Ehlabathini lanamhlanje, kufuneka sisebenze nabantu abakujikelezile, ngokwayo umntu akakwazi ukufikelela ebomini. Ngoko ke, ukukwazi ukuthetha nabantu kubaluleke kakhulu.
Intetho yinto yokuqala umntu ahlawula ngayo emva kokubonakala. Kulo, abantu abakujikelezayo benze impembelelo yomntu. Ukukwazi ukuthetha ngokucokisekileyo kubalulekile kubini ubudlelwane bomntu kunye nasekusebenzeni ubomi. Kodwa akusiyo wonke umntu okwazi ukuthetha kakuhle kwaye alahle abantu. Kwabanye, ukunxibelelana nabanye yinkathazo enkulu kwaye bawazi nje ukuba bangafunda njani ukuthetha ngokukhululekile nabantu. Kodwa kuqinisekiswa ukuba xa umntu engakwazi ukuchaza ngokucacileyo nangokuchanekileyo ulwazi kwabanye, uluvo lwakhe aluyi kuthathwa lula. Ngaphezu koko, le ntetho ibenyukisa abachasi. Umntu onentetho enhle nefanelekileyo, ngokuchaseneyo, ungumhlobo obalaseleyo. Abantu abanjalo banamhlobo amaninzi, kwaye kulula ukuba baphile.
Indlela yokufunda ukuthetha?
- Indlela elula yokwenza impembelelo inokumomotheka. Musa ukulibala malunga nalo.
- Unomdla kwabanye abantu. Makhe axelele ngaye, engammangaleli ngamabali akhe. Ukuqhuba ingxoxo kwisangqa sezinto ozithandayo. Oku kuya kunika omnye umntu ukuba abe nokukhululeka nokuphakamisa ukuzithemba kwakhe.
- Okokuqala, fumana igama lomntu oya kuthetha naye. Sebenzisa igama lakhe ngethuba lencoko.
- Yiba ngumphulaphuli olungileyo, khuthaza abanye ukuba bakhulume nabo.
- Enye yeemfihlelo, indlela yokufunda indlela yokuthetha kakuhle, kukukwazi ukubuza imibuzo efanelekileyo ngethuba lencoko-oku kuthetha imibuzo efuna impendulo enzulu. Oku kuya kuphepheka ukuphazamiseka ngokungathandekiyo kwingxoxo.
- Kwinkampani yabantu abangaqhelekanga, kungcono ukungabandakanyeli kwingxoxo kuze kube yilapho uqonda ukuba zeziphi izihloko eza kuba nomdla kubo bantu.
- Gcina umgama. Ungasondeli ngokusondeleyo, umgama ongaphantsi kweesentimitha ezilikhulu uya kuthathwa njengengqalelo ephakamileyo kwinqanaba lakho.
- Kwintetho ekhangelekayo ingcono emehlweni, injalo kubaninzi abahlali bekhululekile, kunye nendawo engabonakaliyo kuyo. Kwaye ungakhange ukhangele phambili, ngokukhawuleza ujonge.
- Musa ukulibala malunga ne-gesticulation. Kufuneka kube ngokulinganayo. Vula izandla zihamba kakuhle kwaye zincinci, zihamba, zihamba zihamba.
- Ukuba ufuna ukuba ngumnxibelelwano othakazelisayo, unomdla kwihlabathi, iziganeko, ufumane uvuyo ebomini, vumela ubomi bakho buqhubeke, ngoko abantu baya kufuna ukuthetha kwakho.
Indlela yokufundisa ukuthetha nabantu?
Ngokwahlukileyo, sifanele sihlale sijonga indlela yokufunda indlela yokunxibelelana nabafana. Ayifuni izakhono ezizodwa, kodwa ukuba ube ngumnxibelelwano olungileyo phakathi kwamadoda, kufuneka ukhumbule iimfihlo ezimbalwa zokunxibelelana ngesondo esinamandla.
- Xa ukhetha izihloko zengxoxo, kulungile ukukhumbula ukuba isangqa semithwalo yamadoda ihluke kwiyabasetyhini. Izihloko eziqhelekileyo zengxoxo ziimoto, izithuthuthu, izifundo, umsebenzi, iikhosi zokukhusela, iindaba, imozulu kwaye ihlala ikhetho lokunqoba - le yintando yomnxibelelwano.
- Ungaphambuki kwisihloko, kunzima indoda ukuba ibambe ingcamango xa incoko isuka kwenye ukuya kwenye.
- Amadoda afana nokuthetha, xa beqonda injongo yencoko, ngoko baziva belawulwa ngolu hlobo.
- Thetha ngqo kwaye eqinisweni, ungasebenzisi izicatshulwa
kunye nokushiya. Ukuba ufuna ukubuza-ke umbuzo kufuneka uchaneke kwaye ucace ngokusemandleni. - Amadoda amaninzi afumana kunzima ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zabo, kuba umhlaba weemvakalelo unomngqamko kwaye uyesabisa. Cinga oku, kwaye kuya kuba lula ukuba uthethe nabo.
- Ukuthabatha, ukuvuleka nokuzithemba ngeke kushiye amadoda angaboniyo.
Indlela eqinisekileyo yokuqonda indlela yokufunda ukunxibelelana kalula kwaye kulula nabantu kubonisa ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo, ngeli xesha upholisa izakhono zakho. Kuphela inkolelo kunye nokwesaba ukuphuma kubantu kuya kubakho nantoni na.