Mhlawumbi, ubuncinane bodwa babuza umbuzo, ukuthini uthando lwe-platonic? Olu lwalamano, olungengokwenyama, lwakhiwe kuphela kwizinto zokomoya, zibalulekile iimpawu zengqondo nezomoya zokwesiqingatha sesibini.
Ingcamango yothando lweplanonic
Uthando lunobuso obuninzi. Uthando ngunina, kwilizwe lonina, ngomntwana, ngomsebenzi wakhe. Uthando ekuqaleni, ungabonakali, ungabonakali, uphakamileyo kwaye unokomoya. Uthando lukaPlato lubuhlobo obuncinane phakathi kwabantu abasekelwe ekukhangekeni ngokomoya, ngokwaneleyo nangothando oluqotho. Uthando lukaPlato ludibene negama lefilosofi uPlato. Wayesoloko ebhala ngokuthanda ngokomoya. Ukususela ngeli xesha liye laya ukuba uthando lukaPlato luyintando ngayo yonke intliziyo yakho nomphefumlo wakho, ngaphandle kokukhangwa ngesondo.
Ngethuba lethu, lolu hlobo luthando lwaqala ukuvela kangangoko, ngenxa yokuba akukho mingcipheko yokuthintana okufutshane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi.
Uthando lukaPlato luyenzeka xa umntu ekhuliswe phezulu. Kwizo ntsapho apho zigcina kwaye zihlonipha izithethe, zesizwe okanye zonqulo. Unqulo oluninzi aluchasene nolwalamano ngaphambi komtshato, ngoko abathandi bayabamba imibono yomnye nomnye, babhale imibongo ngaphambi komtshato. Uthando olunjalo alubangela iimvakalelo, iimfuno kunye neemvakalelo, nangona kungenakwenzeka kokuthandana ngokwesondo. Le mvakalelo apho ukukhangwa kwezesondo kugxothwa.
Uthando lukaPlato luhlala ixesha elingakanani?
Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba iimvakalelo zinyani azinakuphela nje nge-platonic. Kwaye umntu uthe uthando ngokumvelo lube yi-platonic, kuba nguyena ococekileyo kwaye oqaqambileyo. Uthando luhluke kakhulu.
Uthando kunye nohlobo lukaPlato?
Uthando lukaPlato luyinto eqondwa njengengqiqo yokuqonda, ukuxhomekeka, ukuxhomekeke kwimiqathango kunye nenkxaso. Kodwa uthando olunjalo lunokudideka kunye nomvakalelo esibizwa ngokuba ngumhlobo. Vumelana ukuba ubuhlobo lulo luthando olufanayo, kuphela ngaphandle kwesondo. Sifuna ukuhlala sihlala kunye nomntu esityebileyo kwaye sichitha ixesha elide kunye kunye. Kodwa ezi nqweno zihlobo oluthile. Asinakukhangela kumntu. Sifuna nje ukuba khona, kodwa kwimeko enjalo asinayo imvakalelo esiyiva xa sithandana. Kulapho, njengomthetho, isilwanyana semfuyo kunye nesifiso socansi siphakamise. Kodwa enye into xa umntu ekhuselekileyo enqumla iminqweno enjalo aze azibophelele ekuthandeni i-platonic. Isizathu salokhu sinokukhuliswa, incinci, ukubandakanya inkolo, njalonjalo.
Yena-ngenxa yothando lukaPlato, wenzeni?
Kukho amaxesha apho loo mfana eqala ubudlelwane be-platonic. Kule meko, intombazana inokuqiniseka ukuba umfana akayikulawula ukukhwabelana ngokwesondo kwaye uyayithanda ngokwenene. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuba yinto engaqondakaliyo kumantombazana asetyenziswa kwabanye ubudlelwane. Emva koko kufuneka ukhulume ngalo mbandela kunye nomfana kwaye ufumene isizathu. Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, ukhuliswe kwaye unokholo oluthile, ngoko luhlala luhlanganiselwe. Emva koko, ukuba uyamthanda, uya kuqonda. Ekugqibeleni, khumbula ukuba isizukulwana esidala sithatha ukuziphatha okunjalo njengesiqhelo. Kwaye iintsapho ezininzi zinamandla kunamhlanje. Kakade, nganye ibini kunye nomlando wayo akufanele ukhethe umgangatho. Kodwa ke, hlalutya okwenzekayo, kwaye ungazitshitshi kwiqula kunye nentloko yakho, uze uhlalise iinyembezi.
Ekugqibeleni, ndifuna ukusho ngaphambi kokuba sanele ngokwanele ukuba sihlale kunye nenkwenkwe eyakuthanda kwaze kwaba sebusuku ebhentshini kwaye ingacingi ngento enzulu. Uthando luyingoma, uthando lwePlaton luyinto yamagama. Jabulela le nganekwane, kuba inezinzuzo ezininzi, ehlabathini lanamhlanje abantu abambalwa abantu abazibona.