Ukuba unomdla wokudlala, kwaye ufuna ukunika umhlobo wakho into ecacileyo, cinga ngezinto ozobhalela umfana ukuba amvuse. Kukho ukhetho oluninzi, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba ukhethe omnye oza kuvakala okwemvelo kuwe - mhlawumbi umntu angathatha umdlalo ngodlwengulo okanye ihlaya, kwaye usabele ngendlela eyahlukileyo kunokuba ulindele.
Indlela yokunandipha umntu ngokubhala?
Njengoko kuyaziwa, amadoda aphendule kakuhle kwimifanekiso ebonakalayo (oko kutheni i-erotica kunye neentlophu zoonopopasho zithandwa kakhulu). Ukuba awufuni ukuchitha ixesha kwi-correspondence, ukuseka uqhagamshelwano kunye nokunye, ngoko unokubhala nje ngezinto othenge ngazo ngaphantsi kweengubo zangasese, i-corset okanye inhlanganisela, kwaye uthumele udutshulwa oluthile kwindawo entsha. Ngendlela, nangona ungathumeli umfanekiso, kodwa uchaze ngokucacileyo indlela obukeka ngayo, ukuhlawula ingqalelo ekhethekileyo esifubeni, ezinqeni nasezinqeni, umphumo ongeke ube namandla.
Amadoda ayaphendula ngokufanelekileyo ngentshiseko yowesifazane. Ukucinga malunga namaphi amagama okuthabatha umfana, musa ukwenza imibhalo yobugcisa, kodwa nje uzame ukuthetha ngokucacileyo oko ufuna ukukwenza naye, kaninzi kangakanani.
Enye indlela yokuthabatha indoda kukukhumbuza iqela elinomdla owake waphila, ekuboneni iinkcukacha ezimbalwa ozithandayo ngaphezu kwabanye.
Indlela yokuvuyela umntu kwi-intanethi?
Kwi-Intanethi, kungekhona kuphela idilesi ekhoyo, kodwa kunye nokutshintshana kweefoto kunye namavidiyo, kunye nokukhulumisana kwevidiyo. Ukuba ufuna, ungakhetha ixesha elifanelekileyo xa umntu engayi kuphazamiseka, kwaye umemele ukuba athethe, umzekelo, kwi-Skype. Beka iingubo zangaphantsi ezisezantsi kwaye ujongane nayo yonke inkazimulo. Ukuba oku kuyimimangaliso kumntu, mhlawumbi, umphumo oyifunayo uya kuba nokuba ungathethi nantoni na.
Kwimibuzo yendlela yokuthabatha umfana ngokubanzi, kubalulekile ukuqonda iinjongo oziqhubelayo. Ukuba ulindele ukuba emva koko uza kuza kuwe ngokuqhubekayo okulungileyo, awukwazi ukuhlambalaza ngokukhetha iindlela zokuzonwabisa kunye nokunikela nantoni na, ukuya kwizesondo ezibonakalayo. Ukuba ufuna nje ukumnciphisa, kungcono ukuba ungayi kude, kodwa ukufumana izicatshulwa zokukhanya-umzekelo, ukuthetha ukuba ulahlekelwe kangakanani, njengokungathi uzibandakanyeka ngokuzenzekelayo emzimbeni.
Ukongezelela, qaphela ukuqala iqabane xa ude kude nomnye: kunokwenzeka ukuba uya kugqiba ukulahla umxhelo ohlangeneyo kunye nomfazi wokuqala osibanjwe.