Imidlalo emidlalweni yodwa kunye nabo ngokwabo njengeentlobo zobomi bomntu siqu. Kodwa inzala enzulu kule nkqubo ingayiguqula ibe ngumkhwa okanye ibangela ingozi. Ukonakalisa i-masturbation, impembelelo yokukhwabanisa ngomnqweno wakho nomnqweno weqabane, siza kuxela kweli nqaku.
Ngaba ukuhlaziya isicatshulwa kuyingozi?
Umntu ngamnye ulwahlukileyo kwinqanaba lomsebenzi wesondo, kwaye ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo angakhula aze awele. Ngaba ukuhlaziya iincwadana kukuchaphazela ubomi besondo? Impembelelo, kunjalo, Oku kuyinto enempilo kwaye amaninzi amabhinqa namadoda ahlala asebenzisa i-masturbation njengoluhlobo lokuphucula ngokwesondo. Njengabaselula, ngokokuqala ngqa, abaninzi abantu banambitha yonke into evuyisayo yalo mdlalo oyimfihlo, malunga nokuba kukho iingxoxo ezininzi namhlanje. Kule meko, i-masturbation inceda ukuqaphela umzimba, inika umdla. Ukuba le nkqubo iye yaba ngumkhwa, ingaba nomphumo ongathandeki kumzimba kunye nokukwazi ukuvuya.
Kuzibhinqa ukuzigcoba akukho nto ihlaziyileyo kwaye iphilileyo. Kodwa ngesinye isimo esibalulekileyo: esi sifundo akufanele sithathe iingcinga zakho. Ngamanye amagama, unokwenza i-masturbate ubuncinane amaxesha amaninzi ngosuku, ufumane uvuyo kunye nokwaneliseka kulo msebenzi, kodwa kuphela ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo. Akunani inani leengqungquthela ekufuneka lixhalabele lona, kodwa ingqalelo ohlawula kuyo. Ukuba iingcamango zakho zijonge ngokugqithisileyo malunga nalo msebenzi, lixesha lokuzibuza imibuzo embi:
- Ngaba unqabana ukudibana kunye nokukhetha ubusuku bodwa?
- Ngaba ufikelele ekufundeni, ngenxa yomsebenzi ngenxa yokuba awukwazi ukuzinqumla emzimbeni wakho?
- Ukuphonyula kube yinto yakho yokuzilibazisa?
Ukuba ungayiphendula le mibuzo ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka ucinge ngengxaki.
Iziphumo zentombazana yesini
Ngokuphathelele ukuba i-masturbation inobungozi kwabasetyhini, bathi abaninzi: ngendlela efanelekileyo - hayi. Ukongezelela, ukugunda i-masturbation kuya kukuvumela umfazi ukuba aqonde into ayithandayo, ukwazi umzimba wakhe aze acinge ukuba ufuna ntoni kwintlobano yesini. Imiphumo yokuphonywa kwabasetyhini ayiyingozi, kodwa ukukhutshwa kwaye ibandakanyeke ukubaluleka kokuzinelisekanga akufanelekanga. Abanye abantu abazange bahlaziye i-masturbated, kwaye ubomi babo babonakala bubuthathaka.
Namhlanje, ukuze ufumane ukuzonwabisa ngokwesondo ngokwakho, kukho iindlela ezininzi kunye nezindlela. Kodwa, nangona uphuhliso lweshishini leetayini kunye nezinto zokusebenza, musa ukulibala ukuba abo babini baya kunika ulonwabo loluntu.
Ukuba ukhathazeke ngeentlungu emva kokuhlaziya i-masturbation, kufuneka ubone ugqirha, kuba ezi ntlungu zingabangelwa zizizathu ezininzi. Ubuhlungu bunokubangelwa yintlungu xa usebenzise amathoyizi xa uhlawula umzimba. Ngenye indlela, hlala ekhaya uze uxinezele iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo, akulungele ukutyelela iofisi yegqirha.
Yintoni eyenza i-masturbation?
Ukugqithwa ngokukhawuleza akuyi kukukwenza ulinde imiphumo emibi. Le yinye yeendlela ezininzi zokuzikholisa.
Kodwa ukuba uyaphawula ukuba i-masturbation ithathe ixesha elide ukuba libe yinto engathandekiyo, mhlawumbi uzama ukufumana impendulo kumbuzo wendlela yokukrazula i-masturbation. Ngaba unomlingani osisigxina? Ncokola naye ngokungenangqiqo, vumelani, ndixelele ukuba kutheni ukwenza oku. Tshela umhlobo wakho oko ungasweleli ngesondo, oko uthandayo, ungesabi ukuvuma iziganeko zakho zesini. Khumbula, ingqondo yakho inamandla kuneminqweno yakho, awuthandi omnye umntu kufuneka akwazi ukulawula izenzo zakhe.