Ngenxa yokulahleka kobuntombi, uninzi lweentlanzi kunye neengcinga ezifihlakeleyo zidibeneyo, abaninzi banokuzisebenzisa iitamponi, besoyika ukulahlekelwa " ukuhlambuluka ." Ngaloo nto, akumangalisi ukuba amantombazana azibuza athi "ungazi njani ukuba ulahlekelwe ubuntombi bakho, uyazi njani ukuba ndiyintombi?", Uvakalelwa ukungahambi kakubi xa usebenzisa i-tampon okanye ungayitholi kwisondo sokuqala. Kule nqaku, siza kuzama ukukhupha ukungathandabuzeki kwaye siphendule umbuzo ukuba ngaba kunokwenzeka ukucacisa ubuntombi kunye nendlela yokufumana ukuba uyintombi okanye kungekho ekhaya.
Ndiyazi njani ukuba ndilahlekelwe yintombi?
Ngaphambi kokujongana nale ngxaki, kubalulekile ukufumanisa isizathu sokuba umbuzo uvele ngokwenene, "ndiyazi njani intombi?" Kwaye kutheni kubalulekile ukuba nolwazi olunjalo? Apha unokucinga izinto ezininzi, ngenxa yokuba kukho umdla onjalo:
- ubulili bokuqala bobudlelwane bobudlelwane, okwakungekho nanye "yamabali amangalisa" abesaba ngabahlobo abadala (ubuhlungu obukhulu, ukuphuma kwamanzi);
- ukwesaba ukuba i-hymen yonakaliswe ngexesha lokuhlambalaza okanye ngenxa yokusetyenziswa kweetampu ezinkulu kunokuba zifunwa.
Ukuba kukho ukungathandabuzeki malunga nobuntombi bakho xa kwenzeka ukungabikho kwentlungu kunye negazi ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo lokuqala, kuyafaneleka ukuba wazi ukuba isondo sokuqala asihlali sihamba neemvakalelo ezingathandekiyo ntombazana. Kwamanye, i-hymen i-elastic kangangokuthi ukulahlekelwa kwayo ngokupheleleyo kwenzeka kuphela ngexesha lokubeletha, kwaye kude kube yilapho ilula. Kwakhona kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba kukho ukungabikho kwamanye amazwe, okanye kungenakho ukuphuhliswa kangangokuthi kunokufunyanwa kuphela yi-gynecologist. Kodwa kukho enye eyingozi kakhulu - inamandla kakhulu. Kule meko, i-gap ayikho okokuqala, ngoko intombazana kunye nabaqhagamshelana nabo ngokwesondo banokuva ubunzima. Ukuba oko kwenzeka, kungcono ukudibanisa nomdlavuza wezintlu zokutyhafaza, ngenxa yokuba iinzame ezizimeleyo zokuqhawula i-fissure zingakhokelela ekuphumeni kwe-perineum.
Amantombazana amaninzi ayesaba ukusebenzisa iitamponi, ecinga ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba aqhekeza loo nto. Kwiimeko ezininzi oku akunakwenzeka, i-hymen inevulo lokuhamba kwexesha. Kwaye ukuba usebenzisa ubukhulu beetampu, akukho nto eyenzekayo kunye ne-hymen. Ukongeza, nokuba ubukhulu abukhethiweyo ngokufanelekileyo, nayiphi na intombazana evakalelwa intlungu ayiyi kuba nenzondelelo ngokusungulwa.
Ngoku ngokuphathelele ukugcoba. Ewe, apha i-hymen ingonakaliswa, kodwa kuphela xa usebenzisa i-dildo (ezinye izinto) zokungena. Ukuchukumisa i-clitoris nganoma iyiphi indlela, i-hymen ayikwazi ukulimala.
Ukuba emva kwezi nkcazo kusekho ukungathandabuzeki ngokulahlekelwa ubuntombi, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukufaka isicelo