Kutheni kulungile? Kucacile ukuba konke kukufuna ukuphawula. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, sifundiswa "ukuziphatha okuhle", ekuthiwa yinto embi, sinokuqonda kwethu indlela. Ingcamango yento elungileyo nento embi kubo bonke ihlukile. Ubume obuhle okanye obubi bokuziphatha, izenzo, imeko, umntu ngamnye uzimisela. Ngako oko, akufuneki ukuba kuveliswe. Ngaphandle kwemithetho yeBhayibhile, kunjalo. Asiyi kuthetha malunga nokugcina umva okanye ukuhleka ngokuzwakalayo - kubi. Siza kuxubusha imithetho yemimiselo ethile kwiimeko ezithile.
Usapho
Ngomntu othandekayo kufuneka ube nomdla, unyanisekileyo, kwaye ibaluleke kakhulu kubhinqa. Ubomi bentsapho akufanele buveze zonke izihlandlo zakho. Ngoko ke, xa wenza indlu yangasese yasekuseni, vala umnyango wokuhlamba (ngaphandle kokuba uya kuhlamba kunye). Phuma ugqoke kwaye ucoceke. Musa ukulibala ukuba ubeka umzekelo kubantwana bakho.
Ukutya kwasekuseni kubandakanya umzuzu xa yonke intsapho ihlanganisiwe. Ungalondolozi ixesha ukuba ungumfazi wendlu kwaye akudingeki ukuba ukhawuleze ukusebenza. Makhe umyeni athathe abantwana, ngelixa ulungiselela ama-pancakes amnandi okanye amafritters. Khumbula ukuba umntu onobuhle ngexesha lokudla kwasekuseni unobonakala obuhle. Qiniseka ukuba ulandele ikhaya lakho.
Susa kwitafile uze ubhekane nezitya ngokukhawuleza. Ukuziqhelanisa intsapho yakho ekuhlambulukeni nasekuhleleni.
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Khuthaza abantwana bakho ukuba baziphathe kakuhle. Bamele babone emzekelweni wakho "ubudlelwane" obuphakathi komntu nomfazi. Hlonipha omnye nomnye, uhleko oluhle, inkxaso, ukwabelana ngeembopheleleko-konke oku kubaluleke kakhulu kulonwabo noluntu oluzayo lomntwana wakho. Umoya olawulayo ekhaya udlala indima ebalulekileyo ekubunjweni kwengqondo ephilileyo. Ubudlelwane phakathi kwabatshatileyo buchaphazela impilo yempilo yabantwana. Ngoko musa ukukhawuleza ukuphatha amaqanda ngamachiza, sebenze bhetele kulwalamano nomyeni wakho.
Hlonipha abazali bakho. Banike ubomi, musa ukunyamekela ukunakekelwa kwabo kunye nokuqwalaselwa. Ukuphazamisa abadala kunenkani. Funda ukuphulaphula, nangona ungayinyamezeli isiluleko kunye nokuziphatha kakuhle. Ungakwazi ukubonisa uluvo lwakho kwaye kuyimfuneko, into eyona nto ukuyenza kwifomu echanekileyo kunye ne-unobtrusively.
Umsebenzi
Iimpawu ezilungileyo nezimbi ziya kuqatshelwa ngamalungu omsebenzi ohlangeneyo. Wonke umntu uya kugweba ngokusekelwe kumava kunye neembono zabo. Kumntu, ukuziphatha kwakho kunye nabasemagunyeni kuya kuziphatha kakubi (umzekelo, umcimbi kunye nomlawuli), kwaye umntu uza kukujonga njengomntu onomdla. Ububele obudlulayo bungadlala kuwe. Uya kuzuza idumela lomntu obuthathaka, uzama ukunyamekela abaphathi bakhe.
Xa ushintsha indawo yomsebenzi, xa ufika kwiqela elitsha, ungazami ukubonakala ungcono kunokuba unjalo. Ukugqithisa ngokweqile kunye nokungaqhelekanga kokuziphatha kwakho kuya kubonakala kwikamva. Ukulahlekelwa yithemba kubalingane kulula kakhulu. Yiba yendalo kunye nokwezithemba.
Unokufunda imilinganiselo emihle njengawuphi na ubugcisa. Khangela iifilimu zembali, ii heroines ezixhamla ngobabalo noxolo. Indlela abaziphatha ngayo ebantwini bamadoda igcinwe kwaye ayimfihlelo. Ukuhleka nokunyaniseka, ukuveliswa kakuhle, ukukwazi ukuphulaphula nokungaphazamisi - ukufunda ubufazi kunye nobubele.