Bambalwa abantu abayaziyo ukuba yintoni into efanayo, nangona sihlala sihlangana nayo kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla. Le nqubo iqhutyelwa ngokudibanisa amaqela ahlukeneyo kwelinye, enenjongo efanayo. Le nqubo iqhutyelwa kwiindidi ezibalulekileyo zezesayensi, inkcubeko kunye neengqondo.
Yintoni efana nokufana?
Ngeli xesha, umxholo wokubambisana unemibuzo eminingi. Kwimiba nganye, kuba yiyeza, i-biology, inkolo, ingqondo yengqondo, njalo njalo, kuthetha ukuhlanganiswa kweqela elinye kunye nenjongo yokutshintsha kwinqanaba lokugqibela. Kubantu, ukufana njengenkqubo yokulahlekelwa yesazisi kazwelonke, ngokukhetha ezinye iindaluko zenkcubeko. Ngaloo ndlela, kwakhokelela ekubhubhiseni ngokupheleleyo kwezizwana kunye nokupheliswa ngokupheleleyo kwezithethe zabo. Ingaba yimizekelo emininzi:
- zendalo;
- nyamelo;
- nyanzelwa.
Ukuxhaswa kweeNkcubeko
Kwiinguqu zentlalo, le nkqubo ihlala ikhoyo, kuba iqinisekisa ukuba iphumelele. Umbuzo uvela: yintoni ukufana kunye kwaye kuthini ukuthatha inxaxheba kwintlalo? Le yinkqubo elula yokutshintsha iimpawu ezihlukeneyo zoluntu, enye enye evela kwabanye abantu. Kukho uhlobo lokungaphumeleli kwiingcamango zabantu ababekade bexhomekeke kwinkcubeko yabo, inkolo okanye ulwimi.
Ubume bokuzithandela kwenguqu eyahlukeneyo yinkcubeko ekhangayo kwaye le ndlela ijika umntu ngokukhawuleza. Ngelishwa, ebomini kukho imeko ezininzi zokunyanzelisa. Ngokuqhelekileyo kunokugqalwa kwiindawo apho imisebenzi yamkhosi ibanjwa khona. Kukho ukunyanzeliswa kokunyanzeliswa, kwaye urhulumente unquma abantu, ukuba bayintoni na ukukholelwa kuyo nendlela yokuziphatha ngayo.
Ukujongwa kwiShyiloji
Ukusuka kwinjongo yengqondo, izizathu zokubambisana zivela ngokuzenzekelayo, kuba ngaphandle kokuba umntu akakwazi ukuhambelana ngokuvisisana. Eli gama libhekiselele kwinxalenye enye yenkqubo yokulungelelanisa, oko kukufumana amava amatsha. Ukwahlula yindlela elula yokwazi ihlabathi , kuba akukho mfuneko yokuba uyamkele ininzi yolwazi. Ukuqala ngethuba lokusana, ezi zifundo ziqokelela kwimemori kwaye zihlala apho, zanda ngokuphindaphindiweyo.
Iimpawu zobungqina
Isiphumo esisemgangathweni sokuthi ukufana kufakwe ngokwahlukileyo ngokwempawu kwimiba yeelwimi. Amagama amaninzi abhaliwe ngenye indlela, kwaye ukuvakalisa kwawo okuvakalayo kuyahluke ngenye iileta ezimbini. Ezi nkqubo zihlala zihlangene kwizinto zobomi bemihla ngemihla, kwaye inkulumo yethu yokudibanisa iifom ezintsha kunye nezitsha ezingaqhelekanga. Ukuguqulwa kwezandi ezifanayo kubonakalise ezi zilandelayo zibonakaliso zoluhlu lweelwimi:
- qhagamshelana - ukuhlanganiswa kwezandi ezimbini eziseduze;
- inkqubela - isandi sangaphambili sichaphazela okulandelayo;
- izandi ezahlukeneyo ziyafana;
- Ukwahlukana - ukuhlanganiswa kwezandi ezingazange zame ecaleni;
- ukuhlaziywa - isandi esilandelayo sichaphazela enye yangaphambili;
- engagqibekanga - izandi ziyaqhubeka zichazwe, kodwa ziguqulelane ngezizathu ezithile.
Yintoni efana nokufana nokungafihli?
Phantse yonke into ekhoyo kwihlabathi. Ukwahlukana phakathi kokubambisana kunye nokungafihlisi kubangelwa kukuba kwimeko yangaphambili kukho ukudibanisa, okwesibini, ukubola. Ezi nkqubo zisoloko zingalingani, kwaye ngoko kukho ukungafani. Inketho yokuqala iqokelela amandla, kwaye okwesibini iyayichitha kwaye nayiphi na impazamo ibangela iingxaki. Ngokukodwa kuza kunye nobudala. Inkqubo yokubambisana kwabantwana ngaphambi kokukhula kwasekuqaleni, apho ukufunyanwa kwamandla kusebenza ngaphezu kwenkcitho yayo.