Indlela yokuphuhlisa indlela?

Nsuku zonke siva kwiintetho eziqhelekileyo ukuba umntu akakhanyeli ngumbono, kwaye umntu unalo talente ngobuninzi. Ukuqonda umbuzo - kuthetha ukuthini, kufuneka uqaphele ukuba le nto iyimfanelo engummangaliso ehlonishwayo ebomini. U-Wit ubuchule bomntu ukuvakalisa iingcamango zakhe ngendlela engavamile, ebonakalayo yinto encinci yoluntu.

Ngabantu abanobuqili, kuhlala kunomdla ukuthetha, bakhawuleza baba ngumphefumlo wenkampani, kubonakala kubatye abo bajikelezayo. Ngoko ke, abantu abaselula bahlala bezibuza ukuba bafunde njani ukuphuma ngaphandle kwesihlwele sabahlobo, kodwa iimpawu zale talente kufuneka zibe kwidilesi yezofuzo. Ukuphuhlisa italente "ulwimi olubukhali" kuya kunceda ukunxibelelana rhoqo nabantu abanezilumko abaya kuba nako ukuxelela ezininzi ezifundisayo.

Indlela yokuphuhlisa indlela?

Ukufunda kwakho kuya kunceda ukubonakalisa entetho yakho, xa ufunda iincwadi ezininzi ngeenkcazo "ezibukhali" zengxelo, xa kunjalo isitokisi sakho "samagama amancinci" atyhula. Khetha iincwadi ezithandwayo ezibhalwe kwi-comic, ufunde iqoqo kunye neengcaphuno zabantu abadumileyo - Faina Ranevskaya, ifilosofi yekhulu le-11 u-Omar Khayam, njl.

Emva kokuba ufunde amabinzana amaphiko kwaye ufunde amahlaya angcolileyo, funda indlela yokuwasebenzisa ngexesha lokuthetha. Kufakwe ngokungalunganga, nokuba ngamahlaya abukhali kwaye ahlakaniphile, ngokusobala akayi kudibanisa kuwe amaphuzu ekuqaphelisweni kwendalo yonke, kunoko, ngokuchaseneyo - aya kunciphisa ukulinganiswa phakathi kwabahlobo. Ukuqonda kwelinye lentetho yakho, ngokungalindelekanga, ukuphelisa ukuthetha ngendlela eqhubekayo ngayo ingxelo, kodwa yatshintsha kakhulu intsingiselo yayo. Umzekelo, ibinzana elithi Mark Twain: "Ukuyeka ukutshaya kulula. Ndiphosa amaxesha amahlanu. " Okokuthi, ekupheleni kwegama alinakuqhubeka nje ingcamango, kodwa liphinde lenze intetho ephindwe kabini.

Ubuqili kunye nokuthetha ngentetho kubonakaliswe ngokufutshane kwiibinzana "ezimangalisa". Akukho mntu uya kuba nomdla ekuphulaphuleleni intetho ende, enokuzihlambalaza, kodwa uluhlu lokudlala lokudlala luya kubakho ukubonakaliswa kwakho.