Abasetyhini abaninzi abanobuhle besini kunye neefom ezinqabileyo zihlala zixakeka malunga nomfanekiso wazo. Umbuzo wokuba ngaba amadoda afana nabasetyhini abagciniweyo, ngoku ufanelekileyo. Emva koko, yonke intombazana ifuna ukuthandwa nokuthanda. Nangona kunjalo, akuyena wonke umntu onokungena kwisakhelo semigangatho yobuhle enokuthi imfashini idalwe.
Kutheni amadoda afana nabasetyhini abahlambulukileyo?
Indoda iya kuhlala ikhetha umfazi onako ukuphumla, uyibale ngokuphila kwansuku zonke kwaye uzive ukhululekile kuye. Amantombazana amaninzi ayavuya, akwazi ukuxhasa incoko nayiphi na isihloko, ukuhleka, ukuhleka. Kodwa kukho abo ngenxa yeengxaki zabo ezinomsindo kunye novuyo lwento yonke eyenzekayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngokumalunga nawa mabhinqa, amadoda akayi kuziva, ngoko bazama ukuwaphepha. Laba bantu baphazamisa ubunzima obuninzi kwaye bakholelwa ukuba amadoda ayithandi abafazi abapheleleyo, nangona oku akunjalo.
Ukucinga ukuba ngaba amadoda afana nabasetyhini abagciniweyo, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba kwindawo yokuqala baqwalasela abafazi abanentembelo. Xa intombazana iyakuthanda, iya kuhlala ihlambulukile, inesikhumba esicocekileyo, izinwele ezibekwe phantsi kunye nokuhlambulula umzimba. Ngexesha elifanayo unomdla wokunxibelelana , ukumncumo okumnandi kunye nobungane ebusweni bakhe, kwaye amehlo akhe akhanya. Umfazi onjalo akayi kushiywa ingqalelo kwintsibano echasene nesini, kwaye inani lemali elongezelelweyo ayiyi kubaluleka.
Yintoni amadoda ayithandayo abafazi abapheleleyo?
Ezinye izifundo zibonise ukuba amadoda angaphezu kweminyaka engama-35 anjengamantombazana angama-plump. Kulo nyaka, ubulili obuqinileyo buba nolwazi oluninzi kwaye alukho nje ingqalelo kwimibala, kodwa nakwihlabathi elingaphakathi. Kwakhona, abaninzi abantu bathi abafazi abatyebileyo banomdla kakhulu. Kwaye, njengoko uyazi, indlela eya entliziyweni yomntu ilele esiswini.