Ngokuhamba kwexesha, yonke into kweli hlabathi iguquka, kuquka izinto eziphilayo. Kwinkqubo yobomi bentlalo, abantu bayatshintsha, ubomi bonke bomntu-uphuhliso oluqhubekayo, ngokuqala ngokuzalwa komntwana ngexesha lokubeleka nokuphela kokufa ngokomzimba.
Ukuguquka kobuntu
Ubuntu bomntu buyaqhubeka ngokuqhubekayo, oko kukuthi, kukho utshintsho oluqhubekayo lobuntu bomntu , utshintsho kwingqondo yakhe. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba utshintsho olwenzeka ngomzimba womntu kunye nobuntu balo abubonakali kakhulu ukugcina, kuba litshintsha ngokwalo. Ukongezelela, utshintsho lwendalo lwangokwemvelo "olufakwe" kwisicwangciso "sesicwangciso sendalo" esithile sokuphuhliswa kwendalo kunye nokukhokelela kwimeko ethile kwindawo ethile ebomini ayihambisani nexesha lophuhliso lobuntu. Ngoko ke, abantu bakhula ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo kunye neendlela ezahlukeneyo. Kukho, nangona kunjalo, iipateni zeminyaka yobudala.
Ukukhuthazwa kweenguqu kunye nemisebenzi
Ukuphuhliswa kobuntu bomntu kubangelwa kuphela "isicwangciso" semvelo sokuphuhliswa kweminyaka, ubuntu, kunye nomzimba, uqala, okokuqala, kwimisebenzi. Imisebenzi yoluntu ibangelwa yimfuno, iinjongo kunye nezizathu, ezingafaniyo kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo kunye namaxesha ahlukeneyo okuphuhliswa. Ngaloo ndlela, sinokuthetha ngokuguqulwa kwezinto ezibangelwa ngumntu ngamnye kulo lonke ubomi bakhe. Umzimba unemfuno ebalulekileyo, kwaye umntu unemfuno zomntu siqu (umzekelo, iimfuno zokuzibona, ukuqaphela, ukuhlonipha, njl.
Kwengqondo yengqondo yeCG Jung (kunye nezinye iinguqu zengxelo zeKyung zengqondo yezobunzulu zanamhlanje), phantsi kokuguqulwa kobuntu kuyamkelwa ukuqonda nje kuphela utshintsho olwenzekayo nomntu kwinkqubo yophuhliso lwakhe, kodwa kunye nenkqubo kunye nomphumo womntu ngamnye. Ngabantu ngabanye kule meko kubhekiselele kuphuhliso oluzimele oluzimeleyo kunye nokuzikhusela ngokwabo , okungahlali kuhambelana neenjongo zesimo, kwakunye neenjongo kunye neenjongo zabanye abantu. Kwinkqubo yokuguquka komntu ngamnye, umntu ulahla kwi-narcissism yasekuqaleni, isiqhelo sobubomi bobuntu, esesigqabini esinye sezibonakaliso zezigaba ezithile zophuhliso, ngaphambi kokuba utshintshele kwiimeko zomntu ngamnye-obuninzi beengqondo kunye nokuzimela.