Ukuze kuqondwe, kubalulekile ukuthetha ngokucacileyo.
Demosthenes
Kukho izizathu ezibalulekileyo zokuba kutheni umntu afunde ukuthetha ngokuchanekileyo.
- Abantu bakugweba ngento othethayo, kwaye ukuba unokwenza kakuhle, unokubachaphazela kakhulu. Kungenxa yoko izithethi zenza umkhwa wokumemezela zonke iilwimi ngokuchanekileyo, nokuthetha ngokulumkisa nesidima sisiseko sendlela yokuziphatha yokuthetha.
- Ukuba awukwazi ukuthetha, abaphulaphuli bakho bangakuqondi. Ngamanye amaxesha iimpazamo kunye nokungakwazi ukubeka iingcamango zabo ngamazwi zikhokelela kwimiphumo ebulalayo.
- Ukukwazi ukuthetha kungeyikuphucula kuphela intetho , kodwa kuya kwenza kube lula kwaye kukuhle ukubonisa iingcinga zakho ngokubhala. Inkcubeko yokunxibelelana kwentetho yinkcazelo eyinkimbinkimbi; ukuphuhliswa kwengxenye enye kuthetha ukuphelelwa kwesinye.
Inkcubeko yentetho inceda amalungu omphakathi agcine ingxoxo kunye noqhagamshelwano, ukuxazulula iingxaki ezikhulayo, ukubonisana kunye nokuphucula ubomi bomnye nomnye. Yingakho ukubunjwa komntu obutyebi kunokwenzeka ngaphandle kokwakhiwa kwenkcubeko yentetho.
Indlela yokuphucula izakhono zakho zokuthetha?
Okokuqala, funda iincwadi kwiingxelo. Ngoku baninzi kakhulu, kuwo onke amanani kunye nenani lexesha elikhululekile. Kwiinkqubo zokufunda ukuzisebenzisa izakhono ezifunyenweyo, zama ukuqala incoko enomdla kwisihloko esifanayo kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zabaphulaphuli.
Yeka iintloni ukuba ucelwa ukuba wenze intetho; ungayithathi njengento ekhethekileyo, kodwa nje njengesinye isizathu sokuziqhelanisa.
Ungasebenzisa amashishini okukopela, ucinge ngeemeko ezingaqhelekanga zokuthetha. Ekugqibeleni, thetha nomhlobo wakho malunga nento engalindelekanga, malunga noko akukhathalele wena okanye ubomi bakho, kodwa kunomdla kubo bobabini. Indlela efanelekileyo yokufudumala iimvakalelo kwaye ukhumbule imihla yokuqala oye waxoxisana ngayo ukuze uzalise ikhefu elithandekayo.
Funda kabanzi malunga nolwimi lwakho lwasekhaya. Ngoku iincwadi ezininzi ezintle kwiilwimi, ezibhaliweyo ngesitayela esilula. Unako ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimidlalo yengqondo, ngaphandle koko, eli sihlandlo esingavamile sokuhlangana nomfundi ohloniphekileyo umhlobo kunye nendlela yokuzama isandla sakho kwiimeko ezingaqhelekanga, mhlawumbi ukwenza iziqhelana ezintsha.
Into ebalulekileyo ukuyiqonda kukuba intetho yomntu isithethe akusiyo imfundiso yesikolo esivuthayo. Leli thuba lokusebenzisa ngokuthe ngqo ulwimi lwentsimi, ukwandisa ukuzithemba, kunye nokunye-ithuba lokufunda lula ulwimi lweelwimi. Ngoko, lo ngowomnye "umnyango" kwihlabathi elithakazelisayo nelitsha!