokubanzi, ukujamelana nayo nayiphi na "umsebenzi wesilisa". Ukwandisa, kukho abesetyhini abaxhalabisayo ngamadoda kwaye ngoko banamandla kwaye banokungenakwenzeka.
Umzekelo omhle yi-heroine ye-movie eyaziwayo "UMoscow akakholelwa kwiinyembezi" uKaterina. Ibhinqa ngenxa yeemeko zobomi kunye nokubuthathaka komntu othandekayo, uye waba namandla kwaye azimele. Ufikelele kwinqanaba lomsebenzi wakhe, wathenga indlu yakhe, wafunda ukuqhuba imoto waza wadana kakhulu amadoda.
Ukuba sicinga ngowesifazane wesimanje, ngoko kunzima ukufumana ukungafani nolu mfanekiso. Amantombazana amaninzi anenkxalabo malunga nokusebenza kunye nokuzineliseka, kungekhona ikhaya lokuthuthuzela kunye nobomi bemihla ngemihla. Yingakho kukho into enjalo njengowesifazane, oko kukuthi, ukulingana kwentlalo yabesilisa nabasetyhini.
I ngcamango engalunganga
Ingxaki ephambili yoluntu yanamhlanje kukungazi nokungazi. Umbono wokuthi owesifazane ungumfazi onobudlova, ofana nendoda kunye nomntu ongeyonto.
- Ukuguquka kuvela kumntu wonke, kuba oku kuphendulela ekukhuthazeni. Oku akusibonakaliso sesimo somntu, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba sisifo sengqondo. Emva kwakho konke, namhlanje inkulungwane, xa iingxaki kufuneka zixazululwe ngokungabikho ngokugqithisileyo, kodwa ngezopolitiko. Ngoko ke, ukucinga ukuba bonke abasetyhini abasetyhini basisidenge.
- Ubhinqa bhinqa lunokuxhomekeke kwimimandla eyahlukeneyo, kodwa kungekhona kumfazi. Isizathu sinokuthi, umzekelo, ukuphazamiseka kwe-hormonal, imfundo engafanelekanga, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kunye nezinye iingcinezelo.
- Inyaniso yokuba ama-feminist alwela ukulingana ngokwesini akuthethi ukuba bayabutha abantu. Uninzi lwabafazi abanjalo banolonwabo ngobudlelwano, bathandekayo nabathandekayo. Inzondo e-Misgen yisoloko iyingxaki yowesifazane othile oye wafumana uxinzelelo olukhulu ebomini bakhe, edibene nesini esahlukileyo.
Ukungabi nabulungisa kwangempela
Kukho iimbono kuluntu onokukhubekisa ngokwenene abafazi abaninzi abaphumelelayo. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu uye waphumelela kakhulu kumsebenzi wakhe, unemoto kunye nendawo yokuhlala, ngoko wonke umntu uyamjonga ukuba uphumelele kwaye usebenza nzima, kunye nabasetyhini abanezinga elifanelekileyo lentlalo -
Kwamkeleke kwihlabathi lanamhlanje ukuba ibhinqa alimi esitofu ixesha elide imini nobusuku, kwaye ayinamathele isokodo lomyeni wakhe. Owesifazane wanamhlanje uzama ukuzibonela, ukufumana indawo epholileyo emphakathini kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo sifumane indoda efanelekileyo kunye naye onokuyakha ulwalamano olusondeleyo lweentsapho. Into ephambili indoda eyoyiqhayisa ngayo loo nto isondeleyo kuye ngumfazi oqinileyo.
Enyanisweni, ibhinqa ngumfanekiso wesibuko wehlabathi lanamhlanje, inkqubela phambili kwezobuchwepheshe kunye nembono kawonkewonke. Kodwa ukuba uqonde oku, mhlawumbi kufuneka utshintshe into yakho, ngoko abaninzi abantu besifazana baya kuhlala bengumfazi okhohlakeleyo othiya abantu.