Akuqhelekanga kwiimeko apho iimvakalelo zivela kumntu ongondliyo ekuphenduleni iimvakalelo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, abaninzi abasetyhini banomdla ukuba umntu angayithandana nexesha, kwaye yintoni imizamo ekufuneka iyenze ukuphumelela abakhethiweyo. Iingcali zengqondo zithi yonke into inokwenzeka, ebaluleke kakhulu, ukwazi ezinye iimfihlelo kwaye uyisebenzise ngokuchanekileyo.
Indlela yokwenza umntu akuthande?
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukukhankanya malunga nomgaqo obaluleke kakhulu - akudingeki ukuba ugqoke imaski kwaye udlale indima, kuba kungekudala emva koko inkohliso iya kubonakala, nto leyo eya kubangela ukungquzulana, kwaye mhlawumbi izahlukana .
Indlela yokwenza indoda ithande umfazi:
- Nantoni na into ongayithethayo, kodwa abantu bathanda amehlo, ngoko ke umfazi kufuneka ahlale ekhangele inaliti. Yonke into ifanele ibe ngokumodareyitha, oku kusebenza kokubini nokwenza iimpahla.
- Kubantu, kubalulekile ukuba ibhinqa lakhe lithanda abahlobo bakhe, kodwa kulo mbandela kubalulekile ukuba ungayithandi kwaye, nokuba kunjani na ukuba ungadlala nabo.
- Abameli bezesondo eziqinileyo ngabazingeli, ngoko ke ninganyanzelwanga ukuba nindoda. Khawulibala malunga neefowuni rhoqo kunye nemiyalezo eminingi.
- Ukuthetha malunga nento oyenzayo ukwenza indoda iyakuthanda, kulungile ukunika isiluleko esisodwa esibalulekileyo -ba ngumfazi ohlala ekhaya. Yiyo nje into yamantombazana yanamhlanje. Indoda ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuxabisa ukucoceka kunye nentuthuzelo endlwini, kunye nesidlo esiphundu etafileni.
- Kunzima ukudibana nendoda engafuni ukuba yiqhawe, ngoko ke umfazi kufanele enze konke okusemandleni ukwenza ukuba azive. Ukwenza oku, kulungile ukucela uncedo, nokuba ngaba ityala linokwenzeka.
- Abameli bezesondo ezinamandla njengendumiso, ngoko kubalulekile ukuphawula isithunzi sabo kunye nempumelelo. Kuphela ukwenza oku kulungile, kwaye uthethe inyaniso.
- Yiba nesimo esihle, ngenxa yokuba umfazi ongenasiphelo nomfazi onomsindo akayi kuthanda abantu abaninzi. Kubalulekile ukudala umoya wokukhanya kunye nolonwabo.