Phantse onke amabhinqa ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka abhekane nomsebenzi ongeyinto emnandi yindoda ethandekayo njengokubukela iipopayi. Ingaba wenza ngokufihlakeleyo okanye abonakalise iifolda nge-video engcolileyo ayikho nto. Nangona kunjalo, iingcamango ezimbi zihamba entloko yam. Kule ngcamango esifanele siyihlole.
Umyeni ukhangelelana noononopopayi - wenzeni?
Okokuqala, ukuba indoda ibukele ngasese kwi-pornography, kwaye uyifumene emva kwalolu hlobo-ungakhathazeki. Esi akusona isizathu sokuba nomona, kungekhona into ebalulekileyo yokufuna ukunyanzela. Njengoko ilizwi lisithi: "Akuyiyo yakho yokuqala, ayiyiyo yokugqibela." Izibalo zibonisa ukuba oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Ngendlela, kwimitshato ekhuselekile, ekhuselekileyo neyoqinileyo oku kwenzeka rhoqo.
Okwesibini, indlela engcono yokuzinqabisa kwaye ungakhathazeki kukuba uqale ukubukela iividiyo ezifana naye. Ngaloo ndlela, unokuzama into entsha kwaye ufumane ezininzi iimvakalelo ezintsha. Kwaye okubaluleke kakhulu, indoda iya kubona ukuba uyabelana ngeminqweno yakhe kwaye uyamxhasa. Ndikholelwe, uya kukubulela ukuba uyayifumana kuwe kunokuba ahlaziye kwaye achaze ubudlelwane-ukufumana okwaneleyo nokuzola. Thatha inyathelo, kwaye ngokukhawuleza uya kuyithanda?
Thetha naye. Funda kabanzi malunga nokukhetha kwakhe, zama ukumangaliswa ngumntu wakho. Mhlawumbi uqaphele iimvavanyo, ngoko uyazikhangela kwihlabathi elithe tye. Yinyathele ngokwakho uze umyeni wakho abonise yonke ingcinga yakhe. Ukuba umfazi ungumlingani kwaye unelisekile ngokupheleleyo, ngoko akukho mfuneko yokufihla kwaye uhlala wedwa kwiisayithi ezinjalo.
Kutheni umyeni ebuka isohlwayo?
Ukuba unxamnye nolu hlobo lokuzilibazisa, ke ucinge ngalo, mhlawumbi ozithandayo kwiividiyo ezinjalo ufuna enye into oya kumangaliswa ngayo! Khumbula, nawe, ujonge abantu abalungileyo, abahlakaniphile nabadlali bezemidlalo? Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha umyeni wakhe! Kwaye ngokubanzi, ukhangele nawuphi na umntu, kodwa akayi kuze kubekho umntu osisilumko ukutshintshela umfazi wakhe oyithandayo intombazana yekhamera. Wena uyaqonda ukuba oku siyatha. Ngoko kutheni ufanele uxhatshaze uze uzikhathaze ngaphandle kwesizathu?
"Ndikhulelwe - umyeni wam uvame ukubukela amafilimu eononografi"
Akenzi oko ngenxa yokuba uyeke ukukhangela okanye ungathandeki kuye! Ngokulula, xa ibhinqa isesimweni, isidingo somntu sokwanelisa iimfuno zakhe zomzimba asinciphisi. Kwaye ukuba uhlawulele ukungabikho kwesondo, ufuna into ethile, apha uhlala kwindawo yokuhlaziya kule ndlela.
Umyeni ukhangele iisayithi zoononophelo - ngaba oku kuqhelekileyo?
Ewe, ewe, ewe, yinto eqhelekileyo. Indalo inayo yokuba indoda inamabhinqa amaninzi. Emva kwakho konke, ungowomnandi wakho kwaye uyona mhle kakhulu, ngoko akayi kuhamba ngecala. Kwaye ke, ukukhawulelwa kwiisayithi kunye namafilimu.
Kutheni umyeni wam ebuka isohlwayo lonke ixesha?
Umsebenzi wowesifazane uyanzima ngento yokuba kufuneka aqonde isizathu esiyiyo sokuziphatha kwaye uqonde ukuba kutheni indoda ibukeka ikhangele iifoto. Kubalulekile ukuthatha nawaphi na amanyathelo kwaye uqale ukuba kwintsimbi, ukuba umyeni ubheka iifostile yonke imihla. Ngelishwa, isizathu sokuba ukujonga okunjalo kunokunganeliseki ngobomi obusondeleyo. Kwimeko apho, khumbula, unako ukugcina