Akusiyo imfihlelo yokuba kwingxoxo ye 60-70% yolwazi umntu angayifumana kumagama, kodwa kungabikho kwimithombo engabonakaliyo: ukubukeka, ukuziphatha , ukuziphatha, ukubamba igama, njl. Yingakho umbono womfazi wesilisa unako ukuthetha ngaphezu kwamagama akhe. Ukuba intetho ityhilo into eyenziwa ngumntu ngokwakhe ngamabomu ukuba adlulisele kwabanye, ngoko amehlo anika yonke into engatshoyo.
Ukubukeka komfazi ongatshatanga
Abafazi abangatshatanga banokukhetha iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuziphatha. Abo bafuna ukukhangela iqabane, njengomthetho, bajonge ngokukhawuleza, bathumele amehlo abo kubantu, bajonge abanye. Ngomfazi onjalo kulula ukuhlangabezana nokukhangela kwisihlwele, ufuna ukuphawula kumntu ovulekile ukuthetha. Ngabo bafazi bahlala beqhelana, kwaye ngoko unokufumana umfazi ovavanya ukujonga. Kodwa ekuphononongeni okufutshane, amehlo akhe angase aphendule kwaye adideke - konke kuxhomekeke ekubeni sele ekhangela ixesha elingakanani.
Olunye uhlobo lwabasetyhini abangatshatanga banqwenela ukuba bangajongi konke. Ngokuqhelekileyo banamahloni okanye banokuzithoba, ngoko ke abalindele ukuba bathathe ingqalelo kwabanye abantu, kwaye musa ukuqaphela xa umntu ekhangele. Amehlo abo ahlala ehla, awanakucingwa ukuba akhangele emehlweni omnxibelelwano.
Ukubukeka komfazi othandweni
Xa umfazi ethandana, amehlo akhe avuthayo, ubuso bakhe bunomsindo omncinci kwaye buhlungu. Kulo rhu lumente, nayiphi na intombazana inqabileyo, iba yinto ekhangayo kwaye imema. Ukubukeka komfazi onothando uhlala eqaqambile ngovuyo, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo akaqapheli nabani na kuye, kuba ugxile kwiingcamango zakhe neemvakalelo zakhe.
Ukhangeleka njani umfazi onjalo? Kuphela ukuba akukho mntu unomdla kuye ngoku, ngaphandle kwento ethandwayo, uyavuya kwaye agxininiswe echibini lokuziva kwakhe.
Ukujongwa kwe-fatale yomfazi
Kukho uhlobo olunqabileyo - abafazi ababulalayo. Uyinto enhle, isetyhini, inqabileyo, engaqondakaliyo kwaye inomnandi. Ekuqaleni kubonakala ukuba akenzi nto ekhethekileyo, uziphatha ngokuzenzele, enxibe ngeentombi, kodwa engenakuphikiswa ... kodwa onke amehlo agxininiswe kuye. Kamva kuyacaca ukuba kuyo yonke into ebheka ngayo, isenzo, ukunyakaza kufundiswa ukuzithemba kwintsimbi kunye nokukhanga kwayo.
Umfazi onjalo, ukuba ukhangele indoda, uyamjonga, kuba uyazi ukuba phantse ubani uya kuvuya nomntu onjengaye.
Umbono wesifazane ngomntu ukukhangela ingqalelo
Abasetyhini abaninzi basebenzisa "amehlo okudubula" ukuze bakhangele indoda baze bamemele kumhlobo. Kwintlalo yethu, kungekhona bonke abantu abanokuthi bangene ngeqhinga eliphambili le ntombazana, ngoko endaweni yokuqhubela phambili, amaninzi amabhinqa asebenzisa amaqhinga ahlukeneyo kunye namaqhinga ukuba angacingi ukuba uya kuza kuye.
Kubonakala ngathi
- Intombazana ibheka ubuso bomfana, kodwa ngokukhawuleza ukuba uyayibona ingqwalasela yakhe, ibheka ngaphandle.
- Intombazana ibheka kuqala ebusweni bomntu, ngoko umjonga ephuma entloko ukuya enzwaneni, kwaye ngoko, ekuqapheliseni ukuba ukhangele, okwesibini, uyeka ukukhangela ebusweni bakhe aze abukeke kude.
- Intombazana isoloko "ijonga" kuloo ndoda, njengokungathi uyamqonda njengomntu osemdala, kodwa wayengaqinisekanga ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba akaphosi.
Umbono wowesifazane ngomntu uyisixhobo esinamandla kwisini esilungileyo. Ngamehlo akhe ukuba angayinceda indoda enhle ukuba yazi okanye icacise kumntu ongathandi ukuba akayi kuchitha ixesha.