Ngesinye isikhathi isithembu samadoda singakwazi ukuphikisana ngonaphakade, kodwa ukuba kukho iimeko xa umntu otshatileyo ethanda inkosikazi yinyaniso. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akunakwenzeka ukubiza loo miba elula, kuba icala ngalinye lolwalamano lunalo amava kunye neengxaki.
Iimpawu ukuba indoda esatshatileyo isithandane nomfazi otshatileyo
Ukuba umntu akayiyo inhloli yobuchwephesha, ngoko ke enomnqweno onamandla akanakukufihla ubukho bentsapho.
Umntu onothando otshatileyo uziphatha njani:
- Indoda esatshatileyo ayinakukwazi ukuziphatha ngokukhululekile, ngoko kuluntu ukhetha icebo lokuthintela. Uya kuzama ukunciphisa ukuthetha kunye nenjongo yokudumisa, kodwa ukususwa okunjalo kuya kubonakala kwaye kuyasolisa.
- Kubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu abatshatileyo kukho ukuhlala kunye nokukhohlisa. Ngenxa yoko, oku kukukhokelela ekukrokheni nakwezityholo.
- Ukuba umntu otshatileyo kunye nomfazi otshatileyo banomdla, ngoko bazama ukufihla ubudlelwane babo, ngoko ke banqabile ukuba baphumelele kuluntu. Iindwendwe kwiivenkile zitshintshwa ngokutya kwasekhaya, i-cinema-ukubukela iTV, njl njl
- Nangona unomnqweno omkhulu wokuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nenkosikazi yakhe, loo mntu akayi kukwazi ukwenza oku, kuba kufuneka achithe zonke iiveki kunye neeholide kunye nosapho lwakhe.
- Unxibelelwano lubakho ngokubhaliweyo ngokubhala kunye nangaphezulu ekuseni, xa usebenza. Ngefowuni, indoda esatshatileyo ayifuni ukuphendula, okanye ingabe iyomile ngangokunokwenzeka.
- Iintyatyambo kunye nezipho indoda inika kakhulu, kuba ezininzi kwiintsapho, umfazi uyazi malunga nemvuzo yomntu, ukuchitha imali rhoqo kunokujonga
Ukuziphatha komntu otshatileyo othandweni kunokufundwa ngezizathu ezingenasigcaziso, ezinzima ukulawula. Xa into yokudumisa ibonakala, uzama ukungazibali. Xa ecaleni komfazi othandekayo, umntu uyazama ukubonakala ephakamileyo, ngoko ulungisa umqolo wakhe. Injabulo ibonakalisa ukwandiswa kwesithukuthezi, ukuphazamiseka kwezambatho, njl njl.
Umfazi unokukwazi ukubona ngokucacileyo ubukho bobudlelwane nomyeni wakhe kwicala, kuba ukudlala emacaleni amabini akulula. Indoda iziphatha ngokumangalisa, ngokuphindaphindiwe ekupheleni komsebenzi, iya kuhambo lwezoshishino kwaye idlulise ixesha kunye nabahlobo. Ukunxibelelana ubonisa ukwesaba, kuba kukho ukwesaba ukuzingcatsha.