Ukulinganiswa kwengqondo

Sisoloko siba nomona ngabo abaye kwihlabathi elihlazileyo banokukwazi ukugcina isimo sengqondo esilula kwimpilo. Bangakwazi njani ukufumana ibhalansi kwaye balondoloze le mali? Iqhankqalazo, kuba abaninzi bala bantu bayayiphendula ngento engacacanga, njengokuba "Ndihlala ngesazela sam, ndizama ukungaziboni mntu, ngoko ndilungile."

Indlela yokubuyisela ukulinganisela kwengqondo?

Lindela, mhlawumbi aba bantu bachanileyo kwaye akukho mfihlelo, kuba wonke umntu unokukhumbula ixesha apho konke kulungile, akukho mfazwe yangaphakathi (isibeleko somama kunye nobuntwana asicatshangwanga). Kuyavela, siyazi indlela yokufumana ingqiqo yengqondo, nje kuphela ukulibala. Khumbula indlela oku kwenzeka ngayo, cha? Ewe, kuya kufuneka uyikhumbule, yindlela efanelekileyo yokubuyisela uxolo lwengqondo yakho.

1. Khumbula ixesha owenza ngayo kakuhle, oko kutshintshile ukususela kuloo mzuzu.
2. Kucacile ukuba kukho utshintsho oluninzi. Khangela phakathi kwabo oye watshintsha ubomi bakho, owenziwe ngumfazi onokuzithemba nozolile umntu ongenalulinganisela.
3. Khangela indlela yokutshintsha imeko. Ungesabi ukutshintshwa kwekhadikhadi, kuya kukhawuleza kuphela xa intliziyo iyeka ukubetha. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba into ethile ishintshe ukucinga okuvakalayo ayiyi kuphazamisa.

Makhe sibone umzekelo omncinane.

1. Yayiphi na into enhle? Imbalwa embalwa edlulileyo.
2. Yintoni na ngoku yinto engekho? Ewe kwakungekho lo msebenzi osisidenge!
3. Kutheni ucinga ukuba kunjalo? Ngentsasa ikhwelo lithethe, ngaba ucinga ukuba unako ukwenza okungakumbi okanye ukwenza into ongenayo umdla?
4. Ngokuxhomekeke kwimpendulo yombuzo odlulileyo kwaye kuyakufuneka ukuba uthathe amanyathelo anokukunceda ufikeleleke ngengqondo. Yaye ukhumbule indlela ogqiba ngayo, ngoko kuya kuba, ubomi bakho busezandleni zakho.

10 imiyalelo yengxolo yengqondo

Ukuba awukwazi ukukhumbula ixesha xa uvumelane nawe, ngoko ufuna iresiphi indlela yokufumana uxolo lwengqondo. Inokukunceda ukuthobela imithetho emininzi, oko kuthiwa imiyalelo yokulingana kwengqondo.

1. Njalo kwaye yonke indawo icinga kuphela ngokulungileyo. Iingcamango zizinto eziphathekayo, ukucinga ngezinto ezimbi, thina ngokwethu siyazicwangcisa ngokubi. Kwaye ngokuvisisana ngokomoya, kucinga iingcinga ezilungileyo kuphela. Ngoko ke, zijwayele ukuhlala unethemba lokulungileyo kwaye ungaze uvume ingcamango embi yeziganeko.
2. Funda ukubulela. Ukukhalaza ngobomi bulula, yonke into inokulila: imvula, isithende esiphukileyo, ukugxekwa kwabasemagunyeni. Zama ukubulela ubomi ngenxa yento akunike yona. Umsebenzi, ikhaya, intsapho, ukuchuma - konke oku? Ngoko uthi ukubonga ubomi ngento nganye.
3. Ziqaphele ukuzithemba ngokuzenzekelayo. Ewe, unokwenza okungcono kunabanye, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uziqhenye. Mhlawumbi ezo zizungezile zizintle kwezinye iindawo. Kwaye, ngokukhawuleza, ukuzikhukhumeza kukuvimbela ukuhlolwa okucokisekileyo kwimeko, ekhokelela ekudakaleni.
4. Musa ukoyika ubunzima. Uya kukwazi ukunqoba nawuphi na kubo, kwaye ungenakulungelelanisa, ungaphuthelwa umzuzu wakho ocolileyo.
5. Ukungaphumeleli - akukho sizathu sokuyeka. Funda ukuzuza kubo. Ufunyenwe kwakhona, kwaye i-blouse yakho oyintandokazi ayiguquli kwisifuba sakho? Esi sizathu sokubonisa intambo ye-chic! Inkosi yathi ungalunganga? Khumbula iimpazamo kwaye ungaphindi.
6. Musa ukuma apho. Ngaba ukhona ngaphaya komntu? Kulungile, kodwa akusiyo isizathu sokuphumla kwii-laurels zakho, akukho mda wokuphelela. Kwaye lo mgaqo usebenza kwi-professional field kunye nokuzihlakulela.
7. Funda ukuzonwabisa ubomi. Khumbula indlela abantwana abajonga ngayo ihlabathi ngokuvulekileyo, amehlo ajabulisayo. Ngoko uyamangalisa ubuhle befu, ubabalo lweqabunga eliwela - ujikelezwe yinto enhle kakhulu, eyona nto ibhetele. Ngoko ungaphuthelwa!
8. Ungabi neentloni ngezinto onayo. Ngaba unayo imbonakalo emangalisayo, indawo efanelekileyo, imali engenayo? Kuyinto engokwemvelo ukuba oku kuvuyiswe, kodwa ungavumeli ubutyebi (nantoni na into ephathekayo). Ungaqhubeki malunga nenduduzo nokuqatshelwa, kuba kanye kuwe kwakukho "iparadesi kwindawo".
9. Khangela ulonwabo lwakho ekukhathaleleni abanye. Ngokuqhelekileyo asiyivuyo kuphela ngenxa yokuba sicinga kuphela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukunika iqela lokuthatha inxaxheba kunye nokunyamekela abanye, indlela izinto eziguquka ngayo. Sonke sifuna ukuba ngumntu oyifunayo.
10. Thembela kuThixo. Bathi lowo ongakholelwa kuyo nayiphi na isidumbu esiphilayo. Wonke umntu unalo nguThixo wakhe, nokuba ngumKristu, umSilamsi okanye umhedeni, kufuneka sikholwe ukuba ubukho bethu bunenjongo ephambili, oku kukukhuthaza kakhulu ukuba ungaphumi kwaye uqhubeke.