Xa ulwalamano luba nzima, izibini ezininzi azilungele ukuwamkela oku kwaye uzame iindlela ezintsha zokuphuhlisa ubudlelwane babo ngokwesondo. Ezinye izibini zifumana ukuzonwabisa kwabo kwinto efana ne-BDSM, apho i-mystery ivela khona, okanye ilula kuneNkosikazi.
Unkosikazi (Mistress) - umfanekiso
Mistress kufanele abheke njani kwi-BDSM? Kule nto uza kuxhamla kwiikhathalogu ezininzi zeentengiso zesini ozozibona kwi-intanethi. Ngomqondo weklasiki, umfanekiso kufuneka udibanise izinto ezininzi zombala omnyama: isikhumba okanye izinto ze-latex, mhlawumbi iibhothi, iifowuni ezahlukeneyo ngendlela yemivimbo, iinkokhelo, iintambo, intambo yeqabane kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi. Lo mfanekiso ulungele ukulungiswa ngokukrakra kwisitayela samaGothi kunye nobumnyama-okanye ubunwele obumnyama (oku kufumaneka lula ngokugqoka i-wig).
Umfanekiso kufuneka ucingwe ngokubhekiselele kwiinkcukacha ezincinci: ukwakheka, ukubethela umlomo, ukuvumba, "iipropthi" - konke oku kufuneka kulungiswe ngokucwangcisekileyo nangaphambili. Kukholelwa ukuba imibhangqwana esebenzisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokudlala umdlalo, kubandakanywa ne-BDSM, iyona nto inamandla kakhulu.
Isini Mistress: Abasebenzi
Okumangalisayo kukuba, nangona abantu bethetha ukuba bafuna ukulawula abantu besetyhini, umfanekiso onobungozi, onobuqili, onobungozi ubangabangela ukuba ngamanye amaxesha asemandleni abo bonke abancinci nabasetyhini.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku akunakunceda kodwa udlalwe ngabafundisi "bothando" abaqeqeshiweyo, abaninzi babo bafumana izingosi zabo, apho abathengi abanokubakho ukuba bazifundele uluhlu lweenkonzo ezibonelelwe kunye nokuvavanya ukubonakala komfanekiso. Iinkonzo zolu hlobo zinikwe kunye nezinye iironi ezinobunzima bokuzihlakulela ngaphandle kokuthandana. Kule meko, intombazana eyimfihlakalo edlalwa kwingxoxo yokuqala kunye nomxhasi ifuna ukufumanisa ukulungela kwayo kunye nendawo, kuba kungekhona wonke umntu oza kulungiswa ngokwengqondo.