Ukuba ubuza amadoda alishumi ukuba achaze imoto efanelekileyo, akunakwenzeka ukuba wonke umntu uya kuguqulwa kwitshati enye. Omnye uthatha uhambo oluthambileyo, umntu ukhetha ulwaphulo-mthetho, kwaye kumntu umlinganiselo ophezulu womshini, obonisa isimo somnini, uya kuba ngumgangatho ophezulu. Ukuba ifika kumfazi oyinkosikazi, izimvo ziya kuphinda zihlakaze kuzo zonke iinkalo ezine, nangona ziza kuphuma kwelinye iphuzu (abafazi abalahlekelwa yimpawu).
Ukuphazamiseka ngumbuzo wendlela yokuba ngumthandi ofanelekileyo, khumbula umgaqo oyintloko: bonke abantu bahlukileyo, kwaye ingcamango yothando olungileyo akuyona imeko yesenzo sekhonkrithi kwaye asiyiyo itemplate engakwazi ukulingwa kumlingane ngamnye. Ungakwazi ukuqonda kakuhle i-technical side yezinto ezinomdla, kodwa ukuba zonke iimpazamo zakho ziyimidlalo yoluntu, ngoko ke isihloko sekosikazi esona siza kufuneka sinikezwe komnye umntu ... Ngoko ke, silungiselele iziphakamiso ezisisiseko eziya kunceda ukuphendula umbuzo: indlela yokuba yinkosikazi enhle kumntu wakho .
Imigaqo esemiselweyo yenkosikazi efanelekileyo
- Zithande. Lo ngumgaqo wokuqala kunye owona mkhulu wongamela. Ibhinqa elithandayo umzimba wayo kwaye alixolisi ukuyisebenzisa ukuzincwisana kwalo ngumlenze wamadoda. Ewe, igama elithi "eyakhe" alilona typo. Nangona amantombazana ekufowuneni abonisa ukuzonwabisa ngocansi, kuba umntu ubaluleke kakhulu ukuba aqonde ukuba unako ukuzisa ukutshatyalaliswa kwezesondo ezifanelekileyo. Indoda iya kuyifuna kumnye ozayo apho uya kuziziva eyintando emhle. Ngexesha elifanayo, inkosikazi enhle ingabonisa ngokukhawuleza ukuba zeziphi izenzo ezinika unonwabo olukhulu.
- Amadoda athandekayo. Mhlawumbi kuzwakale into engaziwayo, kodwa ngokwenene, abaninzi abafazi bakholelwa ukuba, ngaphezu kwezesondo, amadoda ayidingi nto evela kubo. Izihlazo ezifihlakeleyo zesini zesini - kungeyona eyona nto incedisayo ekufumaneni isihloko esithi "inkosikazi engcono kakhulu emhlabeni." Ibhinqa elithanda ngokwenene amadoda liyakonwaba ngokuthinta umzimba wesilisa. Ngokuqinisekileyo uqaphele ukuba abahamba phambili bezona zinto zifuna ukuphatha inyama ephilayo ngezandla zakho. Abathandi abathandekayo bavela kwi-opera efanayo.
- Ukuthanda ngokwesondo. I-subconscious yabaninzi bayabetha ngokugqithiseleyo ukuba isondo singcolile. Yaye nangona nangaphandle sonke sikhululiwe ngokobulili, ezininzi iingxaki zengqondo zixhomekeke kule nkolelo enyanisekileyo. Ungaba njani umthandi omhle xa unentloni okanye ukwesaba ngesondo. Ngoko ke, yiba gourmet. Ukuphuhlisa intliziyo: zama ukuziva ubukhali bezocansi ngokukhawuleza okanye ukudibanisa i-tart ye-languor ye-caresses yokuqala. Ukuba unika amandla amakhulu okuzonwabisa ngexesha lesondo, kuya kukuvumela ukuba ufumane ubuninzi obungaphezu kobusuku omnye.
Ukongezelela, inkosikazi enhle ayiyikulibala:
- mdumise indoda yakho. Musa ukucwina, ukuba ngenxa yezizathu ezithile ayizange ibe yindawo ephakamileyo, kodwa ukukhuthaza ezo zenzo ezikunike imizuzu (okanye imizuzwana) yokuzonwabisa;
- ewe. Nangona le "ewe" inxalenye nje ye "ewe, kodwa kamva". Ngendlela, eli lizwi liza kuqalisa iinqwenela kwiqabane ngexesha lokwebelana ngesondo: "Ewe, ndoda, nditsho nje, ndomelele kakhulu", njl.;
- nithi cha. Ukuba awufuni ukulala ngesini okanye unxamnye neprojekthi ethile yesini, unganqikazi ukuthi "hayi" ngexesha. Ngcikivo lwesinyameko kwamehlo emva okanye
Amandla ambi ngexesha aliyona indlela engcono kakhulu yokuphuma kumthandi othe tye; - ngaliswa. Ngengqondo efanelekileyo yegama. Akudingeki ukuba utshintshe rhoqo ixesha kwaye ugxininise (amadoda akhathele), musa ukuvula onke amakhadi akho ecilongo ngobusuku bokuqala;
- bafunde. Umthandi omhle akaze azibize ngokuthi "inkosikazi engcono kakhulu yehlabathi", uyaqiniseka ukuba ubomi besondo buphethe iimfihlelo kunye nezinto eziyimfihlakalo, kwaye iqabane ngalinye liyakwandisa amandla akhe okufumana nokuvuyisa.