Ndixelele, ngaba unomona (ubuncinci bancinci) abantu abaphumelela kuyo yonke into - ngaba baphumelele emsebenzini, kwintsapho nangomdla wokuzonwabisa? Ngoko kutheni abanye abantu banethamsanqa ebomini, kwaye umntu akakwazi ukuphumelela kumntu okanye kwimicimbi yoluntu? Kuzo zonke, ukusola ngeenkwenkwezi ezingaphumelelanga okanye ubuvila obuqhelekileyo?
Kutheni kungekho nhlanhla ebomini?
Ukujonga abanye abantu, ndingathanda ukuthi: "Le yindoda enenhlanhla, njengokungathi uzalwe kwihembe", into enhle kakhulu nayo yonke into. Emva kolu ngcamango, ukufunyanwa ngokuzenzekelayo kulandelwa ngokuqhelekileyo, okukhokelela kwizigqibo ezidakisayo malunga nokuhluleka komntu. Kulungile kunye neendlela ezimbini kuphela - okanye ukudibanisa neenhlanhla okanye ukuzama ukuhlakulela i-Fortuna enenkani kumntu. Ukuba kukho umnqweno wokufumana indawo yale nkosikazi eguqukayo, kufuneka uqonde ukuba kutheni ungeyintlekele ebomini, ukufumanisa ukuba yiziphi iindawo ofuna ukuzitshintsha. Lo mbuzo uphazamisa abantu abaninzi, umntu uyangena kwi-esotericism, ezama ukufumana isithethe sokukhangela inhlanhla, umntu uzama ukufumana impendulo kwingqondo . Ekuqeqeshweni umntu unokuva iziphakamiso zokucinga kakuhle, ukuxolela uyise nomama (ngokwezinye iiphandi, ukucaphuka komama kunqanda ukuphuculwa kwekhaya, kwaye ukuhlambalaza ubaba akuvumeli ukuba ishishini liphuhlise), sebenzisa iziqinisekiso kunye nangaphezulu.
Enyanisweni, nganye yezindlela zinokukunceda, okokuqala kufuneka ufumane oko kukuthi kukuthintele, uze usebenze ekupheliseni le ngxaki. Zonke izinto zihamba kakuhle, kwaye ngokukhawuleza zume ukuba zithwale ebomini? Khangela isizathu, qonda oko kwenzeka. Ngaphambili, oogxa bavuyiswa ukunceda, kwaye ngoku kubonakala ngathi bajikile? Ngoko mhlawumbi usebenziseka ngakumbi? Ayikho imibono emitsha, iprojekthi ebalulekileyo inikwe omnye umqeshwa? Mhlawumbi ulahlekelwe ngulo mbonakalo, umdla okwenza ube ngumsebenzi othembisayo, khangela indlela yokuwubuyisela.
Kwaye mhlawumbi awuzange ube nenhlanhla kuyo yonke into, njengalolu hlobo ukufumana inhlanhla? Kwaye kufuneka uphinde uqonde oko ukwenza kakubi. Ewe, usenokuba nethamsanqa nentsapho yakho kunye nendawo yokuzalwa, kodwa xa usukhulile, unethuba lokwakha i-destiny yakho ngokwakho. Khumbula, indawo esikuyo yinkcazo yehlabathi lethu langaphakathi. Ukuba awukwazi ukufumana umhlaba phantsi kweenyawo zakho, ufumana ubunzima bezezimali, ngoko kukho ukudideka emphefumlweni wakho, awukwazi ukuqonda izifiso zakho. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba ufumanisa oko kukufunayo, izinto ziya kuqala ukusebenza ngokukhawuleza, njengoko uya kuqonda kwindlela omele uhambe ngayo.
Unethamsanqa ebomini bakho bomi?
Ngomsebenzi konke kulungile, kodwa ebomini bakhe bodwa akanalo inhlanhla? Zama ukuqonda oko ukwenza okungahambiyo, ngaba izenzo zihlala zihambelana neminqweno?
Le mizekelo emithathu kuphela, ingongoma ukuyeka ukulala esiqheqweni, uzibuze umbuzo: "Ndiya kuba nethamsanqa ebomini?", Kwaye qalisa ukwenza. Ukungakhethi (ngaphandle kokuqamba amanga nokwazisa idatha yasekuqaleni) hlalutya imeko, xelela iminqweno nezenzo, cwangcisa isicwangciso senkqubo uze uqale ukusebenza. Intsanqa iyamamatheka, nangona ukungabikho kwe talente kunokutshatyalaliswa ngokunyamekela ngokufanelekileyo.