Wonke umama ufuna umntwana wakhe abe namandla, uguquguquke kwaye azithembe. Konke oku kunokwenziwa kuye isikolo esihle sokwenza abantwana. Iingcali ezininzi ezivela kwicandelo lezonyango zithi ukudanisa ngumzimba omkhulu, kwanokuba abantwana baseminyakeni emithathu ubudala. Kule minyaka, umntwana ulungelelaniso oluhle, i-twine, ibhuloho kunye nezinye izinto ezifanayo zibonelelwa ngokulula, ngelixa abantu abadala kufuneka basebenze imihla ngemihla ukubuyisela ukuguquguquka komntwana kunye neeplastiki. Ukuchithwa kwabantwana kuvumela ukuba bagcine ezi zimpawu zobomi (ukuba umntwana akayeki ukuqeqeshwa ixesha elide).
Ziziphi iiklasi zokudibanisa ezibonelela abantwana?
- ulungelelaniso;
- ukuchaneka okufanelekileyo;
- i-corset ene-muscular eqinile kunye neendlela eziguquguqukayo;
- nya mezela.
Kuphela ngomzimba. Ukongezelela, umntwana uya kuphucula ingqwalasela, imemori kunye nomboniso. Izifundo zokufunda ngokuqhubekayo kubantwana ezivumela ukuba uhlakulele ziya kuba namandla kunye nokuziphatha. Kwaye oko kubaluleke kakhulu, banceda ukunqoba ukunyaniseka kwendalo kunye nokufunda ukuthetha, kuba, njengomthetho, iiklasi ziqhutyelwa kwiqela kwaye xa kudansa kubalulekile ukuba sikwazi ukusebenzisana kunye kunye nendawo ethile.
Sisiphi isikhokelo esinokukhetha?
Okwangoku, izikolo zikhetha ukhetho olukhulu kubazali. Indlela yokuyiqonda, yintoni enye engcono-yokuhlaziywa kwezinto zamanje okanye zakudala? Yintoni into yokuqala umntwana wakho ayithandayo. Banobuninzi bamandla obufunekayo ukuba bahanjiswe ngendlela elungileyo, kodwa kubanyanzele ukuba benze izinto eziyingozi kwaye zenyanyekayo - zikhohlakele. Indlela enjalo iya kwenza kube nzima ngakumbi ukuba umntwana akhule kwaye aphumelele, kufuneka azive ethembele aze enze okukholisayo. Nasiphi na isikolo sinikela ukutyelelwa kwabathengi, oko kukuvumela ukuba uqonde ukuba yintoni kwaye koko uthenge ukubhalisa. Nika umntwana ithuba lokuba asebenze ezahlukeneyo kwaye aqonde into ayithandayo.
Yintoni efunekayo ekuqeqesheni?
Izambatho zezingane zokuchithwa kwexesha sele zingenaso ingxaki kwaye akufuneki ukuba zixhobe ngenaliti kunye nentambo. Ngoku kukho izitolo ezininzi ezizodwa, apho uzakufumana nayiphi na impahla kunye nezixhobo ezahlukeneyo zokudansa. Ukongezelela, apho ungakhetha okanye uhlele iingubo ezibalaseleyo kunye eziqhaqhaqhayo zeemveliso zexesha elizayo kwaye uthenge iiflethi zebhalts zezingane zokuchithwa okungahambiyo kwaye ungazinzi ukunyakaza.
Ukukhuthazwa komntwana
Kwakhona ingongoma ebalulekileyo, ngakumbi xa umntwana ekhathele kwaye akafuni ukuya kuqeqesho. Hamba naye ekusebenzeni kwe-TODES ye-ballet yokubonisa, fumana iividiyo kunye nabadumi abadumileyo kwicandelo elikhethiweyo. Emva kokubheka, kwinto efunekayo ukuba ifune, i-kid iya kuba nomnqweno wokuqhubeka nomsebenzi, kodwa sele ihamba phambili. Emva koko, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuthanda ukufuduka ngokukhawuleza kwaye akhuphe ihlombe eliqhwaqisayo leholo. Ngendlela ezininzi
Ukukhuthazwa okuphawulekayo kuya kuba yiirekhodi zoqeqesho lwabaqeqeshi, udliwano-ndlebe nabo. Abantwana bafanele baqonde ukuba ubuchule obunjalo bufumaneka ngobunzima obunzima, ukunyamezela, umsebenzi oqhubekayo ngokwakho. Sifanele silwe ukukhathala, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ubuhlungu, kodwa umvuzo uya kuba yiplastiki emangalisayo, ubabalo kunye nokunyaniseka kwabanye. Naluphi na ulwalathiso lwenkonyana yakho ekhethayo, into ephambili kukuba uzimisele ukufezekisa. Akwanele ukuxelela oontanga ukuba udlala ngokudansa, kufuneka ubonise umphumo, oya kwenza umqondiso.