Intombazana nganye ebunzulu bomphefumlo wayo ifuna ukuba nomhlobo obalaseleyo owaziyo yonke into ngawe nangakumbi, ngubani oya kuhlala ehlangula ngexesha elimninzi kwaye aza kubelana nawe ngexesha lovuyo. Nangona kunjalo, ungakhohlwa ukuba ukuba ngumhlobo italente kunye nobuchule obuya kuphuhliswa kwaye buphuculwe. Ubuhlobo buhlobo olusakhelwe ekuthembekeni, ukuqonda kunye nezinto eziqhelekileyo, ngoko ukuphendula umbuzo othi: "njani ukuba ngumhlobo olungileyo?" Okokuqala, kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba ukuba ngumhlobo ongcono kakhulu omele usebenze nzima kuwe.
Indlela yokuba ngabahlobo abangcono kakhulu: imithetho emihlanu yegolide
- Bonisa umdla kwintombi yakho. Unomdla ngokunyanisekileyo ebomini bakhe, buza indlela evakalelwa ngayo kule nto okanye kuloo meko. Isabelo sansuku zonke nemvakalelo yakhe emihle , thetha ngezinto ozibonayo apho ukhona khona, ungafihla iimvakalelo zangempela. Ukuba umhlobo wakho akahlali, qiniseka ukuba umtyelele kwaye umphathe ngokuthandayo. Ngokubanzi, bonisa umdla obomdla ebomini intombi yakho.
- Funda ukuphulaphula. Makhe umhlobo wakho ahlanganyele nawe iindaba, uthabathe inxaxheba kwingxoxo, ufunde ukufunda phakathi kwemigca, akukho mzekelo ufumana iimpendulo ezinjenge "Ewe", "Hayi" kwaye "Uqondakala". Ukuba ufunda ukuphulaphula intombazana, ngokukhawuleza uza kuqala ukuziva kwaye uqonde isimo sakhe sengqondo ngaphambi kokuba uvakalise iingcamango zakhe kuwe.
- Sebenzisa ixesha elingakumbi kunye. Ngomyinge wobomi banamhlanje, kunzima ukufumana ixesha, ubuncinane ukubiza umngani wakho othandekayo kwaye ubuze indlela yakhe ngayo. Nangona kunjalo, njengokuba uyazi, ukuba awuyi kuphosa umlilo emlilweni, kuya kuphuma ngexesha, kuya kwenzeka kunye nobuhlobo. Ukuba awunaso ixesha lokuhamba kunye nentombi yakho, zama ukuba nidle kunye kunye, okanye ukuba, umzekelo, uxakeke kunye nendlu, mnike uncedo. Ixesha lokuzonwabisa linokuba lunomdla ngakumbi kwaye luncedo kubo bobabini.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo badumise intombi. Phawula iimeko apho intombi iziphatha ngayo kakuhle, kwaye unganqikazi ukumxelela malunga nayo. Ukuba awuvumelani nezenzo zakhe, zichaze ngokuchanekileyo ingcamango yakho, ngelixa ucacisa ukuba nayiphi na isigqibo angathathangayo, uya kunika nayiphi na inkxaso.
- Yabelana nentombi yakho kunye novuyo. Xa umntu enenkathazo, kukho abantu abaninzi abakhuphayo ukunceda ngeengcebiso zabo, kodwa xa kukho into enhle eyenzekayo kubomi bentombazana,
Abantu abambalwa bakulungele ukuvuyela ngokwenene. Ngoko ujabulele ngomhlobo, ngokungathi le nto yavuya ngayo kuwe, ngokuba njani ukuba ngumhlobo ongcono xa ungayazi indlela yokwabelana ngolonwabo lomntu osondele kuwe?
Cinga ngeziphi iimpawu umhlobo wakho omhle afanele abe nazo? Bhala phantsi kwisiqwenga samaphepha kwaye ufunde ngokuvakalayo, ngoku uyazi kakuhle indlela yokuba ngumhlobo ongcono kakhulu, kuba oko sikuxabisa kubantu, bayakuxabisa kuthi. Zisebenze ngokwakho, uphucule izakhono zonxibelelwano nabantu kwaye ukhumbule, ungaba ngumhlobo omhle kuphela ukuba uyayifuna ngokwenene.