Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngamnye wethu kwisigaba esithile sobudlelwane bethu obonwabileyo nomntu othandekayo ucinga ngendlela yokuzisindisa, njani ukuzalela umntwana wakho, amadoda. Indlela yokuhamba kuzo zonke iimeko zezobomi, kubandakanywa kunzima kakhulu - ubomi kwaye uhlale unomdla kwaye unqwenelekayo ..
Ndiyayika ukumcasula loo mntu
Nangona kunjalo ukuba bonke abantu bahluke, kodwa zonke zifuna iimfuno ezithile. Ngako oko, ngaphambi kokuba uphendule umbuzo othi kutheni intombazana ibuhlungu ngumfana okanye kutheni umfana ediniwe ulwalamano, kufuneka ukwazi ezi zidingo. Siza kukuxelela ngokukhawuleza kwaye sinike amacebiso ngento nganye.
1. Ukwabelana ngesondo, uthando kunye ne-rock'n'roll. Kwimeko nayiphi na ubudlelwane, nangona umntu ethanda i-blues, umculo we-classic okanye i-R & B, kubalulekile ukuba wonke umntu abe nesifiso, uthando kunye nomdla. Ngoko ke:
- ukulungiswa kakuhle, okuhle kwaye kukhangele, naphezu kwemizwa yakho yemozulu okanye nayiphi na into.
- uyintombazana, ukubonakaliswa kobuntombi kunye noluthando, ngoko luthando luze lube ludaka kwaye ungabonakali ekubonakalweni kwentando kunye nomsa kumthande wakho.
- kunika ixesha lokukuhlakulela, njengombhangqwana, kwimicimbi esondeleyo, oku kuya kukunceda ukuba usondele ngakumbi komnye nomnye, kwaye kungenjalo.
2. Wafika, wabona, wunqoba. Nabani na umntu ngokwemvelo ngumnqobi kwaye, nangona inani leminyaka ahlala kuyo ndawonye, kufuneka ahlale ezinzwaneni zakhe, angahlali. Kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba zonke iinjongo zakhe kunye nomnqweno wokuzingela nokunqoba zixhomekeke kuwe kuphela.
- Musa kuba nomona. Uyazi, kukho ibinzana elungileyo, ungamlindi loo ndoda, kodwa jonga ngokwakho, ngoko indoda iya kukulandela. Oku kunjalo.
- musa ukuzimela. Zinike ilungelo lokungaqiniseki, ube ngumntu othakazelisayo, yintoni eya kumnceda ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukufumanisa izinto ezintsha.
- ungacinezeli. Akunakwenzeka ukugcina ubudlelwane, ukuba uyimbiza njalo ngemizuzu emihlanu, ubeka ingozi kuye nje.
3. Ukwamkela, ukuqaphela kunye nokufuneka. Apha sithetha ngecala lomzwelo nomzwelo womphefumlo wakho. Nangona umfana wakho ungumkhuseli, ijoni okanye inkokeli yegundane le-mafia, unesicaka sengqondo, kwaye uyayidinga ingqalelo yakho.
- musa ukunyanzelisa. Thatha ukuba ngubani na kwaye ungayibhekiseli ubuthathaka bayo nantoni na, iya kuguqula ukuzithemba kwakhe, kodwa kutheni ufuna umntu aqiniseke ngaye? Ukuba unenanto ephosakeleyo, zilungise njengowesifazane.
- hlonela okhethiweyo, mxabise kwaye nimmncede, mnike amaphiko kunye nokuphefumlela ukwenza imisebenzi enkulu.
- qi niseka ukuba unike loo mntu ingqalelo ebalulekileyo ebomini bakho, imfuneko yokuba khona kwayo nokubaluleka.
Ukuba umntu ukhathele ngumfazi
Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba bonke abantu bahluke. Ngokuqinisekileyo, okhethiweyo ufuna ubukho bazo zonke iziqendu ezintathu, kodwa ngelo xesha, ezinye zazo zingabalulekanga ngakumbi okanye ngaphantsi, bonke ngabanye.
Ngoku, uyaqonda ukuba ulwalamano lwakho alukwenzeki ngomlingo, ukuba ukulibala ngonaphakade ngamazwi, njengokuba "intombazana idiniwe ngumfana", kuyimfuneko ukusebenza imihla ngemihla. Kwaye akukho mntu, akukho mama, akukho tata, akukho mhlobo ongcono onokuyenza. Lo msebenzi, umsebenzi onzima, kodwa ukuba ulungele ukwenza konke ezandleni zakho, uya kuvuyela ubomi bakho kunye!