Isakhiwo soqhagamshelwano

Inkqubo yonxibelelwano, eqinisweni, iphela ubomi bethu bonke, kuba, njengezentlalo, ngaphandle koqhagamshelwano, asikwazanga ukuququzelela ubuncinane uhlobo oluthile lomsebenzi. Le ngqungquthela ithatha ingqwalasela, iingcali zezobufihla behlabathi la mandulo, kunye neengqondo zengqondo zanamhlanje. Kuze kube ngoku, akukho luhlu olulodwa lwesakhiwo senkqubo yoqhagamshelwano lwentsebenziswano kunye nolunye, kodwa siya kuhlanganisa iintlobo eziqhelekileyo.

Ulwahlulo lwahlula libe sisakhiwo ukuze uhlalutyo lwento nganye, kunye nokuhlaziya.

Kwisakhiwo, imisebenzi kunye neendlela zokunxibelelana, iinkqubo ezintathu ezahlukeneyo ziyahluka:

Kwizengqondo, iinkcukacha zezi nkqubo zibhekwa njengendlela yokusebenzisana phakathi koluntu kunye noluntu, ngelixa i-sociology ibona ukusetyenziswa koqhagamshelwano kwimisebenzi yoluntu.

Ukongeza, ngamanye amaxesha abaphandi benza ezintathu kwisakhiwo sengqondo semisebenzi yokunxibelelana:

Enyanisweni, kwinkqubo yoqhagamshelwano, yonke le mi sebenzi ihambelana ngokuthe ngqo kwaye ihlukanise kuphela ukuhlalutya kunye nenkqubo yophando lovavanyo.

Amanqanaba okuhlalutya kwesakhiwo soqhagamshelwano

I-Sovietistist psychologist uBoris Lomov, ngekhulu leminyaka elidlulileyo, wafumanisa amanqanaba amathathu okuhlalutya isakhiwo soqhagamshelwano lwentetho, esasetyenziselwa kwengqondo:

Umsunguli weengqondo zezentlalo B. I-Parygin ibhekiselele kwisakhiwo soqhagamshelwano njengobudlelwane phakathi kwezinto ezimbini eziphambili: inentsingiselo (ukuthetha ngokuthe ngqo) kunye nesesikweni (ukusebenzisana nomxholo kunye nefomu).

Esinye isazi senzululwazi soSoviet u-A. Bodalev sahlukanisa izinto ezintathu eziphambili phakathi kweentlobo kunye nezakhiwo zoqhagamshelwano:

UNxibelelwano, njengenkqubo yokudlulisa ulwazi kunye nokuphazamiseka kwezifundo zonxibelelwano, kunokukwaziswa ngokuphathelele izixhobo zayo ezizimeleyo:

Ngenxa yokwahlukana okunjalo kwesakhiwo soqhagamshelwano, kuyimfuneko ukunyamekela indima yendalo apho kuboniswa khona unxibelelwano: imeko yentlalo, ubukho okanye ukungabikho kobuqu obudityanisiweyo ngexesha loqhagamshelwano, olunokuchaphazela inkqubo. Ngoko, umzekelo, abantu abangabonxibelelwano balahlekelwa phambi kobuqu obudityanisiweyo, bangenza ngokukhawuleza nangokukhawuleza.

Ekugqibeleni, ku funeka kuqatshelwe ukuba inkqubo yoqhagamshelwano iphelele kunye nenxulumano ehambelanayo yezinto ezimbini ezibambiseneyo: zangaphandle (ukuziphatha), kubonakaliswe kwizenzo zokuxhumana zabathengisi, kunye nokukhetha kokuziphatha kunye nokungaphakathi (ixabiso lezinto eziphathekayo kwintetho yonxibelelwano), eboniswa izibonakaliso zomlomo nezengenagama.