Indlela yethu yokuphila, njengomthetho, ipeyinti ngemibala emibini - emnyama nomhlophe . Xa sinyathela kumgca omhlophe, ubomi bubonakala kwiitoni eziqhakazileyo, ezizalisiweyo, kodwa xa ziphendulela abamnyama, abaninzi abantu behla izandla zabo, bathobe iintloko zabo baze bavume ukuba abafuni nje ukuhamba ... andifuni ukuhlala.
Namhlanje siza kukuxelela ukuba wenzeni ukuba izinto zihamba kakuhle kwaye kungekudala ukuphuma kwibhanti elimnyama uze ubuye kwilizwe elihle lembala kunye nemizwelo.
Yintoni enokuyenza xa kubonakala ukuba yonke into imbi?
- Khumbula ukuba iingcamango zizinto eziphathekayo. Ukucinga ngezinto ezimbi ukhangele izinto ezimbi, ezingonwabileyo nezinto ezingenabuhlungu ebomini bakho, ngaba ufuna? Ukuba ufuna ukuba konke kulungile, kufuneka ucinge ngokuqinisekileyo. Shintsha iingcamango zakho, kwaye ihlabathi elijikelezile liya kutshintsha.
- Imidlalo yonyango elifanelekileyo! Njengoko bethetha "emzimbeni ophilileyo - umoya ovuya." Ngena kwiholo, ungene ukudansa, ugijima ... ewe, nantoni na! Into ephambili ayikuhlala ngaphandle. Imisebenzi yezemidlalo ihlawuliswa ngesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kwaye ikuvumela ukuba uzive uhle kwaye ulungile. Yintoni enye into efunekayo ukuze ulonwabo kubameli beesigqeba esihle sabantu, ngaphandle komzimba omhle kunye nebala eliphilileyo.
- Unxibelelwano, unxibelelwano kunye kwakhona nokunxibelelana. Ngaba ufuna ukuvalela ngaphakathi kwakho kwaye ungavumeli nabani kwisithuba sakho somntu siqu? Qonda, le yindlela engafanelekanga. Xa ikati iyancwina emphefumlweni kwaye kubonakala ngathi ubomi buphelile, into eyona nto kukuxhasa izihlobo kunye nabahlobo. Ngoku kufuneka unxibelelwano olufunekayo kuwe ukuba ungathandi nanini ngaphambili.
- Musa ukugcina yonke into yakho. Ufuna ukukhala! Ufuna ukukhwaza - ukhuphukela entabeni uze umemeza ukuba kukho umchamo. Iimvakalelo ezifihliweyo ziba zigulo ezinzulu zengqondo, kungcono ukuzityhila kwaye ungacingi ngemibono yabantu abakujikelezile.
- Ungesabi ukucela uncedo. Ngamanye amaxesha sikhathele kakhulu ubunzima bobubomi nobomi, kwaye sonke sasikunceda
ku funeka. Unganqikazi ukucela ukukunceda, uncedo olufike ngexesha kunye nenkxaso maxa wambi unceda ukuphuma kwixinzelelo. - Musa ukuphuma kwiingxaki. Ukuxhatshazwa kweziyobisi, ukutshaya nokusela akukhethi. Ezi ndlela azisombululi ingxaki, kodwa kulula ukwenza umonakalo omkhulu kwimpilo.
Ungavumeli ukudandatheka kukuthathe. Gxotha umva wokulangazelela zonke, ezikhoyo kuwe, iindlela. Hambisa, phuhlise, ujabulele! Ubomi bethu bunemibala kwaye bunomdla kwaye bachithe bodwa , bekhalazo malunga nokuba yonke into embi, ubuncinane, ayifanelekanga.