Ubungcamango luyingxenye yeengcamango , kodwa yinto enzulu kakhulu, engaqinisekanga kwaye engachangekanga. Yinkcazo yemifanekiso eqhelekileyo kunye nezinto eziphambili, ukuguqulwa komdala kunye nokudala entsha! Ukuba abantu ngokukhawuleza balahlekelwa ingcamango, ke akukho kuphinda kubekho ukufumanisa, ubuchwepheshe, imifanekiso, iingoma, iincwadi. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukwazi ukuhlakulela ingcamango yakho, yakho kunye neengcinga zabantwana bakho. Indlela yokuhlakulela ingcamango yomntwana kunye nomntu omdala? Izindlela ezenzelwe oku, zifanelekile zombini;
Indlela yokuqala "Abahlobo bokucinga"
Indlela yokuhlakulela ingcinga kunye nokucinga? Yiba nomhlobo ocingayo, nokuba ungeyena umntwana ixesha elide! Oososayensi baseMelika baqinisekisa ukuba abantu ababenomhlobo ocingayo ebuntwaneni, baba ngabantu abadala, baneengcamango eziphuculweyo. Kwaye bahlala benentlalontle, benomdla kwaye banganyangeki . Umhlobo ocinga ukuba, ngokwenene, ingqondo yethu engqiqo, eye yaba yinto enjani. Ingaba ngumntwana, isilwanyana, isilwanyana esilungileyo. Umhlobo onjalo uya kunceda ukunqoba uxinzelelo, ukujamelana noyiko, ukunyaniseka, ube namandla.
Ukuba ungumntu omdala, cinga nje nje ngesidalwa, uzinike iimpawu ongenalo ebomini. Ngokwenene "thethana" naye ngaphambi kokwenza izigqibo. Ngaphambili, kufuneka ucingisise - ukucinga ngokubonakala kwakhe, igama, iimpahla, umlingisi. Ukuba awuyazi indlela yokuhlakulela imfesane evela kumntwana wakho, xelela ngale ndlela, fantasize kunye. Uyabona, oku akuyi kuba ngumsebenzi ophuculweyo kwaye onomsebenzi, kodwa kunye nomdlalo othakazelisayo!
Indlela yesibini yendalo
Le ndlela ibuyele enkulu ekuphuhliseni imfesane kubo bobabini abadala kunye nabantwana. Naluphina uhlobo lokudala oluya kufana nawe, unako ukudweba, ukuloba iindaba zeenkcukacha, ukubhala izinkondlo, ukutyhila kwiplastiki, ukubhala umculo. Nangona awuyiyo umntu odalayo (oko kukuthi, cinga njalo), qalisa ukudala, iingcamango ezintsha, imifanekiso ekhanyayo iya kuza sele ikhona kwinkqubo. Khawukhumbule, kunokuba uthanda ukubandakanya ebuntwaneni, kwaye usebenze kulo ngoku!
Le ndlela ilungele ukuphuhliswa kwengcamango kubantwana, kuba abantwana bebonke babantu bokudala. Invent, bhala, ubenze nabo. Ukudweba izidalwa zenganekwane, omnye unokukwazi ukumisela iindaba ngaye, xelela malunga nabo
Indlela yesithathu - ukuphuhlisa imidlalo yefantasy
Unokuzivelisa loo mdlalo. Ngokomzekelo, unokufunda iphepha lokuqala leyiphi na ibali okanye ibali, uze ufike kunye naloo ndlela. Omnye umdlalo omnandi kukuthabatha iphepha naziphi na izicatshulwa ukuba umdlali wesibini kufuneka "agqibe" kwizinto ezibonakalayo. Nangona uhamba phantsi esitrato, unokucinga, uqulunqa amabali obomi ngabantu abakujikelezile.
Kukho iindlela ezininzi ezakha ukucinga. Zisebenza kuwe, kwaye uya kuphumelela!