Kuthetha ukuthini i-hetero-orientation?

Ngokuqhelekileyo xa uzalisa iifom ezahlukeneyo kunye nento yokuqala kwindawo yokuthandana kwiphepha, kufuneka ugcwalise insimu yokuqhelanisa. Isiza sinikela izinto ezintathu: i-hetero-, bi- kunye ne-homo-. I-Heterosexualality ibonisa ukukhetha ummeli wesini esahlukileyo njengomlingane wesini.

I-hetero yoBomi - indlela yokuyiqonda le nto?

Nangona ukuba unyaka wonke inani lezesini ezifanayo liyakhula, abaninzi abantu behlabathi balala ngesondo. Bafumana ukuthandana, ukuvakalelwa kunye nokukhwabanisa kumntu wesini esahlukileyo.

Ukuqonda oko kuthetha ntoni, i-hetero-orientation, izazinzulu kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zehlabathi zenze uphando. Esi sihloko sathinteka kuqala nguRichard Kraft-Ebing. Usosayensi ugxininisa ingcamango yokuba ubuhlobo bobuhlanga buhlobo lwesimo semvelo kwizidalwa eziphilayo, kuba nguye ovumela umntu ukuba aqhubeke nohlobo. Uphando lwesinye isosayensi uKensey lwaluvumela ukuba ulwabelana ngesondo ludibene ngokwahlukileyo.

Zininzi izazinzulu, ukuqonda intsingiselo yesiqhelaniso esingaqhelekanga, sichaza ukuba isetyenziswe kumntu kwi-genetic level, kodwa kukho enye inguqu eyenziwa ngexesha lobomi, okuyiyo kwinkqubo yemfundo.

Njengoko sele kuthethwe ngaye, ngaphandle koqhelwano lobuhlanga, kukho bobabini kunye nabasqingili. Makhe sithethe ngalokhu ngokubanzi:

1. Ubundlobongela bukhokelo oluthetha ukuba ubukho bekhwele, kokubili kumntu nakwowesifazane.
2. Ubungqingili bubungqingili obubonisa ukuba kukho imvakalelo yabantu besini.

Namhlanje, umba wokuqonda ezinye iinkalo zesini ngesondo ngaphandle kobuqabane obunzima kakhulu. Kwamanye amazwe, umzekelo, eMelika, kwanokubhaliswa kwemiba yesini esivumelekileyo ngokomthetho. Imeko eyahlukileyo kwiRussia Federation, apho ngo-1999 kuye kwakhishwa umyalelo, ukuba ukuziphatha ngokwesini kunye nokuthandwa kwezesondo kuyimpazamo.

Indlela yokuchonga ulwabelana ngesondo ngo-hetero, bi kunye ne-homo?

Ekubeni ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini kuninzi kwaye kuyatshintshwa, akubona bonke abantu abanokuchonga ngokuchanekileyo abo. Ngalo msebenzi kuya kunceda ukujamelana nokuxhatshazwa kwezesondo uKlein.

Ukulinganisa ukuqhelaniswa kwabo ngokwesondo, kubalulekile kwixesha elinesithathu: elidlulileyo (iminyaka emihlanu edlulileyo), okwangoku (unyaka odlulileyo) kunye nekamva elifanelekileyo, ukuqikelela iiparameter eziyisixhenxe

1. Ukukhanga ngesondo - abameli besiphi isondo bavuyisa ngakumbi.
2. Ukuziphatha ngokwesondo - kunye nabameli bezo zesini ezenza izenzo zesondo ezahlukileyo: ukubamba, ukulala ngesondo, njl.
3. Iingcamango zesondo - abameli besiphi isondo odla ngokubhekiselele kwiingcamango zakho zokuzikhusela, kunye nowacingayo ngexesha lokuzincoma.
4. Ukukhethwa komoya - apho abantu bathanda ukuba ngabahlobo, ukugcina ubudlelwane, ukwabelana ngezinto ezifihlakeleyo, njl.
5. Iintando-zentlalo - kunye nabameli bento yesini elula ukufumana udibaniso kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla: umsebenzi, ukuthetha, uchithe ixesha lokuphumla.
6. Ngabameli boluphi uqeqesho oluqhelekileyo, uchitha ixesha lakho lokuzikhethela: kunye nabalingani-bano-homo-hetero okanye abantu besini.
7. Ukuzibonakalisa-ukuzibonakalisa ngaluhlobo luni lokuziqhelanisa.

Thatha iphepha, lihlule kwiikholam ezintathu: ezedlulileyo, ezikhoyo kunye nekamva . Emva koko, gcwalisa nganye imizila emithathu kulezi zifundo. Ngenxa yoko, kumaseli angama-21, amanani ukusuka ku-0 ukuya ku-6 aya kubhalwa.

Ukuchongwa kwezimpendulo:

• 0 - kuphela abantu bobulili obuhlukile;
• 1 - ngokubanzi abantu besini esahlukileyo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ngokwabo;
• 2 - ubulili obuhlukile, kodwa abantu besini esifanayo banendima ebalulekileyo;
• 3 - efanayo nababini, kunye nesini esahlukileyo;
• 4 - ixabiso 2, kodwa ngokulandelanayo;
• 5 - ixabiso 1, kodwa ngokulandelanayo;
• 6 - kuphela abantu abalala ngesondo.

Kufuneka ubale inani lekholomu nganye, uze uhlule ixabiso elifunyenwe ngu-3. Emva koko, faka iziphumo zekholam nganye, kwaye uhlule umphumo we-21.