Ziziphi iimpawu ezifanele ukuba owesifazane ofanelekileyo? Masizame ukudala umfanekiso wayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, wonke umntu unengcamango yakhe malunga nale nto, kodwa iimpawu ezithile ezenza ummeli onobulungisa okhangayo, nangona kunjalo, unokwahlukana.
Yintoni okufanele ibe ngowona mfazi?
Kule ngongoma, unokubambisana ngokungapheliyo, kodwa ugxininisa imiba ebalulekileyo, kufuneka kuthiwa ibhinqa elifanelekileyo kufuneka libe yile:
- Ngokuvisisanayo . Ukukwazi ukulinganisela kunye nawe kunye nommandla wakho kubalulekile kunoma yimuphi umfazi. Kulo rhu lumente, liqala ukuthwala amandla alungileyo kwaye liba liziko lendalo yonke.
- Efanelekileyo . Ukuziphatha kwimeko ethile akufanele kube yinto engcolileyo. Nangona ngethuba lokuxhaphazwa kunye neemeko, umfazi kufuneka abe ngumfazi.
- Ukunyamekela novelwano . Umfazi oyinyani kufuneka amnike ukufudumala nobubele ukuvala abantu. Akukho mntu kodwa yena unokudala induduzo kunye nomoya ofudumele kwintsapho. Ukubeleka kubandakanya indima enkulu ekubunjweni kwebhinqa "I". Kwakhona kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ngowona wesifazane ojongene nayo yonke intsapho, kunye "nemozulu kwindlu."
- Usebenza kwaye usebenza . Intombazana enhle kwaye ilungileyo ayikwazi ukuphumelela intliziyo yomntu, ukuba akenzi nto. Ubuvila yintshaba enkulu yowesifazane.
- Uqoqosho . Lungiselela isidlo esimnandi, ukucoceka kwesibuko kwindlu, ukudala uxakeke kwaye ucofe iqhosha kwi-jacket - le nto yonke into intombazana kufuneka ifunde ebuntwaneni. Ikhono lokulawula ishishini lomntu lixabiswa kakhulu, kuba wonke umntu uyavuya xa umfazi wakhe ungumgcini wendlu yangempela.
- Idibene kunye nexesha . Ezi mpawu ziyimfuneko kunoma yimuphi umntu. Kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukucwangcisa umhla wakho ngokufanelekileyo kwaye ulahle ixesha.
- Ugcino lwezoqoqosho . Njengomthetho, ngaba besetyhini abalawula uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali, ngoko kubaluleke kakhulu ukufunda indlela yokucwangcisa kakuhle iindleko kwaye ukwazi ukuhambisa imali ngokufanelekileyo.
- Zi thintelwe . Umfazi ungumzekelo kwabanye, ngakumbi abantwana. Kwimeko nayiphi na imeko, kufuneka ikwazi ukuzilawula kunye nezenzo zayo kwaye ingabhubhisi iimbambano.
Ukuthetha malunga nomfazi wesimanje kufuneka ukuba, kubalulekile ukukhankanya inqaku elithi "ukuzakhela". Ubomi bwanamhlanje, ngexesha le-nanotechnology, kubalulekile ukuba umfazi abe nakho ukuqonda olu phawu lwazi kwaye alwele ukufezeka nokuzineliseka. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuba ibhinqa likwazi amaqhinga amancinci ahlala ekunceda ukuba umdla kwaye unomdla kumntu akhethiweyo.
Yintoni efunekayo ibhinqa elumkileyo?
Ungaze uvumele umntu ukuba aqonde ukuba unobulumko, ufunde ngakumbi, okanye unamandla ngaphezu kwakhe. Oku kuchaphazela kakhulu ukuzithemba kwezesondo ezinamandla. Kuye, kufuneka ube yintombazana, umfazi, obuthathaka kunye nobuthathaka, lowo ufuna ukumnceda nokumnceda. Xa umntu evakalelwa kukuba bayamdinga, uyayibona ukubaluleka kwayo, kwaye oku kumenza ukuba enze izinto ezintsha. Ukuba awufuni ukuba umkhuseli wakho aguquke abe yindoda ekhusekileyo, musa ukumyeka ukuba angabonakali ukuba uyindoda yangempela - inamandla, inoxanduva kwaye inokwethenjelwa. Kodwa khumbula ukuba kulawo maxesha xa kuyimfuneko, kufuneka ubonise amandla akho kwaye ukwazi ukuxhasa umntu obiza.
Ukuba udinga isiluleko esihle sokuma, qhagamshelana nomntu wakho, kungekhona umhlobo wakho. Kungenzeka ukuba uya kumangaliswa yimpendulo yakhe, kuba abantu bacinga ngokungafaniyo. Ngaphambi kokuba wenze izigqibo ezibalulekileyo, qiniseka ukuba udibana nomntu okhethiweyo, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufumana iingcebiso ezilungileyo, kwaye yena uyaqonda ukuba uluvo lwakhe lubalulekile kuwe.
Unalo ubudlelwane nomntu? Khumbula ukuba ngowokuqala kwakho konke ungumfazi. Kubalulekile ukuba ungabi ngumgcini wendlu kuphela. Kumele ukwazi ukubonisa iimvakalelo kuye, ube mnxibelelwano othakazelisayo, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - uyinyamekele.
Ukulandela la macebiso alula, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuziva ukuba utshintsho lwekhadi ebomini bakho, kwaye undikholelwe, baya kuba ngcono.