Ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva umntu ngamnye udibana naloo mbono. Kungenzeka naliphi na ixesha nakweyiphi indawo. Ngokomzekelo, emva kokuvuswa ngolunye usuku, uyaqonda ukuba ukhathele ngokuphila kwaye umbuzo othi "Yintoni endiyenzayo kwimeko?"
Ungatshintsha njani ubomi ukuze ube ngcono?
Uninzi mhlawumbi, wena, uyazi, kutheni unobungozi kakhulu entliziyweni kwaye kuvela phi, kubonakala ngathi ubomi buba nzima. Ngaphambi kokuba siyiqonde into enokuyenza, ukuba ubomi bubuhlungu, zama ukucacisa isizathu esona sizathu esisihlazo kuwe:
- Mhlawumbi wenza into ongenayo umdla. Ngokomzekelo, ukulahla iphupha lakho, wena, njengowomgca we-rat kwisangqa esichukumisayo , hamba imihla ngemihla emsebenzini ongathandekiyo.
- Akukhangekanga ukuba uhlala ngamandla. Ngaphakathi uvakalelwa kukuba ubomi bufanele kube yinto enye, bhetele, bhetele.
- Awunabo abantu abasondele entliziyweni yakho, ugugu lo lonwabo kwaye usuku nosuku uphazamiseka ngumbuzo othi "Yintoni oyenzayo?".
- Ngokuqhelekileyo wayejamelana noloyiko olusisiseko.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo, ulondoloza kwiminqweno yakho, amaphupha. Zisoloko uzondla ngeengcamango eziza kusenza ngomso, kodwa azifiki ngomso.
Tshintsha iingcamango zakho - ubomi buya kutshintsha kwakhona.
Ubomi abuyi kutshintsha de wena ngokwakho ungayifuni.
- Balekela into oyithandayo, kwaye yintoni eyenza ugula entliziyweni.
- Lahla imikhwa engeyomfuneko eyokudonsa kwizantsi lomthombo wobomi.
- Cinga, mhlawumbi ukwesaba kwakho akukuvumeli ukuba ufezekise oko uhlala uphuphayo? Lahla iisanti zamaphupha akho.
- Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukutshintsha ubomi ? Ewe, qaphela nje iingcamango zakho. Emva koko, njengoko i-Lao Tzu ithe, "ziqalo zezenzo zethu."
- Ukuphuhlisa ukucinga okulungileyo . Beka iinjongo. Phu melela. Ungesabi ukunqotshwa. Emva koko, nayiphina impazamo ngamava.
Uthande ubomi. Akukho mntu owaziyo xa uya kuphelisa, ngoko kufuneka uzonwabele umzuzu ngamnye apha kwaye ngoku.