"Sivame ukukholelwa abo singazi, kuba abazange basikhohlise," watsho umgxeki waseNgesi nomlobi uSamuel Johnson. Yeyona inyaniso, kodwa inzima!
Ukungathembeki kwamadoda kuvela ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo:
- ngenxa yeziphumo ezingaphumelelanga (kubandakanywa nabazali bakho, abahlobo kunye nabaziwayo). Nangona ityala elincinci kamva lidala ukungathembeki okukhulu;
- ngenxa yothando oluqinileyo, ukubetha umntu ngaphandle kwesiqhelo esiqhelekileyo. Imvakalelo inzima, ubeka umntu wakho onke amaphupha akho emfihlelo kunye neminqweno, ukunika iingqondo ezo iimpawu ezingenayo. Ukuphazamiseka komnye kubangela ukungathembeki kwabanye;
- ngenxa yobume bemfundo. Ukuba njengomntwana wakhuliswa ngokukrokra kunye nobutsha bokuqala kwihlabathi elikujikelezayo, akumangalisi ukuba, xa ubhekene nokudumala, uyithatha njengenxalenye yehlabathi lethu. Ukungathembeki kwindoda yakhe, mhlawumbi, kuya kuqala.
Cinga: zonke izizathu ezingentla apha, enye indlela okanye enye, zinciphisa into enye - awuzithembi wena kunye nehlabathi elikujikelezayo.
Indlela yokulahla ukungathembeki?
Uthando nokungathembeki kunokuhlala entliziyweni yakho ixesha elifutshane kakhulu. Kufana nokubeka i-python kunye ne-porinea yengulube kwindawo enye. Ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva i-python iya kugwinya isilwanyana. Kodwa ngaba kuyimfuneko ukugcina i-python entliziyweni yakho, nokuba akukho mfuneko yokuyondla (emva koko, ukungathembeki kubangela ukungathembeki).
- Funda ukuthembela. Yonke into. Ukungathembeki (kubuhlobo kunye nobomi, ngokubanzi) akusinakusindisa. Ungathembeli umyeni wakhe, ngokuzenzekelayo ubeka imida kwivakalelo ezingenakubalwa - uthando. Zama ukudlulisela engqondweni yakho ukuba ukungathembani akunamsebenzi;
- Funda ukuzithanda. Ufanelwe okulungileyo. Kubandakanya - kunye nobomi ngaphandle kokungathembeki;
- uthetha inyaniso. Ungesabi ukubonisa iimvakalelo zakho, kuba ukungaqondi kakuhle kubangela ukuba ungathembi;
- Musa ukucinga abanye abantu, makabe yiloo nto.
- zama ukufumana iingcambu zokungathembeki. Skrola ngengqondo yamava obomi bakho kunye nabazali bakho. Fumana iphuzu elibi kwaye ... yamkele ukutshatyalaliswa okanye ukuphoxeka. Njengokuba kunjalo. Kwakunjalo, idlulileyo ayikwazi ukulungiswa. Ungatshintsha kuphela isimo sakho sengqondo kule nyaniso. Xolela bonke abathathi-nxaxheba kule meko. Ngamanye amaxesha oku kufuna uncedo lochwepheshe.
Yaye khumbula: Ukungathembeki kwintsebenziswano akuyiyo inoculation malunga nokudumazeka okunokwenzeka. Vumela ukuba uthande ngamandla onke!