Kungekudala, abafazi baye baqalisa ukuthetha ngesondo, bafuna iindlela ezahlukahlukeneyo zokuzonwabisa, kodwa akusiyo wonke umntu onako. Ngokungafani nefrigidity, i- anorgasmia iyaxhaphaka. Kodwa njengoko kuvela, unokufunda ukufumana i-orgasm, into ephambili kukusombulula le ngxaki, kwaye ungathuli ukuvalela kwakho. Ngaphezu koko, ngokuqhelekileyo ingxaki ayikho kwimihlaba ye-physiology, oko kukuthi, unokukwazi ukujamelana nayo ngokutshintsha isimo sakho sengqondo ebomini.
Indlela yokufunda ukufumana i-orgasm?
- Abasetyhini abaninzi banqatshelwe le mihlali ngenxa yokuba abazi ukuba bangayifumana njani. Ngomntu oku akusebenzi kwaye abafazi bayazicingela ngokwabo nje abakwazi ukuzonwabisa, ukulibala ngendlela efanelekileyo yokufumana zonke iingxaki zabo - ukuhlaziya i-masturbation .
- Qiniseka ukuxelela umntu wakho ukuba unokukunceda njani ukuba ube ne-orgasm eqinile. Ukuba unomdla ngokungaqhelekanga ngokwesini, akukho nto ibuhlungu ngayo, elowo uqobo lwakhe. Kodwa ukuba iqabane liyakwenqaba ukukwenza oku, ukuthetha ngokungaqhelekanga, kukufanelekile ukuguqula isifo somzimba, mhlawumbi imbangela yezidakamizwa ezinzulu zixinzelelo lwengqondo.
- Ngamanye amaxesha iingxaki aziveki ngovuyo ngokusemthethweni, kodwa ngezinye iintlobo zazo. Ukukhawuleza ukufumana i-clitoral orgasm nokuba intombi iyayazi, eqinisweni, olu hlobo lonwabo luyifumaneka kakhulu kwaye kaninzi alubangele iingxaki. Kodwa i-vaginal orgasm ayisoloko ifikeleleka, ngamanye amaxesha kuyisiphumo sempawu zesakhiwo, ngoko luhlobo lovuyo lwabasetyhini abaninzi bafumana kuphela emva kokubeletha. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba awudingi ukujonga i-G kunye nezinye iindlela zokufumana ngaphambi kokuba ufumane inzala.
- Umbuzo wendlela yokuvavanya i-orgasm ifanelekile ukuba ngumxholo we -sissis, ukuba umdlalo wesifazane uxhomekeka kwizinto ezininzi eziqhelekanga. Ngokomzekelo, amadoda amaninzi akhalaza ngesidingo sokuqala, kwaye ngaphandle kwayo, abaninzi abafazi abakwazi ukuphumla, oko kuthetha ukuba abayi kuvuyela kwisini. Ngoko laphula izinto ezincinci ozifunayo uzive ukhululekile.
- Ngamanye amaxesha ukungazi kwabesifazana, indlela yokufumana i-orgasm eqinile, iwaxoshe kude nesondo kunye nomlingane othile okanye kwinkqubo ngokwayo. Awukwazi ukuvumela oku, kuba ngaphandle kokusebenza kunye nokusombulula ingxaki awuyi kukwazi ukuyifumana.
Kwenzeka ukuba ibhinqa elinzima lifikelela kwi-orgasm (okanye ayikho nhlobo) nendoda ethile, kodwa yedwa nayo yonke into ilungile. Okumangalisa ngokwaneleyo, kuyavakala ngabantu bexesha, abafundi ukufunda i-orgasm kuba bengathandi umlingane wabo. Kwaye kungabikho ukuxhatshazwa komoya, kunzima kakhulu ukuvula, oko kungenakwenzeka ukufumana ukuzonwabisa.