Kwakungabikho mntu wacinga ngako, kodwa ukuwanga, kuyimfuneko efanayo yomzimba wethu njengokutya okanye amanzi. Kufuneka sizive siyimfuneko kwaye sithandwa. Asikwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kokuthandana, ngaphandle kokuvuma kwaye, kwakhona, ngaphandle kokubanga.
Uhlobo lwe-kisses, ukuba ndingatsho njalo, kukho iindidi ezininzi. Umzekelo, ukumanga komzali, oonyana, abazalwana, abazalwana, abanomdla nabanye abaninzi. Ngamnye wabo unenzuzo yakhe. Kodwa utsala ngokukodwa kwaye utywala yonke into yokumanga uthando.
"Indlela yokufunda ukumanga nomfana?" - Impendulo yalo mbuzo ngokungapheliyo ngexesha layo lijonga zonke iintombazana ezithandwa kuqala. Nguwuphi na kuthi ongazange achithe (okanye asebenzise) ubusuku, ecinga le ntshukumo, kwaye, ngokukhawuleza, akazange akhumbule ngoku.
Ngaba uphupha ngomzuzu xa umlomo wakhe uthinta umlomo wakho, kwaye uya kugutyungelwa ngumtshangatshangiso, njengoko ubhala kule mibala yothando yothando, ungonwabi? Kodwa nantsi indlela ongayonakalisi ngayo le nto inomdla ngezandla zakho, okanye kunoko umlomo wakho. Indlela yokufunda ukumanga umfana ngaphambi kokumanga, engazange aqonde ukuba awukwazi ukumanga? IiSoviet, indlela yokufunda ukumanga, akufanelekile ukulinda kumama. Masisebenze kunye kulo, kungekhona umbuzo olula.
Umgaqo oyintloko kunye oyisiseko, ukuba ufuna ukumanga umfana - yenza. Ungacingi ukuba le nyathelo kufuneka ivele KUPHELA kuye okanye ukuba emva kokumanga kwakho uya kukuqwalasela ukuba unomoya kwaye ungabi nzulu. Le yimizila yezemfundo kanina noomakhulu.
Ukumanga kuletwa kokubili kokubonakalayo okulungileyo, kufuneka, kuqala, ukhethe indawo nexesha elifanelekileyo! Ewe, akuyi kuba mnandi kakhulu, ukuba uqale u kumanga, umzekelo, kusasa kwibhentshini yebhasi, kunye nogogo wakho (okanye utata okanye u-ugogokazi) uya kukhwaza kakhulu kwaye aqale ibali elide malunga nokuziphatha kakubi kolutsha lwanamhlanje. U kiss olunjalo aluyi kuzisa uvuyo olukhulu. Ngenxa yoko, indawo kufuneka ikhethiweyo, ukuba kunokwenzeka, ingahlali.
Okwesibini, imeko. Ngokuvisisanayo, akunakwenzeka ukuba umfana uyakuthanda ukuba uyamanga ngelixa ekutshela ngentshiseko ngohambo lwakhe, okanye malunga naloo nto yokuzonwabisa. Umntu, mhlawumbi, uya kucinga ukuba akayithandeki kuwe. Ngokuqala kokubanga, kukulungele ukuthabatha umzuzu, ngexesha lokuyeka. Ngoku, uholele ekungeneni kwaye uya kuhamba. Myeke, uthathe ngobumnene isandla sakhe, jonga amehlo akho kwaye wenze!
Ewe, kubalulekile ukuba ungayikhohlwa malunga necandelo lobuhle bokubanga. Kuya kuba mnandi ukungenawo igalikhi okanye anyanisi ngosuku lwe-X. Ngokuqhelekileyo, bekungeyi kubuhlungu ukuba ukuphefumla kwakho kwakumnandi kwaye kuyamnandi, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo wawuva iphunga. Awuyithandi, ukuba esikhundleni sombono onobubele kunye nomnandi, uya kugcoba i-sweat kunye ne-cigarettes. Loo mntu akayithandi ukuba uyithande.
Enye into. I-saliva iyadingeka ngumntu ukwenzela ukunceda ukutya kudlule kwi-esophagus. Ngoko ke, ibinzana elibhekiselele ngakumbi ngakumbi-oku akusiyo kwimeko yethu. Awuyidingi, buhlungu ngenxa yegama, oblyunuvlyvat intandokazi. Akuyi kuvuyisa kuwe okanye kuye.
Ewe, ngaba ukhethe yonke into: ixesha, indawo kunye neemeko ezifanelekileyo? Emva koko uthinte ngomlomo wakho emlonyeni wakhe. Ngamahloni ahlazileyo, alula, ephezulu kunye nasemlonyeni wakhe. Emva koko cinezela nzima. Unokuzama ukukrazula ngomlomo wakho ngolwimi, kwaye xa uvula ngokukhawuleza, fakisha enye yazo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni, phakathi kwemilomo yakho. Mamela umlingane wakho, kuba ukumanga kuyinkalo yabini. Yaye ukuba ukumanga kukunika uvuyo - wenza konke okulungileyo!
Ngoku uyazi indlela yokufunda ukumanga umfana! Kwaye indlela efanelekileyo yokuqonda zonke iziqhelo kunye nobulumko bokubamba isenzo esiqhubekayo!