Unokufumana njani esinye isiqingatha?

"Uphi na indlela yokufumana umlingane wakho?" - kungekudala kamva wonke umntu ubuzwa lo mbuzo, kuphela umntu onomlingani ebomini kwangoko, kwaye umntu umele alinde aze amkhange ixesha elide. Ngoko uyifumana njani isiqingatha sakho sesibini, sifihlaphi kuthi? Masizame ukufumana impendulo kunye.

Hlahla kunye neenkosana!

Hayi, kungekhona ngokugqithisa amandla obukhosi kumancinci ambalwa. Ngoku kunomdla okona mnandi ngumfanekiso wecala elihle, isiqingatha sakho sesibini, ongazi ukuba ungayifumana njani. Onke amantombazana anetyala le nto, kwaye wena, mhlawumbi, awunjalo. Ngaba ungathanda inkosana kunye neentyatyambo zamahhashi kwihashe elimhlophe? Kuthiwani ukuba ihashe lixube, okanye ngaba i-prince i-roses esikhundleni se-roses? Thetha, ngovuyo, ucinge ngomviwa lowo? Kwaye ngoku sibuyele eqinisweni, khumbula ukuba bangaphi "iinkosana" owazicoca ngazo, ngenxa yokuba abazange bahambisane neembono oziqalile? Ewe, kunjalo, kwakungekho nanye kubo phakathi kwabo. Kodwa ngaba uqinisekile ukuba uqhubeka uqhubeka malunga neengcamango ezingenangqiqo ungaphuthelwa yintlekele yakho? Emva kwakho konke, ukwenza isigqibo malunga nokuba lo mntu ufanelekile okanye cha, kufuneka ufunde ubuncinane, kwaye ungayithobeli ingqalelo kwi-horse. Ngoko ke uyabuza ntoni, ukushiya ngokupheleleyo iimfuno zakho zomntu obomi? Ewe, hayi, ngoko ungayifumana njani enye isiqingatha ukuba uyaphuthuma kuwo wonke umntu? Yiba nje ukunciphisa, ukunyamezela ngakumbi, kuba akukho bantu abafanelekileyo. Kwaye akuyi kuba lula ukuhlala kunye neyona ndlela, cinga nje, awukwazi ukuphikisana nayo, kuba akukho nto kuyo, into efanelekileyo.

Ngaphantsi kwelitye elityebileyo ...

Siphila ngefestile, sibuhlungu, sicinga ukuba singayifumana njani umphefumlo wethu, kwaye simlindele ukuba angabonakali ngokungalindelekanga? Ewe, ewe, ngoku umntu weephupha zakho uya kuvela kwiwindow kwaye unqonkqoze kuye ngesicelo sokungena kuyo, ngaphandle kokuba uhlala kumgangatho we-10. Hayi, ayisebenzisi ngaloo ndlela, kunjalo nje ukuba neekati aziyi kuzala, kwaye kwanokuba isikhulu asiyi kukhwelisa. Ngoko yeka ukuphupha, uze uhlawule ishishini. Udinga ukuzibonakalisa kwihlabathi, ngoko ke uzama ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka ngaphandle kwendlu - uhamba epakini, kwii-nightclub, kwiintlanganiso zeefestile kunye nabahlobo, kodwa kuncinci uhamba! Ukubuyela ekhaya, ungathathi indawo oyithandayo kwisitya, uye kwi-intanethi, ubuyekeze iphepha lakho kumanethiwekhi asekuhlaleni. Ewe, mhlawumbi ukuthandana kwi-intanethi kungathembekanga, kwaye izibini ezenza ubuhlobo ngale ndlela ziqabile, kodwa mhlawumbi ungoyintlekana na? Awukwazi ukunika ithuba lakho lokudlula, kufuneka usebenzise zonke iindlela ezifumanekayo kuwe.

Ukuzithemba, kodwa ukuzithemba

Ndiyaxolisa, kodwa ngaba uya kukhangela ulonwabo lwakho, ukhangela phantsi, uzingela kwaye uyalibala ukuba ukumomotheka okwenene kakubi? Kutheni ufuna le ntsikiti yentombazana? Unhle, unomtsalane kwaye unomtsalane. A ndi kholelwa? Ixesha lokuba uziqinisekisile kule nto, kwaye emva kwakho konke kunye nabo bonke abantu abazungezile. Indlela yokufezekisa le nto, zenzele isigqibo. Omnye uncedwa yi-hairstyle entsha, ikhabethe kunye ne-makeup. Olunye uhlobo lwetunes ngendlela efanelekileyo, ubukela i-movie oyikhonzile okanye ulalele umculo wakho ozithandayo. Ewe, nokuba kusetyenziswe amashishini aseSimon, konke akunandaba, into ephambili ukubona imbangela - intombazana enentembelo, ethandekayo kwisibuko. Umele wazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba esinye isiqingatha sifuna nokufumana inxalenye yakho elahlekileyo - wena, ngokukhawuleza. Yaye khumbula, intlanganiso yakho iya kuba yenzeke, kwaye akayi kukwazi ukudlula, kuba intlanganiso kunye nawe yinto lonwabo ngokwenene, nguye owayekukhangela lonke eli xesha. Musa nje ukuzithela kwenye into eyingozi - ukuzithemba ngokweqile, ukuzingca, isimo sengqondo sokukhathalela abanye - oku akuthandwa ngumntu.