Ukuze ukwazi ukuqonda. Ndifumana umntu okanye intombazana eFrenchzone okanye kungenjalo, kufuneka uqale uziqonde ukuba yiyiphi i-Friendzone.
Yintoni iFrenchzone?
I-Frenchzone kwiinguqulelo zangempela ithetha indawo yohlobo okanye indawo yomngane. Oku kuthetha ukuba loo nto intombazana okanye intombazana ifakwe kwisangqa sahlobo okanye intombi zamantombazana ethile okanye intombi. Ngako oko, yonke intetho yonxibelelwano nomhlobo waseFranzone iyancitshiswa ukuba ikhulume kwifowuni, ihlawule ubomi, ibole imali ide ifikelele kangcono, okanye, njengabanye abantu, ukuphazamisa umsindo wakho okanye intukuthelo. Akuzange kubekho ubudlelwane bokuthandana kwiFrenchzone, kwaye ayikwazi. Ngoko loo mntu akakwazi ukucinga ngeengcinga zakhe ngoku ukuba intombazana ngumhlobo wakhe, kodwa ke ummangaliso uya kwenzeka, kwaye uya kubona indlela enhle ngayo kwaye amthandane naye ngaphandle kokukhumbula. Oku akusayi kwenzeka.
Uyakuqonda njani ukuba useFrenchzone?
Ukuze uqonde ukuba umfana ungowomntombazana we-frendzone okanye akunjalo, akudingeki ukuba ube neenkcukacha ezisixhenxe ebunzini. Ukuba intombazana ayifuni ukudibana nomntu ohlala kuyo, kodwa ukhetha ukuthetha naye kwifowuni, ingakumbi xa uxoxa ngeengxaki zabo kunye neengxaki zamantombazana, uthi enye into, loo nto yayiseFrenchzone.
Kwakhona, ukuba umfana ufumana kakuhle okanye unezigqibo ezilungileyo kubazali, ngoko kuvela kwintombazana enokuthi ibe nezicelo ezinjengokuthi "ndithengele oku, ndiza kukunika imali." Ngokuqhelekileyo imali ayibuyanga, kodwa indoda ilinde kwaye ilindele ukubonakalisa iimvakalelo ezivela kwintanda yakhe.
Indlela yokuphuma kwikhondom?
Ukuze uphume kwimibala enobungane kukho ukhetho oluninzi. Okokuqala kunye neyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba uzame ukutshintsha wena, kuba ukuba intombazana ayinomdla kumfana njengento yokudumisa, ke loo mfana akasenayo umdla. Kubalulekile ukuzama ukulungisa le meko.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu kule meko kukuguqula ingqalelo kwenye into: kufuneka ungene kwimidlalo okanye uhambe uhambo, uzenzele umdlalo. Musa ukugxila kule ntombazana kwaye ke, xa eqala ukuqonda ukuba umfana owayengumhlobo nje naye wayenomdla ngakumbi kwaye unomdla kunokuba wayecinga, kwaye uya kuqala ukukhangela iintlanganiso kunye naye.
Inketho yesibini yokushiya iFrenchzone yintlango ehlabathini lakhe. Oko kukuthi, ungaphenduli iifowuni, ungahambi kwiintanethi zentlalo, ukuze loo ntombazana ibe nomuzwa wokuthi into ephosakeleyo kwaye uya kuqala ukukhangela umhlobo wakhe, nangona ekhwankqisayo, iya kuba yinto ecacileyo. Kwixesha elide, umfana akakwazi ukulahleka ukuba akafuni ukuba intombazana imkhohlwe ngokupheleleyo. Ngeentsuku ezintlanu. Ezi zinto zimbini zikhetha ukuphuma kwintombazana yentombazana.
Indlela yokuphuma kwintombazana evela kwi-friendlyzone?
Into ebaluleke kakhulu intombazana ukuba ayeke ukuba ngumhlobo kumntu nguye nawuphi na umvo ovusa umona wakhe. Ukhwele ngumvakalelo oqinileyo, ukuba uyamvusa kumfana, uya kuguqula iintaba ukuba abe nenjongo yokudumisa.
Kwakhona kuyafaneleka ukuzama ukutshintsha umfanekiso wakho. Shintsha i-hairstyle, make-up, yenza umuthi omtsha, utshintshe isitala seengubo. Kufuneka ukuba utshintshe umfanekiso wakho ngendlela ebonisa ukubonakalisa bonke ubufazi obunikwe intombazana. Kubalulekile ukuba uzame ukwenza yonke into ukuze angaboni intombazana entombazana onokukwazi ukuyenza ngokubomi ngobomi. Kubalulekile ukuba uzive engumkhuseli onokuyisindisa intombazana kuzo zonke iingxaki. Olu hlobo oluthathaka, oluthelekileyo nolusengozini. Kodwa into ephambili kulo msebenzi awuyikuyidlula.