Umntu owaziyo ukuzivakalisa ngokuzenzekelayo uya kuhlala "wakhe" kwiphina inkampani. Umntu ohlazileyo uzisa abantu. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba awukwazi ukuhleka? Indlela yokujoyina inkampani, indlela yokufunda ukuhlekisa?
Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba amandla okwenza abantu bahlekise yinto ezalwayo. Nangona kunjalo, le ngcamango ayilona yinyani. Wonke umntu ngexesha lokuphila kwakhe ufunda into ethile. Ufumana uqeqesho, izikhwama kunye nezikhwama, ufunda imithetho yemidlalo eyahlukeneyo, udlala izixhobo zomculo, njl. Okufanayo kunye nokuhlekisa. Inokuphuhliswa kunye naliphi na italente. Ukuze ufunde indlela yokuhlekisa ngayo abathathi-nxaxheba kwimidlalo yeKVN okanye iKamedi Club, kubalulekile ukufundisisa nokuqonda iingcamango ezikhethekileyo kwinkqubo yokudala ihlaya.
Makhe sijonge indlela yokufunda ukuhleka ngokukhawuleza ngokufunda imigaqo emininzi:
- ukuphakanyiswa kwamanga - ukuphela kwesandi, njengokuba kunjalo, kuqhubeka ukuqala kwayo, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo liphikisa intsingiselo yalo;
- Inkcaso yobuxoki - ukuchasana kokuphela kwesantya kwinqalo yayo kuqinisa kuphela umphumo;
- isici sokungaziqali kukugqithisa ngokweqile okanye ukugqithisela intsingiselo ebalulekileyo yehlaya;
- ukungabikho kokungahambi kakuhle - ihlaya elingalindelekanga, isiganeko esichaphazelayo okanye ibinzana elihlekisayo;
- ukuxuba izitayela - abaqeqeshi be-satire kunye namahlaya basebenzise yonke imigaqo ngexesha elinye.
Indlela yokufunda indlela yokumangalisa?
Wit kufuneka abe Ukuba uzama ukuhleka usulu ngesihloko ongaqhelekanga kwaye ungathandeki, akunakwenzeka ukuba nantoni na ehlekisayo iya kuza kuyo. Bonisa ubungqina bokwenene kunokwenzeka kuphela kwindawo owaziyo kakuhle. Ukongeza kwiintlekthi eziqhelekileyo, cinga iimpendulo ezithakazelisayo kwimibandela yendawo yemihla ngemihla. Uya kuthathwa njengengxolo, ukuba kumbuzo othi "uyenza njani", uya kuphendula endaweni yokuqhelekileyo into eqhelekileyo. Kungcono ngakumbi ukuba impendulo yakho ibe yinto ebalulekileyo kwiqela lakho. Yaye uya kukhunjulwa njengombhali wale binzana.
Indlela yokufunda ukuhleka ihlaya?
Ukuba ngumphefumlo wenkampani kunye ne-ace of wit, kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule eminye imithetho yokunyanzeliswa:
- ngqi niselo. Musa ukulibala ukuba iincwadana ezimbalwa ezithethiweyo ze-jocular ziya kuphumelela. Yaye yonke into iya kuthathwa njengento eyimingcipheko ebomvu;
- qhinga. Musa ukuhleka kunye nokuhlekisa iifom zezihloko ezichaphazelayo ukuba umntu odibanisa naye unokuba buhlungu okanye ahlasele;
- ukuzigxeka. Ngokuhlekisa abanye abantu okanye iimeko, musa ukulahlekelwa yimicimbi yeziganeko zakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umntu ozimeleyo ukhangeleka kakhulu nakweyiphi na. Njengabahlobo kunye nabantu abangaqhelekanga.
Kwaye olunye ulawulo ukusuka kumjikelezo wemibuzo yindlela yokufunda ukuhlekisa kwiindawo. Ungabonakali malunga nezixhobo zempi, ukuba uthetha ngomvuzo. Ihlaya kufuneka lihambelane nomxholo, ngaphandle koko akukho mntu uya kuthatha. Amanye amagama athetha kuloo ndawo aya kwenza abantu bahlekise ngaphezu kwe-anecdote ekhohlisayo, ethathwe, ngokutsho, "ukusuka kwelinye i-opera".
Abo bantu bathi "andinakuzihlambalaza" akukhohlisi nje kuphela, kodwa abanye.
Iingcebiso ezisisiseko malunga nendlela yokufunda ukuhleka usulu ukuzithemba. Ukuba umi kwaye unqabile, ngelixa uphuphuke ngopende olubi, akukho mntu uya kuqonda ukuba isitatimenti osithethi siyihlaya.
Uyazi kakuhle iziseko zefomu elungileyo kwindawo ekhethekileyo yehlazo. Ezinye zixhomekeke kuwe. Ziqhelisele ukuqala kwabahlobo, ukuphuhlisa ubuchule kunye nobuchule. Kwaye kwakha ukuzithemba nokuzithemba kwizinga eliphezulu. Mhlawumbi ngexesha uya kuhlala kwimbali yexesha lakho, njengowomculo odumileyo.