Ukufa akuphepheki, sonke siya kufa ngelinye ilanga, kodwa akusiwo wonke umntu ochaphazelekayo ngokunyamekela kwabo bathandekayo. Omnye wabaphenyi bezinto ezikufutshane nokufa kwaba ngu-Elizabeth Kübler-Ross, ugqirha owakhupha izigaba ezihlanu zokufa. Bonke abantu babo baziva ngendlela yabo, kuxhomekeka ngamandla abo ngengqondo yabo.
Izigaba ezihlanu zokufa
Ezi ziquka:
- Ukulahlwa . Ngomzuzu xa umntu enolwazi malunga nokufa komntu othandekayo, akanakholwa kwinto eyenzekayo. Kwaye nangona umntu othandekayo uye waya kwelinye ihlabathi ezandleni zakhe, uyaqhubeka ekholelwa ukuba ulele kwaye uza kuvuka. Unako ukuthetha naye, ulungiselele ukutya, kwaye ungatshintshi nantoni na egumbini lomfi.
- Intukuthelo . Kule nqanaba yokwamkela ukufa kwabathandekayo, abantu bavutha ngumsindo kwaye batshiswa. Uthukuthelele umhlaba wonke, i-destiny kunye ne karma, ubuza umbuzo: "Kutheni le nto yenzeke kum? Kutheni ndibe netyala kangaka? "Utshintshisa iimvakalelo zakhe kumntu ofileyo, ammangalela ngokushiya ngokukhawuleza, eshiya abathandekayo bakhe, ukuze aphile, njl njl.
- Yenza okanye uxoxe . Kule nqanaba, umntu uphendula ngokuphindaphindiweyo entloko ukufa komntu omthandayo kwaye udonsa imifanekiso enokuthintela intlekele. Kwimeko yokuphahlazeka kweendiza, ucinga ukuba umntu akakwazi ukuthenga ithikithi kule moya, ushiye emva koko, njl. Ukuba umntu othandekayo efile,
uze uvale umnxeba kuThixo, ucele ukugcina umntu obizayo uze uthathe indawo yakhe, umzekelo, umsebenzi. Ba thembisa ukuphucula, ukuba babe ngcono, ukuba umthandayo kuphela wayekufuphi. - Ukuxinezeleka . Kule nqanaba yokwamkela ukufa komntu othandekayo, umzuzwana wokuphelelwa lithemba, ukungabi nethemba, ukukrakra nokuzithemba. Umntu ekugqibeleni uqala ukuqaphela oko kwenzekayo, ukuqonda imeko. Zonke ithemba kunye namaphupha ziyawa, ukuqonda kuza ukuba ngoku ubomi akusayi kuze kube yinto efanayo kwaye kuyo ayiyi kuba yintanda ethandekayo nothando.
- Ukwamkela . Kule nqanaba, umntu uyamkela into engenakukhunjulwa, ukulungelelaniswa nokulahlekelwa kunye nokubuyela kwimpilo eqhelekileyo.