Ukwabelana ngesondo luyingxenye ebalulekileyo yothando lwalamano. Ubuhlobo obusondeleyo obusondeleyo bubaluleke kakhulu kwizesondo ezinamandla. Ukukholisa umntu omthandayo, enelisekile le mfuneko yendoda yesintu kwaye ibe yinto enqwenelekayo ngakumbi kukhethiweyo wakhe, mhlawumbi kufuneka uguqule into ebhedeni. Kule nto, okokuqala, kufuneka uqonde ukuba yintoni amadoda abelana ngesondo abathanda kakhulu.
Luhlobo luni lwesini abafana nabo?
Okokuqala, abantu abatsha bafuna ukubona intombi ekhululekileyo neyithemba elala. Ngako oko, umsebenzi kunye neqhinga kwinxalenye yamadoda amaqabane amkelekile. Ikhefu lingaba imidlalo yokudlala indima, apho kungabikho ukungahambi.
Ayikho imfihlo abantu abayithandayo ukuba bayithande umzimba wesetyhini. Ngoko ke, intombi ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ayifanele ibe neentloni kwaye uzame ukuzifihla ngeengubo okanye ukucima ukukhanya. Ngokuqhelekileyo umntu uyacaphukisa. Ngenxa yoko, bobabini abalingani abakwazi ukuphumla ngokupheleleyo kwaye banandipha inkqubo.
Iziphumo zophando ezithile zibonise ukuba abafana abayithandanga xa iqabane lawo lingathuli ngexesha lokulala. Ewe, ukukrazula ngobuqhetseba baninzi abantu abathanda. Nangona kunjalo, ukugcoba kweentombazana kungekudala kuphela, kodwa kuyacaca ukuba wenza konke okulungileyo kwaye uyayonwabela okhethiweyo.
Ukubuza ukuba luhlobo luni lwabesilisa abathandana nabo ngokwesini, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba isondo esinamandla sikhetha ukuhlukahluka kobomi obusondeleyo. Ngako-ke, kuphela ukuthunywa kwabavangeli basemazweni kubalulekile. Kwakhona kubalulekile indawo ekhethiweyo yokulala ngesondo. Amadoda afana nokufunda iindawo ezintsha kwaye asebenzise imizobo eyahlukeneyo yesondo.
Kutheni amadoda anjengezesondo ezinzima emva?
Ngokwemvelo yabo, amadoda athambekele ekuqinileyo kwaye alawula iqabane lawo kungekhona kuphela ebomini, kodwa nakwiindawo ezithandanayo. Ubulili obunzima bubungqina bokuba.
I-pose ye "doggie" yenye yeentandokazi zamadoda amaninzi. Emva koko, kulesi sikhundla ukuba angakwazi ukulawula yonke inkqubo kwaye azive eyona nto ebalulekileyo. Ukwabelana ngesondo kule ndawo ichaza imbono yomntu ngamagqabi amabhinqa, oko kukuvuselela okongezelelweyo. Kwakhona, i-posture "esuka ngasemva" ibonwa njengobonakaliso bokuthembela kwinxalenye yeqabane.
Ukongezelela, oku kuhamba kwimeko yonke. Akudingi uqeqesho olulodwa olufanelekileyo kwaye lufanelekile ukulala ngesini nawuphi na indawo nangaliphi na ixesha.