Yintoni ongenakuyithetha kumadoda elele?

Inyaniso eyaziwayo kukuba abaninzi abafazi bathanda ukuthetha nangona ngexesha lesini. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo ungatsho ukuba indoda ayikho into yokuba ufuna ukuqhubeka nenkqubo, kwaye uya kubaleka kude nawe ekupheleni kwehlabathi. Ngako oko, kungcono ukuba uxhobe ngokupheleleyo kwaye wazi iibinzana ezingcono ukuba ungaxeleli indoda ngexesha lesini.

Iintetho ezingavumelekanga ngexesha lesini

" Masilale phantsi ". Eli binzana lenza umntu awele kwingqungquthela aze adikibala nayiphi na iminqweno. Intsingiselo yeli binzana akukhona ukuba ukhathele kwaye ufuna ukulala, kodwa into yokuba indoda ayikutsalanga. Into ekhuseleyo kukuba umntu uya kukukhumbula oku kwaye unokucinga ukuba omnye umntu wesifazane angafuna ukulwa naye rhoqo.

" Ngaba siyakukhanyisa ukukhanya?" ". Xa umntu eva eli binzana ngethuba lokuqala, akayi kukunika into ebalulekileyo. Kodwa ukuba uthetha njalo kuye, usenokukrokreka into ethile. Amadoda afana namehlo kwaye ufuna ukujonga umfazi wabo osize, ngoko akudingeki ube neentloni apha.

" Yiza namhlanje, wena ngokwakho ." Ngesizathu esithile, abaninzi abafazi bajonga ukuba kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukulala embhedeni, kwaye indoda isele iphosakele njengoko ifuna. Ucinga ukuba uziva njani ngeli xesha kwaye ufuna ukuba nawe kwakhona embhedeni omnye?

" Wena ungcono ." Kubonakala ngathi kubonakala ngathi kukudumisa, kodwa ngeli bakala ubonakala uqhathanisa nabalingani bakho bokuqala. Akukho mntu uya kunyamezela ukuthelekisana nabani na, ngakumbi ebhedini. Ekubeni ucinga ukuba imeko ethile ucinga ngamanye abantu kwaye uyayithelekisa nabo.

" Musa ukwenza oku kum ." Kubalulekile ukuthetha ngale nto kwangaphambili, kodwa kungekhona ngexesha elibalulekileyo. Ibinzana elinjalo liza kutshabalalisa zonke izinto ezithandwayo kunye nezinto ezonwabisa zesini .

" Masithethe ." Phantse bonke abafazi bafuna emva kwesondo ukuba baxhunyiwe baze bahlanganyele into ebalulekileyo. Kodwa cinga ngomntu ngeli xesha, ngaba ufuna ukuthetha ngoku?

" Ngaba sele usele kum? ". Yintoni enokuyicinga ngalo mzuzwana ukuba isidima sakhe sincinci kangangokuthi awukuvekanga kwaye usetyenziselwa ubukhulu bezinto ezininzi.

" Sitshele ukuba siya kuhlala sihlala kunye?" ". La magama angagqiba ulwalamano lwakho, njengamadoda amaninzi ayethusa le binzana.

" Ngaba konke oko? ". Oku kukunyelisa ngokwenene isithunzi sabantu, njengoko wazama, wenza konke okusemandleni ukunika uvuyo, kwaye umbuzo wakho uya kumkholisa ukuba yonke imizamo ayinanto kwaye awufumani nantoni na.

" Yiza. Yiza . " Ukuba uthanda ukubukela iifostile, ngoko akufanele ukhuthazele oko ubonayo. Kuwuphi na umntu, oku kufana nesithandwa, kodwa ngubani othanda ukuyalelwa?

" Uyandithanda?" ". Imibuzo enjalo ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ayiphumekanga ngokupheleleyo, njengoko ikhonjiswe phantsi kwimeko efanelekileyo kunye neshyhym. Naliphi na ingxoxo enjalo nayiphi na ixesha, kodwa kungekhona kwigumbi lokulala.

Kwakhona, ungamxeleli umntu wakho ngempazamo, umzekelo, "uphuze kakhulu", "ungadakwa", "hamba ngokukhawuleza", "ungawutyi" kwaye njalo, zonke ezi binzana ziya kumthukuthela kwaye ngokuzonwabisa kukufanele ukulibale eli xesha. Musa ukukhokela inkqubo, loo mntu ngokwakhe kufuneka azi,
yintoni kanye nendlela yokwenza ngayo. Musa ukulala embhedeni uthetha ngezihloko ezinzulu, umzekelo, malunga nomsebenzi, i-credit kunye nezinto ezinjalo. Akufanele uhlekise ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo uze uxelele amabali amnandi, kuba akusiyo ixesha kwaye akusiyo indawo yokuhleka. Awudingi ukuhlambalaza umntu embhedeni ngemisebenzi yakhe yasekhaya, umzekelo, "Awufumani nkunkuma nayiphi na inkunkuma", "Ndingabuya kusasa namhlanje, ndifuna uncedo" kunye nokunye okunjalo.

Khumbula kanye kunye, ncokola nomhlobo wakho ekudleni, ngelixa ukhangele iTV, kodwa engabhedeni. Ngoko ke, ngokukhawuleza xa ungena kwigumbi lokulala, kufuneka uqaphelisise yonke into oyithethayo.