Nsuku zonke ehlabathini kukho iingxabano ezahlukahlukeneyo, ngamanye amaxesha iziphumo zazo ziyaneliseka kuphela kumanye amaqela, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha indlela eya kwimpikiswano eya kuxolelwaniswa yamaqela achasayo inokuthi iqhutywe ngekhosi efanelekileyo. Ngoko enye yeendlela zokusombulula ingxabano, kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kweqela lesithathu, elingathathi hlangothi, elinomdla kuphela ekuxazululeni ingxabano, yinkqubo yokuxolelana.
Ekunene, ukuxolelana ngenye yeendlela zabo zokuziphendulela zengxabano. Umntu wesithathu ungumlamli apho amaqela avelisa isivumelwano esithile malunga nemeko yokulwa. Amaqela alawula inkqubo yokuthatha enye indlela ukuze kulungiswe kunye nokulungisa isigqibo.
Imigaqo yokudibanisa ilandelayo:
- Imfihlo.
- Intlonipho.
- Ukuzithandela.
- Ukubonakalisa nokunyaniseka kwenkqubo.
- Ukulingana kwamaqela.
- Ukungathathi hlangothi komlamli.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba iimbambano zokuxolelana zavela kumaxesha amandulo. Kwimbali, iimeko ezifanayo kwintengiso phakathi kwabemi baseBhabhiloni kunye namaFenike ayaziwa.
Njengendlela yokusombulula iingxabano zanamhlanje, ukuhlalisana kuye kwaphuhliswa ukususela kwisiqingatha sesibini senkulungwane ye-20, e-Australia, e-United States nase-United Kingdom.
Iintlobo kunye nobuchule bokuxolelana:
- Ukuguqula. Abathathi-nxaxheba bazinokuzimela ngokuzimeleyo inkqubo yokuxolelana. Umntu wesithathu, umlamli ulandela. Izinto eziphambili zolu hlobo ziva nokuva. Ngenxa yoko, abathathi-nxaxheba bafanele bavelele ngakumbi iimfuno zomnye nomnye, zama ukuyiqonda.
- Ku buyiswa. Izimo zenziwe kwiintetho, injongo ephambili yokubuyisela ubudlelwane phakathi kwamaqela alwa. Oko kukuthi, kulo mzekelo, umsebenzi oyintloko womlamli kukudala iimeko eziyimfuneko kumalungu kunye neengxoxo zabo
- Ukudibanisa ukulungisa iingxaki. Ukugxininisa kwiminqweno yamaqela, kungekhona kwiindawo zabo. Umlamli ekuqaleni uphakamisa ukuba amaqela abonise izikhundla zabo, kwaye uncedisa ukuba bafumane kwaye baqonde iimfuno eziqhelekileyo.
- Nervative. Umlamli kunye namaqela aphikisanayo aqhubeka echaphalelana ngexesha leengxoxo.
- Olujoliswe yintsapho. Le ntlobo isekelwe kwimimiselo yeengxabano zentsapho, inkcubeko kunye neengxabano phakathi kwezizukulwana ezahlukeneyo.
Cinga ngamanqanaba omlamlo owenza inkqubo ngokwayo.
- Ukuthembela nokulungiswa (ukusuka kweli nqanaba kubeka isiseko sobudlelwane bamaqela, okuza kubonwa kwenkqubo yokuxolelana).
- Ukuhlalutya amaqiniso kunye nokuchonga iingxaki ezikhoyo (eli nqanaba lijoliswe ekuhlalutheni iinkcukacha ezibalulekileyo ekuchongeni iingxaki, le nqubo ivela ekupheleni kwesigaba sokuqala).
- Khangela ezinye izisombululo (ukujonga ngokubanzi zonke iingxaki, inkcazo yezisombululo eziphambili kunye nokukhangela izisombululo ezinokuba zifihla kwiimfuno kunye neengxaki zombini zombini).
- Ukwenza izigqibo (umsebenzi oyintloko kweli nqanaba ngumsebenzi odibeneyo wabathathi-nxaxheba kwisinqumo sokwenza izigqibo, okuya kubakho
efanelekileyo). - Ukuqulunqwa koxwebhu lokugqibela (isivumelwano, isicwangciso okanye uxwebhu olwenziweyo apho izigqibo apho amaqela aphikisanayo eza khona achazwe ngokucacileyo).
Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba inkqubo yokuxolelana inceda ukufikelela kwisivumelwano kunye nesivumelwano esithile ngaphandle kokuvela kwemfazwe entsha phakathi kwamalungu, oko kukuthi, ngokubhekisele kumaqela emnye. Okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ukuxolelana kukuxhasa ukuzimela kwamalungu athileyo aphikisanayo kwaye kwezinye iimeko kuthatha indawo enye yokungenelela kwamgweba.