Ukuphulaphulwa okungabonakaliyo

Ukuphulaphula okungaphenduliyo uluhlobo olukhethekileyo lokubheka amagama omnxibelelwano, apho umphulaphuli engathuli, obalaphula kakhulu kwaye engaphenduliyo ngentetho ayayiva. Kwiimeko ezinzima, kunokwenzeka ukongeza ibinzana elingathwali naluphi na uvavanyo. Ingundoqo yeentetho ezingabonakaliyo ngokufanelekileyo akufanele ziqwalaselwe, kodwa ngokumkelekileyo ukuba zamkele oko okuthethwa ngumxhasi.

Imithetho yeengxoxo ezingabonakaliyo

Olu buchule ludinga ukuthotyelwa kwemithetho ethile, ngaphandle kweyiphi intetho engeyiyo ingcamango eyahlulekayo. Kukho ezimbalwa kuphela:

1. Ukukhanyela ngokupheleleyo nayiphi na iphazamiso yentetho yomnxibelelwano.
2. Ukukhanyela ukuvavanya xa ufumanisa amagama athetha ngawo umdibaniselwano.
3. Ukugxininisa yakho ingqalelo ngokuthe ngqo kumagama omnxibelelwano, kwaye kungekhona kwizigwebo zakho kunye neengcinga malunga namazwi akhe.

Ukuphulaphula okungaxilwanga kunye nokungabonakaliyo kunomlinganiselo obalulekileyo: ukuba kwimeko yokuqala kubonwa ngabanye ngamagama abantu agxininiswayo, ngoko kwimeko yesibini umntu kufuneka anike ukulinganisela komntu.

Luya kuthatha nini ubuchule bokuphulaphula okungabonakaliyo?

Ngokuqhelekileyo, umnxibelelwano ufuna ukukhawuleza ukubeka iingcamango zabo, iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo malunga noko bakuvile, kodwa akusoloko kulungile. Ngokomzekelo, kuzo zonke iintlobo zengxoxo, xa kubalulekile ukuqonda oko umntu akufunayo, kukuphulaphula okungengabonakali okuya kukuvumela ukuba uqonde ngokukhawuleza umdibaniselwano.

Ukuba kukho ukuxhatshazwa kwintetho, kuthethwa imibuzo ebuhlungu, kubalulekile ukuvumela umntu ukuba athethe, kwaye angazami ukukholisa umntu ngokwakhe ngokukhawuleza. Yiyo le ndlela eya kunceda ukuxazulula ubunzima, kunokuba idale ezintsha. Ukuba ubona ukuba umntu ufuna ukuveza iimvakalelo ezithile, kodwa engazi apho aqala khona, kumnceda ngombuzo ofanelekileyo: Ngaba kukukhathaza? "Okanye okufanayo. Emva koko, kufuneka usebenzise indlela yokuphulaphula ukuphulaphula, okuya kukuvumela umntu ukuba akuxelele ngokukhawuleza malunga noko ufuna ukukuxelela.

Kakade ke, xa kuthengwa ingxoxo okanye ingxabano, le ndlela ayinakwenzeka ngokupheleleyo. Kulo naluphi uhlobo loqhagamshelwano lwezoshishino, ukuphulaphula okungenasiphelo kungekuze kusetyenziswe, kuba kulo mzekelo unxibelelwano lujongene nemisebenzi eyahlukileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukuphulaphula okungabonakaliyo kubonakala njengetshe ehamba phambili kwizakhono ezibalulekileyo ezifana nokuphulaphula ngokuchanekileyo okunokusetyenziswa kwiimeko ezininzi kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo kukho iziphumo ezintle.