Ukuzibandakanya yile talente kunye nobuhlobo bokudala. Abantu abanxibelelana nabo banomdla kwaye banokuzithemba, abayikwenkxwa ngabahlobo abatsha kunye noonxibelelwano oluhle. Ngaphambi kwabo, zonke iingcango zivulekile, zithembeke ngakumbi kunokuba zivaliwe. Ukufumana abantu abanezakhono ezinxibelelwano eziphezulu kwiinkampani abayi kuba nzima, bahlala bephakathi kwaye bahlala bekhokeli. Ukukwazi kwabo ukunxibelelana badonsa kubo, ngenxa yoko, banamaxesha amaninzi abahlobo nabahlobo abaninzi.
Izakhono zokuxhumana kunye nezakhono eziphuhliswayo kwasebuncinaneni kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo zixhomekeke ngqo kwixesha lokuqalisa umntwana ukuthetha. Ukukwazi ukunxibelelana kuxhomekeke kummandla womntwana, kubazali bakhe kunye nabathandekayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba kukho abantwana abadala kwiintsapho, umntwana ufumana ulwimi olufanayo nabanye.
Ngokuqhelekileyo impumelelo yabantu ixhomekeka kwizakhono zabo zokunxibelelana. Umzekelo, esikolweni umfundi, engazi isifundo, unokuxelela uthisha izinto ezininzi ezithakazelisayo, nangona kungenjalo kwisihloko, kodwa ekugqibeleni ufumana uvavanyo oluhle, kwaye umfundi ofunde isifundo, kodwa akakwazi ukuwuhambisa ngesimo esihle kumfundisi, ufumana ibhola ephantsi .
Indlela yokuphuhlisa izakhono zokunxibelelana?
Ukuze ube ngumntu onomdla, kufuneka ulandele la macebiso alandelayo:
- Musa ukuphepha ukunxibelelana. Xoxa yonke indawo: emsebenzini kunye nabalingane, kwididi nabamelwane, udibana nabahlobo. Ukuthetha nabantwana, abadala, abadala. Bonke bangakunika into ebalulekileyo. Abantu abaseminyakeni baya kukufundisa ubulumko babo, kwaye abantwana baya kubachaphazela ngethemba kunye nokungakhathali.
- Ukuzonwabisa ngokuzonwabisa. Funda ukulawula unxibelelwano lwakho. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba incoko iqhubela kwisitishi esingathandekiyo - shintsha isihloko.
- Ungabi mthethweni kakhulu. Ukuba ufuna abantu bathande ukuthetha nawe, xhaphaza. Musa ukuphendula imibuzo kwi-monosyllables. Ukomisa kweempendulo zakho kuthathwa njengokungafuni ukuthetha.
- Kuphuhliso loqhagamshelwano, sebenzisa i-gymnastics. Kukho amanani omsebenzi wokuphuhliswa kwezakhono zonxibelelwano. Ngokomzekelo, hlala phambi kwesibuko uze uzame ukubonisa iimvakalelo ezahlukahlukeneyo ebusweni bakho: ukwesaba, uvuyo, ukudakumba, ukudabuka, njl njl. Le nqubo iya kunceda ukulawula indlela yobume kwinkqubo yokunxibelelana nokwandisa ukuzithemba.
Funda ukuthetha ngokuchanekileyo. Ukuze ungeyiki kwaye ungakuphepheli, kufuneka ube ngumhlobo owamkelekileyo. Yintoni efunekayo kule nto?
- phu laphule umdlali wakho;
- Emva kokugqiba umboniso wengcamango yombambiswano, phawula iinkalo ezintle zobungqina bakhe uze uthethe into ongavumelaniyo nayo;
- ukubonisa imbono yakho ngaphandle kokucaphukisa okanye ukuhlazisa abanye;
- uzama ukufumana nayiphi na ingxabano isisombululo sokwehlisa.
Ezi ndlela zikhuthaza ukuphuhliswa kwezakhono zonxibelelwano kubantu abadala. Le setethi yamacebo kunye nezicwangciso zilula, kodwa zisebenza kakuhle. Emva kokusebenza kwabo ngokwenza, umntu uyakwazi ukuphumelela kuluntu nakwimisebenzi yakhe yomsebenzi.
Iintlobo zonxibelelwano zezakhono
Uqhagamshelwano luquka ezimbini iintlobo:
- amazwi;
- engekho.
Uhlobo lo kuqala luquka amagama, izivakalisi, amabinzana. Olu luhlobo olulula kunxibelelwano. Udidi lwesibini lubandakanya ubuso kunye nesenzo. Ulwimi lwakwazi ukuthetha ngaphezu kwamagama ngokwabo, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuphuhlisa ikhono lokuveza iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo ngokusebenzisa iindlela ezingabonakaliyo zonxibelelwano ukwenzela ukuphucula izakhono zonxibelelwano. Ngenxa yokuphuhliswa kwabo, umsebenzi ochazwe ngasentla ngeglasi ayibi.
Ukungafezeki kwezakhono zonxibelelwano kunokubakho ubomi. Kungcono ukuba ufunde olu buchule, izithuba ezingaphezulu ziya kuvulwa phambi kwakho. Beka umgomo ukuba ube ngumhlobo omnandi kwaye ujonge le njongo kwaye ngokukhawuleza uza kubona ukuba isangqa sahlobo kunye nabahlobo bakho banweba njani, kwaye njani ubomi bakho buye begqithiswa ngayo kumgangatho omtsha.