Ngamanye amaxesha, emva kweminyaka emininzi yobomi bentsapho, ndifuna ukuzisa ulwalamano olusenyongweni. Yilapho i ngcamango ivela malunga nokuqaliswa komona kwiqabane. Kule meko, kunokwenzeka ngokwenene ukunceda nokuvuselela ubudlelwane phakathi kwabatshatileyo. Kodwa enye into, xa umona unomphela, ungonakalisa nokuba neentlungu zothando. Ukususela kwimbono yengqondo, ukukhweleka kukungabi nokholo kumlingane, ukwesaba nokungaqiniseki. Kodwa ngenxa yeemvakalelo ezinjalo azikho ngaso sonke isiganeko, iziganeko ezingenangqiqo zokukhwabanisa azinqabile kakhulu, kule ngxaki inzululwazi ibona ubukhwele ngokubhekiselele kwimithwalo ekutshintshelweni kwimeko phantsi kwamagxa omlingane, ukuxela iingxaki zayo kwaye uyamoyika. Ezinye iingcali zithandekile ukukholelwa ukuba iimvakalelo ezibangelwa ngumona onomona zibonakalisa ukungaxhatshazi kwangaphakathi kunye neengxube, kwaye umfanekiso wesithandane okanye umphikisana naye ufanelekile ukuba "mna", ongenakwenzeka ukuba usondele.
Ubukhwele besilisa nabesifazane
Akukho mfihlo yokuba amadoda nabasetyhini bazive behluke. Ngoko ke, kwingqondo yengqondo, umona wesilisa nomfazi unemvelaphi eyahlukileyo kunye nembonakalo.
Amadoda amaninzi azama ukuba namandla amakhulu phezu komfazi, ekunciphiseni uluhlu lwezonxibelelwano lwakhe kunye nenkululeko yakhe yokususa abaphikisana nabo. Emva koko ukwenza ukuba le ntliziyo inokwenjenjalo - i-makeup ekhanyayo, iimpahla ezinesibindi, intlanganiso kunye nabahlobo ngaphandle kobukho bayo. Abo bantu abazithembekileyo ngokwabo kwaye banako ukuthembela kwabo iqabane baya kuba nomona kuphela xa bebona i-cock coquetry yesiqingatha sesibini kunye namanye amadoda. Phakathi kwabantu bokudala onokudibana nabo kunye nabangenamdla abaya kuba nomona kuphela xa befunda malunga nokunyaniseka.
Abafazi banomona ngezinye izizathu, ngokuqhelekileyo esi sivakalelo sibangelwa ngumona. Ukuqwalasela ukuba umkhethiweyo wakhe akakhokheli ingqalelo encinane kuye, umfazi ulahlekelwa yingqiqo yokhuseleko kwaye uzama ukuyibuyisela nganoma iyiphi indlela. Ngaloo ndlela, umona wesifazane uvame ukulingana nomntu wakhe. Kakade ke, akufanele uhlaziye umona owavela ngenxa yokunyaniseka.
I-Psychology - indlela yokulahla umona?
Kwimixholo yomona obhaliwe ezininzi zeencwadi, zombini ubugcisa, njenge "Othello", kunye nezesayensi, njenge "Psychology of jealousy"