Yonke intokazi ifuna ukuba yinto enqwenelekayo kumntu wayo, ngoko ke umbuzo wokunyanelisa umntu olala embhedeni uthatha indawo eninzi kwiintloko zethu. Emva koko, uqonde oko umntu akufunayo ebhedeni noko akulindeleyo, o, kungabi lula. Ngoko masifumane olu luhlu!
Yintoni abayithandayo?
- Uthanda umntu olele embhedeni? Khangela oko kumkholisa. Buza iqabane lakho malunga nezenzo zakho kumnika unonwabo olukhulu. Iminqweno yamadoda ebhedini ayisoloko ihlaba ingcamango, kwaye ininzi yabo ifuna nje ingqalelo encinane kumntu wayo. Abafazi banamhlanje ngenxa yesizathu esithile bacinga ukuba akuyimfuneko ukunyamekela iimvakalelo zomntu, kwaye gxininise kuphela ekuthandeni kwabo. Zama ukucinga kabini malunga nokuba lakho iqabane liyakuvuyela into oyenzayo, okanye ayivalelwa nayiphi na imizwa. Ukwaneliseka komzimba kunomtsalane kunokuba usebenzise iqabane lakho njengeqhinga lokudlala ngesondo.
- Yintoni amadoda ayifunayo ebhedini? Ngokucacileyo, bafuna ukuzonwabisa, kodwa umfazi kufuneka ancede kule nto. Musa ukuhlala uncike ekuthandeni komlingane, ngamanye amaxesha kukufanele uthabathe izithintelo ezandleni zakho zincinci. Indoda enolonwabo iya kuninika ilungelo elinjalo kwaye iya kuvuyisa, kuba ngulo msebenzi ubonisa ukuba ufuna isondo njengoko wenzayo. Zive ukhululekile ukubonisa uthando lwakho kunye nomnqweno, kulukhuni ukulinga.
- Indoda ikhetha ntoni embhedeni? Inkosikazi enhle akufanele ibe yintando kuphela kwaye isebenze, kodwa iyancipha. Ngaba uthanda ukumanga kunye namazwi alula? Kwaye kutheni ucinga ukuba indoda yakho ayinandaba nokubonakalisa iimvakalelo ezinjalo? Akayi kukukhumbula nantoni na ukuba uthathe ixesha elingakumbi lokubanga, kwaye akudingeki ukuba uzinqande ebusweni nangentanyeni - kukho imimandla emininzi emzimbeni wakho womfana. Kwaye ke, mxelele indlela enhle ngayo, kwaye ulungile kangakanani naye. Musa ukulibala ukuncoma umntu olele embhedeni. Zama, amazwi anothando ayenako ukwenza imimangaliso.
- Yintoni amadoda ayithandayo embhedeni? Bathanda abafazi, kwaye bafuna ukuba bathande ngokwabo. Ngoku akukho ngokuzikhathaza phambi komntu othandekayo, nangona akukho mntu uzama ukukuzama. Kuthetha uthando lwakho, lomzimba wakho. Ewe, unokuthanda njani umntu olele embhedeni, ukuba intloko yakhe ihlala ehamba ekhanda intloko efana ne "ah, ndinomkhuhlane omncinci, ngoku uya kubona kwaye adakalise" okanye "yintoni isifo sokutya, ndinexhala elibi, ndifuna ngokufihlakele ukufihla ukuze angaboni." Ladies, zamkele ngokwakho, qiniseka ngobunqunu bakho, kwaye indoda yakho iya kuyikholwa kwaye ayikho i-blondes e-silicone iyakufuneka. Ubundlobongela abubonakali, kodwa entloko - oko ucinga ngako wena, nguwe lo.
- Uthanda umntu olele embhedeni? Uyakhumbula oko abantu abathandayo ngamehlo abo? Ngoko yintoni umcimbi? Gqoka iingubo zangaphantsi ezintle, izicathulo eziphezulu, njl njl Ngendlela, amadoda amaninzi athi ayawuthanda xa kukho i-wardrobe esele kwindodakazi, umzekelo, iisitokisi, iifutshane, i-bursting, i-vest, kodwa ingekho ngaphantsi kweengubo.
Yintoni abantu abayoyikayo embhedeni?
Unokumangaliswa, kodwa isisombululo sesibhedlele sobhedlele besilisa bethu be-alpha sikhulu kakhulu. Ukusuka kokwesaba ukuthelekisa isidima sabo kunye nezakhono kunye nabathandi bexesha elidlulileyo ekubeni besenokuba intombazana yokuqala. Phakathi kokutya okuqhelekileyo kwakunjalo:
- ukungafuni ukulala ngesondo, akukho mihlali;
- ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye ngenxa yoko, ukugqitywa ngokukhawuleza kwezinto ezithandekayo;
- ukufaniswa kwe-orgasm yomlingani;
- ukuxhalaba kwezibophelelo, ngakumbi xa umfazi eqala ukubiza amalungelo kumntu kunye nommandla wakhe emva kobusuku bokuqala;
- ukwesaba ukukhulelwa okungakhethi;
- ukwesaba ukugatywa;
- uloyiko lokungahlangabezi nembono yowesifazane (nayiphi na imigangatho) njalo njalo.
Abanjalo basengozini kwaye ngamanye amaxesha amadoda angenakuxanduva. Kufanelekile ukukhumbula le nto kwaye uzame ukukrazula iqabane lakhe lokwesaba. Ewe, kutheni ufuna inkwenkwe efihlile kwikona yebhedi?