Ukwahlukana phakathi kombhede kulungile, kodwa kunzima kangakanani xa iqabane libonisa ukuzama into entsha. Apha, umzekelo, isondo somntu wesilwanyana - okokuqala kunye nokwesabisayo, kwaye ungonwabi, kwaye ubuhlungu. Ngoko ke, kwimeko yokuqala, abafazi bavame ukuvumelana kuphela emva kokunyaniseka kwexesha elide kunye nokunyaniseka okukhulu. Isiphumo kukuba ukungabikho kwenjabulo kumabini amaqabane kunye nokukhanyela okunzima kwala majazi ukuphinda abuyele amava amaninzi. Ngoko, ngokuchanekileyo, ngokugqithisileyo, ukulala ngesondo kuqala? Masiqale ngokulungiselela le nkqubo enomdla.
Indlela yokufumana isondo lesilwane lesilwane ngaphandle kwesifo
Ukuziphatha ngokwesini somntu wokuqala, okokuqala, ukulungiselela oko, ingakumbi ukuba yonke into evuyisayo yale nkqubo uza kuba neyokuqala. Uhlobo luka-Anus lwesini alujoliswanga kwaye alukho ukulingana okufanayo njengowesifazane. Yingakho xa uzama ukungena, unokuvakalelwa kwaye uyalimaza le nxalenye yomzimba wakho. Ukuze ugweme oku, kungcono ukuzama ukusebenzisa i-anus yakho iintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba isenzo ngokwalo. Unokwenza oku ngokuzixhoba nge-expander kwivenkile yesondo. Kwaye ungasebenzisa iminwe yakho (nqunqa izikhonkwane ezifutshane) kule njongo, utyutywe nge-petroleum jelly. Ngaphambi kokuqala koqeqesho olunjalo kunqweneleka ukuphumla, umzekelo, ngokuthatha ibhafu elifudumeleyo. Ukuphepha ukuvakalelwa okungekho nto kuya kunceda kwaye ujonge. Indlela yokufezekisa ngayo - ngoncedo lomlingane okanye wena-zigqibo zakho.
Ukuziphatha ngesondo esifanelekileyo kubandakanya ukuzonwabisa kwabo bobabini abalingani, kwaye kungekhona ukuvakalelwa. Ngoko ke, ngenxa yesenzo kufuneka uthenge i-lubricant eyenzelwe ngokukodwa ezi njongo. Ezi zixhobo zinezixhobo ezichasayo nezikhubaza izifo. Iibluegrants-based based oil should not be used if you use condoms made of latex.
Ufanele uyenze njani ukulala ngesondo? Ukuba igama elithi "ngokuchanekileyo" sithetha "ukhuselekileyo", ngoko nangoko imbono ivela kwidingo yokukhuselwa. Nangona iqabane lihlala liphela kwaye usetyenziselwa ukungasebenzisi iikhondom ngekhondom, ngoko kufuneka uzifake kwi-sex anal anal. Kwi-vagina kunye ne-rectum kukho iibhaktheriya ezithile ezingenakuvuswa. Yingakho kungacetyiswa ukuba udibanise isondo esilumkileyo kunye nesisu. Ukuba usenza isigqibo sokwenza oku, kufuneka uguqule ngokuqinisekileyo ikhondom uze uhlambe izitho zakho zobulili.
Ucinga ntoni, ngenxa yintoni abafazi besabayo yokulala ngesondo? Intlungu kwaye, ngokuchanekileyo, uloyiko lokuba iqabane liza kushiya i-stol. Akufanele ukwesaba oku: okokuqala, i-lubricant oyisebenzisayo ayiyi kuvumela nantoni na ukuba ibambelele kwikondom. Kwaye okwesibini, ngexesha lokuxhatshazwa iifesi ziya kufakwa ngaphakathi, ngoko akukho nto inamathela. Kodwa ukukhupha amathumbu ngaphambi kokuba ubulili bufaneleke, kuya kukuvumela ukuba uphumule kangcono. Yaye ke, awukwazi ukulibala malunga nemithetho yococeko - i-anus kufuneka ihlanjwe ngesepha okanye ngoncedo lokucoceka kohlobo.
Indlela yokwenza ngayo ngexesha le nkqubo?
Ewe, iqabane lakho kulindeleke, ulungiselele. Yintoni endiyenzayo ukuba ndiyilandele ngokulandelayo, indlela yokuqala ngesondo lesilwanyana? Kungcono ukuqala ukulungiselela ukuvula umlingeli wokungena xa usuvele ukhatywe ngokwaneleyo ngethuba lokuqala. Kulo mzuzwana umlingane kufuneka aqale ukuphazamisa i-anus yakho (iminwe, ulwimi - akunandaba nokuba uyithandayo). Xa i-caresses yenza umsebenzi wabo kwaye ukhululekile, unako ukuqhubeka kwisigaba sesibini - ukufakwa komnwe kwi-anus. Kwaye umnwe, kunye ne-anus, ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka ibe nefuthe ngokugqithiseleyo nge-lubricant. Umnwe kufuneka ungeniswe ngokuthe ngcembe, wenze ukunyakaza kweseyhula, ukwandisa i-anus. Xa ezi zenzo zifunyenwe kakuhle nguwe, unokuqhubeka nokuzama ukuzisa i-penis - i-condom lubricant ayanele, ngoko kulungile ukusebenzisa i-lubricant ngaphezu kwalokho. Akuyimfuneko ukukhawuleza apha, emva kokungena kuyimfuneko ukumisa kwaye ulinde de kube umzimba usebenziseke kuwo. Emva koko, unako ukuqhubeka uhamba, kodwa kuphela i-jerks epholileyo, ebuhlungu. Ukuba kukho iintlungu ezibuhlungu, kungcono ukuphazamisa isenzo ukuze ukhuphe ukulimala.