Ukuziva uthandayo kwaye uyimfuneko ngenye yezidingo ezibalulekileyo ngamnye umntu. Xa ujikelezwe ngabantu abafuna wena, inkxaso yakho kunye noncedo lwakho, ubomi bunombala, kukho ukukhuthaza nokuphucula. Yaye xa kungekho mntu ulwabelana nabo ngempumelelo, imibala yoluphi ulwahlulo luphela.
Siphila kwihlabathi eliyingxaki - sizungezwe ngamawaka abantu, imihla ngemihla sithetha kwaye sazi. Ngokukodwa oku kusebenza kubahlali bezixeko ezinkulu. Kwaye ngokudlukisayo, amadoda namabhinqa amaninzi abavakalelwa kukuba banesizungu. Kwaye wonke umntu uzama ukulahla le ntliziyo aze afumane unyango lwakhe lo lonwabo.
Uvakalelwa kukuba ulunwabo luvela kubantu abahluke ngokupheleleyo ngezizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo. Abantu abaninzi abaphumelelayo kunye nabangaphandle baphuthele emphefumlweni. Ngaphambi kokuba uzame ukujamelana nesizungu, kufuneka uqonde isizathu sokubonakala kwayo.
Umbono kwingcambu
Ngokutsho kweengcali zeengqondo ezivela kwihlabathi lonke, uvakalelo lwentlanzi luvela kwezi zizathu zilandelayo:
- ukungaqiniseki ngokwabo kunye namandla abo. Abantu abanjalo baninzi babe neengxaki malunga nokubonakala kwabo kwaye kunzima ukuba baqhagamshelane. Ukukhuseleka kubangela ukwesaba ukukhangela ubuqili kunye nokunyaniseka, oko kukukhokelela ekuzimeleleni kunye nobukhulu;
- yindiza. Abasetyhini abaninzi bayesaba ukuba bodwa kunye neengcamango zabo. Ngoko ke, bazama ukuhlala kunoma yimuphi ummandla ngamaxesha onke, ngokude nje ukuba bangahlali bodwa;
- kuzingca. Abantu abanobugovu, abanomdla kuphela ngabantu babo, bahlala behlala bodwa. Xa umntu engenawo umnqweno wokunceda omnye, uvakalelo lweemfesane kunye nokuqonda, abanye bajika kuye. Loo mntu unokuba nolwazi olubanzi lwabaziyo, kodwa kunqabile ukuba kukho abahlobo bokwenene. Kwakhona kunzima ukuba i-egoists ifune umlingane wayo, kuba kufuneka ukuba bangakwazi ukuthabatha kuphela, kodwa kwakhona ukubuyisela iimvakalelo zabo.
Ukujongana nesizungu, okokuqala kufuneka ubeke uze ukhangele. Ingxaki yethu nganye isentloko yethu, kukho kwakhona isisombululo sayo. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ingxaki yakho kwaye uyifumane isizathu.
Sisebenza
Emva koko, kufuneka ulahlekise isizathu esibangela ukuba unesizungu. Iindlela ezifanelekileyo kulo mbandela ukuthetha nabathandekayo. Ingaba ngumhlobo ongcono okanye umntu othandekayo ukuba unako ukuthetha ngokumalunga nokukhala. Ukuxhaswa ngumhlobo kunye nokuqonda kwakhe kusenza sive ukuba siyafuneka.
Ama-Egotist kufuneka afunde ukuphulaphula umxhasi. Zama ukuyeka ukuthetha ngawe uze uphulaphule iimvakalelo zabanye. Mhlawumbi kuwe kuya kuba ngumntu ovulekileyo, kodwa abantu abaninzi banamava efanayo njengawe, kwaye banokukunceda ukujamelana nesizungu.
Yi nyaniso. Ukunyaniseka kubamkele iimeko ezilungileyo kunye nabantu abanyanisekileyo. Musa ukugqoka imaski yokungakhathaleli nokugqiba
Yaye isiluleko sokugcina senza ubuchule. Umsebenzi wobugcisa yinkqubo enkulu evumela ukuba sithole amathuba amatsha, iitalente kwaye sifumane abantu abanomdla. Ngelixa usebenza ngobuchule, awuyikugxotha iingcamango eziphazamisayo, kodwa sebenzela kwisisombululo sabo.
Ivakalelo lonwabo, ngezikhathi ezithile, liza kubo bonke abantu. Kwaye sinokukwazi ukujongana nathi kuphela. Kubalulekile, kuyo yonke imeko, nokuba yinto engathandekiyo, ukufunda isifundo kwaye uzame ukungena kuwo.