Akukho nxalenye yobomi bethu ijikelezwe ngeengcinga ezininzi ngezesondo. Kwaye umbuzo wobuntombi kule nto ayikho ilinganayo. Kwaye nangona kwimeko yokubungqina kwabasetyhini, ukuzukiswa kunye nexesha elifanayo "ukuhlaziywa", ngamanye amaxesha imibuzo ebhaliwe engafundile, ingaba kukufanelekile ukuthetha ukuba ubuncinci kubafana abazungezwe yi-aura ephezulu kakhulu, ngamanye amaxesha kude kakhulu nenyaniso. Ngoko, buphi ububhinqa bamakhwenkwe, kwaye "balahlekelwa njani" kwaye, ngokubanzi, ngaba abafana balahlekelwa ubuntombi babo - umxholo wendaba yethu yanamhlanje.
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Inkolelo yenombolo 1. Amakhwenkwe alahlekelwa ubuntombi bawo ngaphambili kunamantombazana
Kwamazwe amaninzi, imbali inamakhulu eminyaka iphakamileyo iphakanyisiwe kwizinga le-jewel engcwele, nto leyo intombazana kufuneka ikhuselwe ngazo zonke iindlela. Yaye ukuba ithe ibhinqa lingaziqhayisa ngobuntombi bakhe, ngoko, umntu, njengomthetho, ufuna ukulahla isihloko esithi "intombi", ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka, ubuncinane ngamazwi. Ngoko banamantombazana eneminyaka engama-13 ubudala, abathanda ngokuzithandela ngeentetho zabo kwiontanga zabo. Olunye uhlobo lwentombi enyulu lukhetha ukushiya imibuzo malunga nokulala ngokwesondo, kodwa bambalwa kakhulu abantu bayazi umfazi, bangena kwixesha lokuguquka. Ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi kubantwazana kudla kwenzeka kamva-kwiminyaka eyi-16 ukuya kwe-19 (kwaye oku kuchanekile, kuba ekudala, abafana abanakulungele ukulala ngokwesini). Ipesenti ephakamileyo ephezulu yeentombi ezindala, ngaphezu kweminyaka engama-25. Abaninzi babo bayaziphepha ngamabomu ukutshatyalaliswa komzimba, bakhetha "iintombi" kwiintengiso zesini okanye nakwihlabathi elibonakalayo.
Inkolelo yenombolo 2. Ukuba loo nto iselula, ngoko-ke iyingozi okanye igula
Izizathu zobuntombi kumakhwenkwe ziyakwazi ukukhonza ezininzi izinto: ukukhubazeka kwelungu (ukukhawulela, ukulinganisa okungaqhelekanga), amava okuqala aphumelelanga, izithintelo zonqulo okanye ukukhuliselwa ngokucokisekileyo. Intombi ingase ibe yintando egcina i-first and only.
Inkolelo yenombolo 2. Amakhwenkwe ayenzakalisa ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi bawo
Kungenzeka ukuba inkolelo incike kwizinto ezinjenge-phimosis - i-congenital okanye (ngokuqhelekileyo) ifunyenwe i-pathology - ukunciphisa intambo yejwabu, okuthintela ukutyhilwa ngokugcwele kwentloko ye-penis. Enyanisweni, ubuntombi bendoda abubonakalwanga naluphi na uhlobo, ubuntombi kumakhwenkwe kuthetha kuphela ukungabikho kwamava ezesondo kunye neqabane. Ukuba intombi iyakunciphisa ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo ngaphandle kokungena ekungeneni kwesini, ngaba. engalingani ngesondo, intombi, nokuba yintoni na into, sele ikwazi ukufumana ingxube kunye nokuqhekeka, ukuze umzimba omfazi ungenakunceda ukuphazamisa.
Inkolelo yenombolo yesithathu. Ixesha lokuqala lihlala lihlala imizuzwana embalwa
Ukutshatyalaliswa kwentombi yenkwenkwe kunokudityaniswa ixesha elide ngenxa yokwesaba ukungahlangabezane nokulindela kweqabane. Ngokwemimiselo esinikezwe yimfundo, indoda kufuneka idlale indima echaphazelekayo. Ukuba le ntombazana ayizange ilinge ukuvuma ukuba intombazana ingabonanga, ngoko ke, mhlawumbi, iimbilini zakhe ziya kuba ngumda. Kukho iingxaki malunga nokulungiswa okanye ukunyuka. Ukunyuswa kobuntombi kwindoda engenako isithsaba nge-orgasm. Nangona ngamanye amaxesha, ngokuqinisekileyo, "umthombo weemvakalelo" uqala ukubetha kwangaphambili.
Ungamthintela njani intombi yobuntombi?
Ukuba umfana wakho uvuma ukuba akazange abe nolwazi lwezesondo, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba unembopheleleko enkulu. Ewe, kunembopheleleko, kuba akukho mntu unokungabaza ukuba umntu othoba iqabane lobuntombi, kufuneka abe mnene kwaye abe neengxaki. Ubungqina bokuba ubuntombi buntombi abubonakalwanga ngandlela-thile, aluyikucima inkxalabo yengqondo yomntu. Ukusuka kwindlela abafana abalahlekelwa ngayo ubuntombi babo, kwixesha elizayo, ubomi babo bobulili bobuxhakaxhomekeke.
Akunjalo na ukuba uhleka okanye uhlekise intombi, kwaye xa ithe yafika kumbhede, yiba nzima kakhulu.