Amantombazana amaninzi akwazi ukuthetha ngokuchanekileyo kunye nabameli besini esahlukileyo, ngoko bayesaba ukulahlwa. Kule meko, iindlela zengqondo zokuthonya abantu ziya kuba luncedo. Iziphakamiso ezikhoyo zinikezelwa yiengcali, emva kweminyaka yokuhlalutya kokuziphatha komntu.
Izakhono zengqondo, indlela yokuwa nomntu
Injongo yabasetyhini kukutsala ingqalelo yomntu abathandayo, ukuze yena ngokwakhe afune ukunqoba. Into yokuba abameleli besini esomeleleyo ngabazingeli abangayithandiyo xa amaxhoba ngokwawo aye kubo kwiintambo.
Izindlela zengqondo zempembelelo kumntu:
- Kubonakala ukuba abantu bayaphikisana nokuncoma kunye nokuthoba ngakumbi kunabesifazane. Kunconywa ukuqaphela zonke iimpumelelo zayo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba udumise indoda ngaphandle, kodwa ngokubaluleke kakhulu, yenze i-unobtrusively.
- Enye yezona ndlela eziqhelekileyo zokuxhaphaza kubonakala kubuthathaka. Kubonakaliswe ukuba umntu uzimisele ngakumbi ukuthonyelwa "obuthathaka", ngoko kubhinqa olu khetho lungqinelana ngokunokwenzeka. Zama ukuza kumntu uncedo, nakwizinto ezincinci, kwaye oku kuya kuhlakulela umkhwa wokumnakekela nokunyamekela.
- Ngokweendlela zengxoxo zengqondo, ukuthetha nomntu kufuneka kube lula kwaye kulula. Kubalulekile ukuba amalungu omzimba wesondo oqinileyo kubalulekile ukuba umnxibelelwano wakhe ukhangele ngqo emehlweni, mhlawumbi unokrokrela inkohliso.
- Unokwenza umona , kodwa yenze nje ngokucophelela ngokunokwenzeka, ukwenzela ukuba ungadluli. Kubalulekile ukugcina loo ndoda ngetoni ukwenzela ukuba uyazi ukuba uyayilahlekelwa ngumfazi wayo. Kule meko, indoda iyazama ukuphuma kumaqhankqalazi akhe, ichukumise isithandwa sayo.
- Ngethuba le ngxoxo, kubalulekile ukulungelelanisa iqabane, ukuphinda ukutshintshisa nokubonakalisa ubuso bakhe. Kuboniswa ukuba ngale ndlela umntu unokubeka umntu ngokwakhe.