Nangona ubuhlobo obuhle kunye nozinzileyo bunokuba buhlungu kwaye bungaxhamli. Ukuba ufikile kulo mzuzu othile kwaye ufuna ukwenza umehluko, ngoko kukufanele ukuthatha inyathelo ezandleni zakho kwaye uqikelele ukuba ungamangaliswa njani indoda yakho ethandekayo ngezenzo ezingaqhelekanga ebhedini. Iingcamango ziya kunceda ukuvuselela umlilo wothando nomdla , oza kuzisa ulwalamano kwinqanaba elitsha.
Luhlobo luni lwamabhinqa amadoda afana naye embhedeni?
Ewe, akunakwenzeka ukunika impendulo engavumelekanga kulo mbuzo. Amanye amadoda afana namantombazana athile, ngelixa abanye bathanda abafazi abancinci. Ingumcimbi wongcamango. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ummeli wesilisa uya kulala nawe, ngoko uyakuthanda ngokungazi. Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba wayenomdla kangakanani ukuba wayeyintsebenziswano, akukho ndoda enye inokuthanda intombazana eyinkimbinkimbi neyinkqantosi ebhedini. Ngenxa yokuqonda indlela yokuphumelela umntu elele embhedeni, kufuneka uqiniseke kwaye uzikhulule.
Ukuba sithetha ngemidlalo yokudlala indima, i-sexologists ithi ngokwezibalo, amadoda angama-80% angathanda ukubona okhethiweyo wakhe kumfanekiso wongikazi, umfana wesikolo okanye iphoyisa. Esi sizathu esihle sokuya kwisitolo sesondo kwaye uthenge isambatho esifanelekileyo ukumangalisa umthandi wakho.
Ngaba kumnandi gqitha ukumangaliswa indoda ethandekayo elele embhedeni?
Njengoko uyazi, abantu bathanda ubuhle kunye nohlukahluka kobudlelwano obusondeleyo. Ukuthandwa ngumntu othandekayo akabheki ukuvakalelwa kwintswelo yomnye umntu, umfazi kufuneka aqonde ukuba le mfuneko yindoda kufuneka ihlangane. Ukongezelela, ngenxa yemizamo enjalo, yena ngokwakhe uya kuvuzwa ngokuzonwabisa.
Ukuqonda into enokuyothusa indoda ethandekayo ebhedeni, kufuneka ufikelele kulo mbandela ngamnye. Ngaphambi kokuba ulungise uvavanyo, kuyafaneleka ukuba uqiniseke ukuba iqabane liza kuba nomoya ,
Ngokomzekelo, pheka ezinye izitya ezimnandi, wenze umoya wokuthanda, ukukhanyisa ikhandlela. Ugqoke kakuhle kwaye ungalibali malunga neengubo zangaphantsi ezingcolileyo. Esikhundleni se-foreplay eqhelekileyo, unokuqala ukukhathazeka ngqo ekhitshini. Ukuba ukulala ngesondo kudlala kwigumbi lokulala, okokuqala isicwangciso esithile senu siya ku kholisa indoda.