Amaxesha apho amantombazana ayelindele isikhulu sakhe, adlule. Namhlanje, oomama abangatshatanga banokulungele okungaphezulu kokufumana indoda ehloniphekileyo kumanethiwekhi abo. Ukhuphiswano phakathi kobulili obufanelekileyo lukhulu, ngoko kufuneka ukwazi ezinye iindlela ezenza ukuba ukwazi ukuphuma kwisihlwele kwaye ufezekise injongo.
Ukwazi njani umntu kunye nolwalamano olunzulu?
Ukuqala oko kuyimfuneko ukuchazwa ngohlobo luni lomntu endingathanda ukukubona emva kwam. Ukuba ufuna ukwakha ubudlelwane obuqinileyo, ungachitheli amandla kunye namandla kumalingani angamaqhinga. Ngaphambi kokuba uye "ekuzingeleni" kucetyiswa ukuba uthathe iingcebiso ngabafundi beengqondo:
- Okokuqala kufuneka ukhangele ukubukeka kwakho. Umfanekiso kufuneka ucatshangelwe kwiinkcukacha ezincinci. Khetha izambatho eziza kugxininisa ukuba zihloniphekile kwaye zifihla iziphoso. Ukuzikhethela ukhethe okwemvelo, kwaye wenze i-hairstyle enhle.
- Kuya kunceda ukuma kunye nokuphuma kwintsimi emomothekayo, owuphawu lovuyo nokukhanya, kwaye ezi mpawu kubantu zibaluleke kakhulu.
- Akukho mfuneko yokudlala nayiphi na indima, kuba ubuhle bemvelo kunye nesimo sengqondo esinyanisekileyo kunokubangela ukuba umntu abe nomvakalelo omnandi nomsa.
Musa ukuba neentloni kwaye uloyike ukuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala, kuba abaninzi ababizwa ngokuba "ngamadoda" ngokwabo bayesaba ukulahlwa.
Amantombazana amaninzi afuna ukwazi indlela yokuqhelana nendoda kwi-Intanethi, kuba olu khetho lufanelekile nakwiintombi ezinamahloni. Le ndlela ine-drawback ephawulekayo-ininzi "inkohliso". Indoda ingasebenzisa umfanekiso wesonyani, ubhale ulwazi olungamanga, njl. Yingakho kufuneka uqaphele iinkcukacha, kuba abaqhophololo badla ngokudibanisa ubungqina babo. Khangela oko loo mntu ubhala ngokufanelekileyo, indlela acacisa ngayo iingcamango zakhe, njl. Mcele ukuba athumele ngaphezulu kwezithombe zakhe ngobomi bendalo.
Xa kunokwenzeka ukuba uqhelane nalo mntu?
Ukudibanisa nomphefumlo wakho umtshato unokuba naphi na, nokuba umile kumgca kwisitoreji. Umbhalo wokwazisa kwiintlobo ezininzi kuxhomekeke kwindawo apho umfazi ebone indoda ethandekayo.
Uphi na umntu omaziyo:
- E mse benzini. Iingcaphephe zincoma ukuba zenze ingqalelo yabantu ngokumomotheka. Mcele ukuba ancede ngandlela-thile, kuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba amadoda adingekayo. Ukunxibelelana, qaphela indlela yokuziphatha komntu odibanisa naye, apho unokugweba ukuba kukho imvakalelo ephindaphindiweyo okanye cha.
- Kwi cafe okanye kwindawo yokutyela. Ukuba unomdla, apho ungayazi khona umntu ocebileyo, ngoko uya kudla okanye udle kwiziko elithile elifanelekileyo, apho "ukhilimu" woluntu udlalwa khona. Kungcono ukuba ubhale inkxaso kumhlobo okanye ngamanani amaninzi, kuba ngokwezibalo, ukuthandana kukukodwa kule nkampani. Behave ngokwemvelo kwaye unobtrusively, ungakhohlwa ukuthumela
amaqela anomdla kumacala. - Enye indlela, apho ungayazi khona umntu ofanelekileyo - imibukiso eyahlukeneyo. Khetha ezinye indawo ezihloniphekileyo, umzekelo, imoto okanye imicimbi yezoshishino. Kulula kakhulu ukubandakanyeka-buza umbuzo, kodwa qiniseka ukuthetha ngawo, ukuze ungabanjwa kwindawo ephazamisayo. Ungakwazi kwakhona ukuya kwidlaterha kunye nezinye iziganeko zenkcubeko.
Uninzi amantombazana enesizungu ngaphambi kokucwangcisa ikhefu, cinga malunga nokuba ungaya kuphi na umntu. Ngokwenene, nayiphi na indawo ekhethiweyo kufuneka ujwayelene nayo, ngoko ukhethe isiqhelo osiyithandayo, kodwa khumbula ukuba ngokwemilinganiselo, ukuthandana kwamathandabuzo akunakuqhelana ngokukhawuleza ukuba ube nolwalamano oluqinileyo nolunaphakade.